Do you think you will be happy in a marriage with children?

I don't think children can be happy when they get married. The woman got pregnant unexpectedly and regarded marriage as a fig leaf. This kind of marriage is too hasty.

Many couples can't control their inner impulses during their love and will do something out of line. Girls often can't stand the sweet words of their boyfriends. In case of accidental pregnancy, they will only be passive. If the other person is not worthy of your life, even if you get married, you may not be happy.

My cousin was married by Feng Zi. He met a boy at work and pursued her. As a result, they soon moved in together, and my cousin was pregnant. Only when I got married did I find my boyfriend's home in the backcountry. She felt cheated in an instant, and her stomach was getting bigger and bigger, so she had to marry a chicken and follow it.

First, Fengzi's marriage is generally a flash marriage, which is a helpless move and has no way out.

Marriage is by no means a product of impulse, but a collision and appreciation of two hearts. If you get married because of an unexpected pregnancy, there will inevitably be many contradictions in the future, because your personality and three views are not necessarily suitable and you lack in-depth understanding of each other, so you can't bear the responsibility of marriage at all. Marriage has many cruel places, and too many trivial things will consume each other's patience. Marriage is not as beautiful as imagined.

Second, the child is married and lacks thinking about marriage. I don't know that marriage is the union of two families, not the impulse of two people.

Marriage with children is usually decided by two people in private, and parents' consent is not needed at all. If two people are not right, they will definitely be opposed by their parents. Marriage is a life-long event. If this woman meets love rat and marries unexpectedly, then this marriage is bound to make her full of holes.

Third, when girls fall in love, they should respect themselves, strive for their parents' opinions and try not to marry their children.

Girls should never be deceived by their boyfriends' sweet words. In love, they should be spiritually independent, have the ability to think independently, and don't lose themselves in romantic love. Marriage and love are two different things. Love can not pay attention to daily necessities, but marriage must be based on material things.

If you are married by a child, you will have no choice. Only by self-respect and self-love can girls take the initiative in love and have their own happiness.