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Nicky Wu, 5 1 year-old, cried bitterly and went on a hot search: How did the "injury" he suffered inside become the nourishment of love?

Say which one impressed CP the most ten years ago.

It must be grandpa four and ruoxi walking on thin ice.

Between them, a look, an expression, can understand each other.

Although it's a pity that they didn't get together in the end, Nicky Wu and Liu Shishi moved their love from the screen to reality, and it was a positive result on 20 15+654381October 20th.

After marriage, the relationship between the two is very stable, and every time they show their love, they can make others envy them.

I remember last year, when Nicky Wu was singing at a concert, Liu Shishi suddenly took a bunch of flowers to the stage and gave him a kiss.

Such a high-sugar interactive picture is so sweet that fans under the stage scream.

Recently, Nicky Wu and Justin participated in the variety show "Fans" and talked about the great temperature difference in the local area.

Justin revealed that Liu Shishi is very concerned about Nicky Wu.

I also sent a short message asking him to take care of her husband, reminding him to help Nicky Wu with his down jacket.

Zhang Xinyi also teased Nicky Wu, bluntly saying that someone sent a message late at night telling him to bring a down jacket, which was so enviable.

Nicky Wu was teased a little shyly, but her heart was full of sweetness.

So their marriage is really happy.

Moreover, they all publicly said: I am really happy!

As we all know, Nicky Wu experienced emotional ups and downs in the past, but now his happiness is not achieved overnight.

Meeting Liu Shishi was the fruit of his recovery from the robbery.

Recently, the topic # Nicky Wu cried # appeared on hot search. In the variety show, Nicky Wu looked back and couldn't help crying.

Looking back on Nicky Wu's past, we can explore the root of this sadness.

Nicky Wu has suffered a lot in the past. /kloc-just started out at the age of 0/8, and his family is in debt of tens of millions.

Therefore, he shoots day and night to make money.

At the age of 20, I have to pay back 200 thousand's debt every month.

In the most difficult time, I borrowed money from the brokerage company to pay off my debts.

In the first few years, he worked 10 hours a day and only slept for three or four hours.

It took him 12 years to pay off his debts.

Those days were miserable, and I had a mental breakdown.

In terms of love history, it is even more tortuous.

When he was young, he became famous overnight because of "Little Tiger", and soon he fell in love with Aile in the company's "Sorrow and Joy Team".

However, the relationship was discovered by the company, and the two ended in discord in the future.

Later, Nicky Wu and Bede Sulan, known as "Magnet", attracted each other.

The relationship didn't last long before it came to an abrupt end.

Then, he fell in love with Yang Caini.

At that time, Takeshi Kaneshiro was madly in love with Yang Caini, so he created a love triangle.

As a result, Nicky Wu lost what he loved.

Later, he fell in love with Ada Choi because of the play, and finally regretted breaking up.

200 1, I met her while filming Xiao Eleven Lang, was fascinated by her amorous feelings, and fell in love with her.

They fell in love for five years and got married.

Unfortunately, this happiness lasted less than two years, and the rumor of Ma Yashu's infidelity was exposed, and the marriage came to an end.

It was a bumpy journey before Nicky Wu met Liu Shishi.

Just like our own life, we always encounter all kinds of difficulties and setbacks.

These difficulties are constantly scouring our psychological dam.

If we are not strong enough, we may be overwhelmed by the trauma and emotion it carries.

Therefore, it left an indelible scar in our hearts.

Anthony, an American psychologist, put forward the concept of "psychological resilience"-

Refers to the good adaptation process of individuals in the face of adversity, trauma, tragedy, threats or other major pressures.

It is a kind of toughness and toughness.

We can't change what happened in the past, but we can strengthen our psychological resilience.

When we have the flexibility to adapt to the heavy blow of bad heart, we also have the ability to stop bleeding.

Grow hard strength from adversity and meet a better self.

Love is the fruit of self-healing

Nicky Wu is really happy now.

However, there may be something behind this that we don't know.

For example, the heavy pressure caused by family background.

After her divorce from Ma Yashu, she was once emotionally silent.

The twists and turns constantly test his psychological resilience.

Fortunately, he was not crushed by it.

Although I am often ridiculed by my ex-wife after divorce.

He remained calm and didn't speak ill of each other.

But silently digest the burden of trauma and gather strength to pounce on the cause again.

20 1 1, walking on thin ice made him famous again.

