13 years ago, in order to meet Andy Lau, Yang Lijuan forced his father to sell his house and committed suicide by jumping into the sea. What about now?

There is a story in the Book of the Later Han Dynasty that a proud son scolds his mother: once there was a man who was an only child at home and was spoiled by his mother. When he grew up, he became arrogant, insulted his mother and even beat her.

Later, he saw a cow's stomach was bloody. It turned out that the calf's horn had been poked. Some people say they shouldn't kill calves, even if their old mother will be hurt like this. Another person said that cows are animals after all, and some people are not as good as this animal!

The arrogant son was ashamed after hearing this, and hurried back to confess to his mother, turn over a new leaf, and be modest and filial. Yang Lijuan also grew up under the doting of his parents, but sadly, it was not until Yang Fu committed suicide that he discovered the problem of his education. It was not until yangfu committed suicide that Yang Lijuan realized that her biggest mistake was herself.

Yang Lijuan, the dream lover, was born in 1977 in Lanzhou, Gansu. This year, Yang's father was over 40 years old. For that era, having children at that age was already an "old child". Therefore, both yangfu and Yang Mu like Yang Lijuan very much. Although the family conditions are not good, Yang Fu has been trying his best to meet all the needs of his daughter.

Therefore, when he grew up, Yang Lijuan became arrogant and stubborn. From 65438 to 0994, after Yang Lijuan accidentally dreamed of Andy Lau, he became obsessed with Andy Lau. In fact, it was the most popular time in Andy Lau at that time, and there were many people who liked Andy Lau, but it was very rare for Yang Lijuan to be so "crazy".

1995, 18-year-old Yang Lijuan is crazy about Andy Lau. From then on, he didn't study, didn't work, didn't make friends, shut himself in his room all day, watched Andy Lau's movies every day, learned Andy Lau's songs, and fantasized that Andy Lau would appear in his life one day.

Although yangfu and Yang Mu knew it was not good, they never said "no" to their daughters. They not only indulged their daughters in being so alive, but even helped them idolize together in an irrational state.

From 65438 to the death of Yang Fu in 0997, Yang Lijuan's infatuation with Andy Lau was almost enchanted. In order to get her daughter out of the "misery", Yang Fu simply spent 9,900 yuan to let Yang Lijuan go to Hong Kong, but at that time their family's monthly income was less than 2,000 yuan.

As a result, after Yang Lijuan went to Hongkong, he didn't see Andy Lau at all, and he was finally disappointed. In 2003, in order to support the idolatry in Yang Lijuan, they even sold their house and moved into a small house that rented 400 yuan every month.

In 2006, Yang's father even planned to sell his kidney to raise money to support his daughter's idol career, but in the end he gave up because there was no "channel". At this time, Yang Lijuan's crazy idolization was also known by the media. In 2007, under the arrangement of the media, Yang Lijuan finally met Andy Lau, but only once.

Yang Lijuan, who thought he could have a good chat with Andy Lau, met all ordinary fans when he arrived at the scene, which made Yang Lijuan feel left out. She feels that 10 years of hard work has not been rewarded, which makes her very sad.

As a result, the next day, Yang Fu left a suicide note and committed suicide by jumping into the sea. He really can't hide that his daughter is so sad for Andy Lau, and he is willing to use his own death to attract Andy Lau's attention. In the suicide note, he cursed Andy Lau and begged Andy Lau to sign Yang Lijun's name to save her.

After her father died, Yang Lijuan wept bitterly and felt remorse, but she didn't reflect at all. Instead, she complained that Andy Lau was sorry for her family's efforts.

But in fact, the so-called "devotion" of the Yang Lijuan family to Andy Lau is totally a morbid wishful thinking. Andy Lau is an actor, not an actor. He lives by his own works and works hard. He has no obligation to "save" Yang Lijuan, and there is no reason to be responsible for Yang Fu's death.

After all, there are two reasons. A young father and a young mother doted on Yang Lijuan very much. Even though she knew it was wrong for Yang Lijuan to give up idolatry, she still didn't give proper education and guidance.

Yang Lijuan's own problems are even bigger. Because of his parents' love for him, he even asked his parents to sell their houses and "sell" their kidneys to support his idol career. Even after his father committed suicide, he remained unrepentant, and even after many years, he still held a grudge against Andy Lau.

On 20 14, she was a guest in "Oriental Live Room" and said that "Andy Lau is not worth wasting your youth". In fact, this is not Andy Lau's problem at all, but Yang Lijuan's romantic blindness and idolized willfulness and unfilial.

Fortunately, now, 43-year-old Yang Lijuan finally wakes up a lot and finally understands that his willfulness and stubbornness led to his father's tragedy. Now Yang Lijuan no longer dreams of idolization, but returns to a down-to-earth life, becoming a shopping guide and living with her mother.

From Yang Lijuan's story, it is concluded that family education is very important, and doting is very undesirable. In addition, I also hope that readers and friends will not blindly pursue idolization. Idolization is not blindly chasing a specific person, its ultimate goal is to learn from the advantages of star idols, so as to achieve their own progress and development.

Nowadays, many fans make a mess of rice circles for all kinds of comments and hype about stars. In my opinion, it is a rather stupid behavior, but it only makes people see the ignorant and sad soul that is hysterical for the so-called star.