Seek the help of a psychologist or teacher! ! ! ! ! ! How to get along with the villain at work? . . . . . . . . . .

I think your temperament should belong to a more elegant person, because you said you can't do larded school.

Compared with this, I am more mature, because I really think that larded school is useful, useful and beneficial!

So I want to advise you to change your introverted personality! Because of introversion, if you have something to say, you won't say it well, and you will be angry in your heart. Sometimes, actually, you are wrong about others. Let me talk about the defects of introverted personality: attention, it is my feeling!

1. If you have something to say, do you expect others to calculate it? I suggest you try to have something to say;

2. On the basis of having something to say, learn to speak well and pay attention to everyone's praise. If you praise others more and say good things about them, they will really give you a bad look and think you can't stand it. And you have to know that "three people must have my teacher" is really reasonable. Let me give you an example. You think your colleague is a villain. Why do you think so? I think people talk more, you talk less, the other party expresses it, and you seldom, so you expect the leader to be a person who secretly loves you every day and analyzes your personality? Try not to think that man is a villain. What do you think he is good at? For example, if the other person likes crystals, you can talk more about this topic without bothering to chat with anyone! ! ! Do you know why a master said that you can do marketing well in any industry? Just because you can talk, you can find a topic to talk about. Take crystal as an example, you can learn more about what is white crystal and amethyst, and then you can ask more questions, discuss more and pay more attention to your attitude. Because introverts, to be honest, suffer a lot in society! You did more than others said. And what you do is not always right, which is exactly what leaders need!

3. Take more photos of your leader: To be honest, being a leader is stressful. You can try to talk to the leader. Implicit flattery is the best!

I think these questions you mentioned are nothing more than one of your big shortcomings: introversion! So just change your personality!

My husband is introverted, and introverted people always think too much. For example. It's almost Spring Festival. I had dinner with the company and he was at home. During the dinner, I QQ with him and said that I decided to go out for dinner with my friends in my fifth year. After a few words, I stopped talking. He didn't take the initiative to remind him on QQ mobile phone, so he needs to read it himself. As a result, my husband told me on QQ, "I went out for dinner with my friend XXX on the fifth day of the fifth grade and made a reservation." How did you decide to go out? " Then I didn't reply, and he got angry. He said to me on QQ: "whatever, your friend is the greatest, and your friend is everything!" " What about me? Eating and chatting, I don't know what's going on. I wonder why he ignored me when he got home. He chats with friends and plays online games. I didn't know until I opened QQ and asked what was going on.

Actually, do you think an introvert like him will sulk?

So, I expect you to think from another angle. You can try to put yourself in the company's shoes.

Then open your mouth and practice speaking your feelings (at this moment), then practice speaking beautifully, then practice speaking perfectly, and finally, after unfair and uncomfortable things happen, your language perfectly saves the whole scene.

Then try to host the scene, control the scene and learn to talk to all kinds of people.

If you are proud, ask him more questions that he is good at. I tell you, some people just need to talk about open questions, such as "what do you think?" "What do you say?" "I especially like what you said, which makes sense." You should know that most people, 90% people like to listen to nice words, and the more you say, the better! This is the eternal truth!

Then learn to understand others!

Then learn to be generous! When you can't solve something on the spot or afterwards, learn to smile, laugh and smile. In short, you can't solve it with a smile, which shows your generosity and temperament.

I tell you, there are not many little people in the world, only you have not communicated well!

You should learn to like and love what you are doing! The more you say you don't like it, the narrower your face and the more it affects your mood. The more it affects the mood, the body will bring discomfort, and then there will be an endless cycle! In fact, if you really don't like this industry, why do you want to stay in it? ! You know, if you don't love your career, you can't bring the realm and effect of crazy work. In fact, even if you don't like this industry, you should learn to pretend to like it! Because you don't know that many introverts don't like a thing or an industry, they can bring it out on their faces. As a leader, your employees don't like this industry. Will you like him? Will you reuse him? Therefore, learn to disguise when appropriate, and everything will be solved.

Sorry, either your grades or your questions make me want to talk! I hope you don't control when you can't grasp the scene, and put the hat of "you are the villain" on the other side.

Because wearing this hat doesn't help the situation!

You should think about solving the problem-solving the problem happily-solving the problem perfectly-everyone is around you-your popularity is very good ... this route! Instead of sitting in front of the computer and venting something!

You don't care about watching larded school do it. In fact, I learned a lot from it.

If you really don't like it, go and read Liu Yong's book, which is very rewarding!

Happy new year!