There is a saying in the countryside that "blessed people are born in the Spring and Autumn Period, and those who are not blessed are Xia Dongsheng". Why?

It seems that the previous answer did not really understand the meaning of this sentence. On our side, it is said that the daughter-in-law who will have children was born in February and August, and the daughter-in-law who will not have children was born in the twelfth month.

The meaning of this sentence is exactly the same as that of this sentence on our side So, what does this sentence mean? Let's talk about it below.

First of all, this sentence does not mean that children born in the Spring and Autumn Period will be blessed and have a good life in the future. This is superstition. This sentence is about the benefits of being born in the Spring and Autumn Period. What are you most afraid of when you have a baby? Most afraid of hot and cold weather. As we know, women can't go out when they are confinement, so it's best to give birth in spring or autumn.

Spring is neither cold nor hot, everything recovers, and spring blossoms. Giving birth to a child at this time can play a very good protective role for both the child and the mother who is confinement. In addition, the newborn mother's mood will be better, and the probability of postpartum depression will be reduced.

The biggest advantage of being born in autumn is that it is neither too hot nor too cold. The weather is just right, and the children are neither too hot nor too cold in the house. So is mother. Mother and son are happy, not going out is not so boring, and they will not be in a bad mood because of the weather.

Whether it is summer in the north or summer in the south, its sultry degree is terrible. You are not allowed to go out in confinement, and even in some places you are not allowed to take a bath or wash your hair. This is a physical and psychological torture for the new mother. My hair is messy like a chicken nest, my body smells bad, and people are in a bad mood.

In some places in Shanxi, even children are not allowed to go out for one hundred days. It's so hot that you can't get sick.

What about winter? It's also very cold here, and children are prone to catch a cold when changing diapers and urinating, which in turn leads to many unexpected diseases.

Therefore, giving birth to a child in summer or winter is undoubtedly suffering and suffering, and the body and mind will not relax.

? No wonder my life is bad, because I was not born in the Spring and Autumn Period? At first glance, I thought that proverb meant such a thing, but I totally misunderstood it. What kind of happiness people will have in the future has nothing to do with their birth year and date. Success is 1% talent plus 99% effort. Since the old saying is not fate, what does it mean?

Last year, the farmer explained that his daughter was born in June. The old man in the village said, "This girl will not be born. There is no blessing in choosing a hot day. " I wasn't happy then. Why should I talk? Isn't this about my daughter? But as soon as I heard it, I was taken in. The old man didn't mean that at all. He's talking about Ma Bao's imprisonment.

I don't know that I didn't help Ma Bao by sitting in the confinement, but I found that if I was born in Xia Dong, I would be very miserable. Last year, I was impressed. My daughter-in-law is too hot to blow, and the air conditioner is turned up, for fear that the baby will catch cold. Modern people have so many electrical appliances that it is particularly sad to be confined in summer, not to mention the poor conditions before. This confinement is already very painful, especially when it is hot in summer and cold in winter.

And babies are particularly prone to prickly heat in summer. The child is too young to take medicine. Take a bath twice a day. I am afraid that the baby's skin sweat glands are not well developed, and everyone around me is worried. The prickly heat will spread all over your body all your life. If the baby doesn't feel well, he will cry. If he doesn't stop crying, everything at home will be in chaos.

Winter is hard, too cold. For the baby, the resistance is still very poor. It will cause a runny nose if it is cold. If the weather is too bad, it will take 12 minutes to take care of the baby. The hardest thing for Ma Bao is to get up at night and feed her almost every 1-2 hours. If it's cold, complain.

Therefore, generally speaking, it is the most difficult to take care of a baby by confinement when born in Xia Dong, which makes it unlucky.

Born in the Spring and Autumn Period, neither too hot nor too cold, people are also the most comfortable. It is most suitable for confinement in Ma Bao and for the baby to spend the first 65,438+000 days smoothly. Our hometown didn't say it was born in the Spring and Autumn Period, but it was born in February and August. February and August are the best for the same reason.

From the perspective of children's future study, some people think that it is better to be born in August than in September, because children born after September can study in one year. Of course, older children have great advantages and strong acceptance, which depends on personal views.

Summary: This old saying reflects the difficulty of confinement. As husbands and families, we should be considerate, understand and care for women who are confined to the moon.

I was born at the end of June in the lunar calendar and the beginning of August in the solar calendar, which is the hottest day of the year. According to my mother, the conditions were not good at that time and life was very hard. I don't even have a decent diaper. Adults and children have suffered a lot, especially during the confinement days.

The title says, "Blessed people are born in the Spring and Autumn Period, and Xia Dongsheng is not blessed." That's what it means. In the past, everyone's life was very hard and the conditions were limited. The child was born in the Spring and Autumn Period. The weather is neither cold nor hot, and the temperature is moderate. Mothers and children can take good care of them and suffer less. People born in Xia Dong like me have suffered. It's too hot in summer and too cold in winter. At that time, the refrigeration and heating facilities were not perfect, so it was very hard.

To sum up, the older generation thought that the blessed were born in the Spring and Autumn Period, and the unfortunate were Xia Dongsheng. But this sentence doesn't apply now, because people's living conditions are better now, and children can be taken good care of no matter what season they are born in. Moreover, people nowadays generally only have one or two children, and the whole family will attach great importance to it, which can be said to be meticulous care. There is no such thing as suffering in Xia Dong.

