The old man said, "A child is like a mother, and a wall is made of bricks." Why?

In the traditional culture of China, there is a saying that people pay great attention to it. There are many sayings left by our ancestors about the art of knowing people. The existence of these sayings also makes our life more interesting. I believe you can also notice that people look a little similar to their parents, but in ancient times, people didn't know the existence of DNA at all. This result is just a summary of people's daily life.

It has two meanings that a son looks like a mother. First, from the facial point of view, if a son looks like his mother, it means that he will have food and clothing for most of his future life. Although there is no scientific basis for this statement, it has been acquiesced by people and has become an unwritten rule. There is also a character. Boys are generally masculine, but they are careless and irritable. If they can have the gentle and delicate side of their mother, they will get twice the result with half the effort.

There is also a saying that "the daughter follows her father and wears leather clothes". In ancient times, people thought that if a daughter looked like her father, the whole family would prosper whether she was married or in her own career, mainly because her father was the pillar of the family and was much more proficient in dealing with people, because if her daughter looked like her father, she would get along better in society and would not suffer easily.

In fact, this point is similar to the golden mean said by ancient saints, combining rigidity with softness. A person can't go too far. If you are too feminine, it will be difficult to give people a sense of trust, make people feel that they can't afford to do great things, and others won't let you do things easily, so your talents will be suppressed. If male chauvinism is too serious, it is easy to be impatient, and such people will handle things in a mess.