I also met my destiny takes a hand's lover-Liu Shishi.

Liu Shishi is full of fairy spirit, refined and gentle.

Born in a rich family.

Many people say that Nicky Wu is too old for her to get married.

But in fact, today's Nicky Wu is no longer a young man who is dragged down by his family and is reckless about his feelings.

He once said in an interview: "Marriage is a school, and life itself is also a school. Everyone will learn a lot from it ..."

He didn't lose because of the death of a marriage, but became more aware of his inner needs in his intimate relationship.

The tempering of life lessons made him know how to cherish Liu Shishi more.

Once thrifty, he would give Liu Shishi a dream wedding with no upper budget, and he would also give up his job to accompany Liu Shishi around the world, and even transfer hundreds of millions of shares under his name to Liu Shishi.

With his inner love, he gave Liu Shishi full of love and security.

Liu Shishi was also attracted by his maturity and was infatuated with him.

In public, when Nicky Wu's shoelaces are opened, he will bend down to tie his shoelaces;

Nicky Wu came home drunk after a dinner party. Instead of blaming him angrily, he prepared honey water for him to help him sober up.

Nicky Wu will be boasted by countless people when he cooks a table of dishes. ...

All these have nourished and cured Nicky Wu at a deeper level.

Nicky Wu once said, "In the past, I felt that God was unfair to me and made me suffer so much. But now it seems that everything is worthwhile. "

Yes, Liu Shishi is like his "medicine", which makes him from misfortune to luck.

If you meet the right person, you can really redeem yourself and get happiness!

But Nicky Wu's happiness today is also the result of self-repair.

Learn to heal yourself before meeting a good intimate relationship.

When the storm swept through, the mind was elastic enough to restart the love of life.

No matter how dark you are, you can hug yourself and fall in love with yourself.

Wait until in the process of self-healing, I become fresher and more complete.

Maybe the better lover is waiting for us not far away.

Grow up in the sun and meet the fruits of love in life.

The road of life, ebb and flow, is inherently impermanent.

Everyone may experience ups and downs like Nicky Wu.

However, this is no reason why we should stop loving ourselves and others.

The Bible says that love is an eternal promise.

Even if our life has undergone earth-shaking changes, we can still choose to love and grow.

Only in this way can we repair the wound and rekindle the light of life.

We may not be able to go back and change history.

But it can awaken the inner compassion and softness-accept the plot arranged by fate, and let your inner strength gush out more widely.

Although they look like "disaster movies" and "tragedy movies", they are all combined into an indispensable fragment in our lives.

If we struggle blindly:

Then, our internal organs will be squeezed by these negative emotions of rumination.

There is no room for love and sympathy anymore.

There is no way to accumulate positive energy and start the journey of life again.

All the cracks in fate are deeply hidden in our life lessons.

Acceptance is the starting point of change.

When we accept those unforgettable memories, those unforgettable memories are our friends.

No longer use strong power to suck away our vitality.

From this, we also went to the tunnel to freedom.

Peter Levin, a famous trauma psychologist, said: Trauma is not something that happens to us, but something that we hide in our hearts when there is no companion who feels the same.

Perhaps, not everyone's psychological endurance is hard enough. The more painful the emotions caused by those unbearable experiences, the more likely we are to hide them in our hearts.

If you don't have an empathetic companion around you, you may internalize the traumatic memory as a part of yourself.

Form some bad and solidified cognition and belief.

Make it difficult for you to get rid of the pain for the rest of your life.

This requires us to find that empathetic partner.

He may be a friend who is connected with our hearts, or an elder who is willing to listen to our stories.

Or find a psychological counselor with skills in dealing with trauma and use his professional strength to accompany him to heal the trauma.

When we bravely face the trauma and tell the painful process, the real cure touches a deeper level.

Life is an ever-changing cloud, and we can't predict whether the love in our hands will be lost in an instant or where we will meet the right person.

We don't have to worry, to guess.

But you can control yourself-learn to meet your own needs.

Meeting your own needs is the beginning of loving yourself.

It is also a skylight to open your own to your partner.

Teacher Defen also said: "If we learn to meet our own needs, especially the inner needs of" love, care and recognition ",then your partner is the luckiest person in the world and you are the happiest person in the world."

May we learn to love ourselves and thrive in the sun.

Meet the fruit of love in life!

Planning | Amy

Edit | Hungry Fish

Anchor | East School, radio anchor, second-level psychological counselor, meditation guidance.