(1) People with deep predestination are an emotional dependence and a support of life.

Between relatives, in fact, in the final analysis, it is very particular about fate. Not only pay attention to fate, but also pay attention to the depth of fate. When I say fate, I mean real good fate, which has nothing to do with doomed love.

People with deep predestination will get along easily. No matter what happens, you can understand quickly; No matter what is wrong, we can tolerate each other; No matter what the problem is, it is easy to communicate; Whenever and wherever, we can trust each other, talk to each other and rely on each other.

Relatives with deep fate call as soon as they enter the room, and look for them as soon as they disappear. Being with each other is a kind of peace of mind. If you leave for a short time, you will be worried. If you are far away, you will feel panic. Hearing the other person's voice on the phone, you can't help crying.

It's not that there are no contradictions. Sometimes there are small contradictions, no arguments, and a smile will pass. Sometimes the big contradiction is clarified, you can look sideways and you will be fine the next day. Of course, there will be a big conflict, so let's quarrel and solve it with a bigger conflict; After the quarrel, I was still very angry, but after I figured it out, my anger disappeared; Can't get rid of the anger, don't hate, but will remember for decades; Then, as the years make people mature or more sensible, they will be less angry, or understand right and wrong, and they will no longer be angry.

My father and I must be close relatives. We are father and daughter. Using a word "love" to describe our father-daughter relationship is too understatement; Measured by "guarding" each other, it still seems too thin and insignificant.

Of course, he is the father and the elder. As long as he is right, I always obey him and tell him to go east and never dare to go west. If I finish today's work, I won't dare to leave my tail for the night.

I once gave up my first love because of my father's opposition. On the overseas phone call, two people cried deeply and deeply, and their hearts were very painful, but after all, they still reluctantly gave up what they gave up, only because of their father's opposition, his father's analysis one by one, the big truth, the small truth, and the analysis of various specific situations.

During that time, my father also knew that I was in pain. But he didn't say anything, because everything was in place. He just distanced himself from me silently, let me immerse myself in pain, "enjoy myself", think and reflect, and then wake up calmly. Secretly, he must have asked his mother to cook me delicious, mostly semi-juicy desserts, hoping to rekindle my happiness.

Dad is also a very reasonable and respectful father. I asked him to help me, as long as he didn't violate the principle, he would definitely help me to the end, and he helped me beautifully. He will definitely not give in to what I ask him to "listen" and "do", and he will also "report" the results in detail.

I asked my father to arrange a job for one of my classmates, and I also asked my father to help a friend's brother find a job. He does everything, three days or a week, and they all report for work. When people came to thank him, he accepted all the gifts he brought: potatoes and fresh vegetables grown on the farm, and tea grown and made in his own home. He also left two young men for dinner, asking about the harvest in the countryside and caring about the income of farmers.

Dad, as a father, he did an excellent job, impeccable in all aspects. In my opinion, the song "Please be my father in the next life" is what I want to say to my father most.