Arithmetic proposition of bald boy

A boy of 15 years old jumped to his death, which is an inexplicable sadness for his 35-year-old father. Grade three students were taken by the class teacher to shave their heads. Then the child refused to go to school because of pride. Parents and teachers are panicked. They exchanged information on WeChat, hoping to persuade their children to go to school. Because he shaved his hair, the victims of psychological rebellion even wore hats and masks to cover themselves up. 10 days later, because they couldn't persuade their children to go to school, they left the class teacher provided by the school where he couldn't go to school and visited at home. At this time, they found their son committed suicide by jumping off a building.

15 years old is an age full of hope and infinite possibilities. But because of his bald head, time has stopped here forever. Xiao Li's mother had no choice but to ask for leave. But Xiao Li's character has changed since then. He must wear a hat and a mask when he goes out. Ten days later, the head teacher visited her home. She said that if Xiao Li couldn't go to school, she could drop out of school. No one expected that Xiao Li would jump off a building before his parents left. The child is doing well in school. One month before shaving his head, he ranked in the top 9 in his class. The child had been teaching himself Japanese before the accident.

The teacher's rude teaching methods, students' unhealthy psychology and the lack of family communication eventually led to the tragedy. In the conversation between the teacher and his parents, the teacher said that he shaved his head, "I hope I can get inspiration from it." Low achievers will not be among the best because they have shaved their heads, and high achievers will not stumble because they have no baldness. I only see an upright student from the teacher's character, a student who has to give in. Education is not oppression, violence or vulgarity. It is a serious act of exceeding authority to trample on children's self-awareness and force students to shave their heads.

If the teacher doesn't respect the child's personal wishes, the child can't protect himself by shaving his head. The teacher said he didn't want to cut it so short, but since it was too short, it was difficult for the children to accept it. Teachers should first communicate with children themselves and gain understanding. However, instead of talking to the children on an equal footing, the teacher further "attacked" and proposed that he did not want to go to school and dropped out of school. The child became helpless, unable to release his anger, and finally attacked himself. He cares not only about hair, but also about boundaries. If he can't protect this border, he will be arbitrarily violated and manipulated.

Obviously, I think the teacher is wrong, and parents have been facing the teacher and think that the child is wrong. Not being understood, not being concerned, not seeing a way out. Finally, the children are desperate ... the lack of communication in the family is the last straw for the children. They don't pay attention to their children's true feelings, their self-esteem and their emotions, which eventually leads to tragedy. In fact, what children may need is the understanding and support of their parents.