What is the rural proverb? Generally, people in the past summed it up according to their own life experience. It's all from experience.

Then, what does "the blessed are born in the Spring and Autumn Period, and the unfortunate are born in the summer" mean?

First of all, "blessed people are born in the spring and autumn" means that there are many creatures available for people to eat in the spring and autumn, which can provide sufficient nutrition for pregnant women and meet the needs of adults and children; The temperature in spring and autumn is suitable, neither too cold nor too hot, which is just suitable for postpartum recovery. Children don't have to worry about cold or heat, and they don't have to be afraid of diseases. Coupled with the end of the busy farming season in spring and autumn, there are people at home to help with the children. Having children in spring and autumn is not only conducive to the recovery of adults, but also conducive to the growth of children.

Moreover, "Xia Dongsheng, blessed man" combined with the above "blessed life in the spring and autumn" is also very easy to understand. It's too hot in summer and too cold in winter. There were no air conditioners and electric fans in the countryside before. Moreover, in the past, Xia Dong was short of food (hens didn't lay eggs in winter), so it couldn't provide nutrition for children and parturient in time, and maternal nutrition couldn't keep up, so breast milk (milk) was not enough. It is not conducive to the recovery of pregnant women and the growth of children. In addition, due to the great changes in the weather in Xia Dong in two seasons, ordinary people are more likely to get sick, not to mention women and children with weak resistance are more vulnerable to viruses and diseases, and eventually fall into the root cause of the disease, which will affect their recovery and growth in the future (many children were frozen to death before).

I think: As the old saying goes, it is nothing more than telling us that "it is not easy for women from pregnancy to delivery, and postpartum recovery is particularly important", so they deserve better care and care. Female compatriots, are you right?

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As the saying goes in the countryside, "Blessed people live in the Spring and Autumn Period, and those who are not blessed live in Xia Dongsheng", which means that blessed people live in the Spring and Autumn Period and those who are not blessed live in Xia Dong.

There is some truth in this sentence. In ancient rural areas, people were blessed to have a full stomach, which is the origin of "food is the most important thing for the people".

We all know that productivity was low in ancient times, and people ate a single food, which can be said to be lack.

Unlike now, money can buy any food.

If children are born in spring, flowers sing in spring, and the weather is neither cold nor hot, at least adults and children will not suffer from cold and hot, and mother and child will be safe.

After a while, melons, fruits, pears and peaches gradually increased. Eating more fresh fruits is beneficial to increase breast milk.

If there is more breast milk, children will naturally eat more milk and their bodies will be healthy. This is a blessing for children.

Autumn is also good, the weather is refreshing and pleasant, autumn is the harvest season, and there is no shortage of food at home.

Children born in autumn will not suffer or starve. If the mother has food, the child will have food.

On the contrary, children born in Xia Dong in two seasons suffer a little.

It's very hot in summer, so staying indoors without working will make you sweat. In ancient times, there was no air conditioning. At this time, the mother was sweating and the child had just been fished out of the water. Can she not suffer?

Winter is extremely cold and the wind is biting, so the ancients have no more tools to keep out the cold. Unlike the boilers or heaters used for heating now, it is inevitable that adults and children will catch cold.

Coupled with the shortage of various foods in winter, there are vast snowfields everywhere. Insufficient reserves will starve to death, adults will not have enough to eat, and children will naturally starve to death.

Therefore, children born in Xia Dong are not blessed. This is the two extreme weather in a year, so it is lucky to avoid these two seasons.

I have made statistics on this problem. There are more than 400 emperors in history, and I found that 70% of them were born in spring and autumn. For example, Kangxi was born on May 4th, Qianlong was born on September 25th, Liu Che, Emperor Wu of the Han Dynasty, was born on July 3rd1day, and Zhu Yuanzhang, Emperor Taizu of the Ming Dynasty, was born on June 2nd1day. ...

The truth of this proverb is actually very simple. "Eating" is the most primitive desire and the first desire of human beings. In ancient times when the material was poor, it was a blessing for children to survive, and the problem of "eating" was extremely important.

Text/candle reading spring and autumn

This is an old saying. It means spring, summer, autumn and winter. First of all, the climate in spring and autumn is neither too hot nor too cold, not as hot and humid as summer, nor as cold as winter.

Then there will be a bumper harvest in autumn, and Ma Bao's milk will be enough. Isn't it a blessing to have a full baby?

In the past, the conditions were poor, and it was common for children to go hungry and freeze in winter or summer. Therefore, the blessed are born in the Spring and Autumn Period, and the blessed are Xia Dongsheng.

This sentence is also easy to remind people of the blessings of a person's life.

If a person is born in spring and autumn, he will be lucky and blessed all his life.

Actually, that's not what I meant.

In addition, spring, summer, autumn and winter, most people like spring and autumn. Because the climate is suitable. So people will say that spring and autumn are blessed, but Xia Dong is not.

It is said that the blessed were born in June and the unfortunate died in June.

First of all, this June refers to the lunar June. In other words, when rape and wheat harvest in rural areas, every household has rapeseed oil and new wheat fragrance, so there is no need to eat and drink at this time. The child was born in June of the lunar calendar, which is just the season of hot and cold. The temperature tends to be stable and will not be extremely hot. It is convenient for children to take a bath, dress neatly and bring it up. There is still a period of time before sowing in the next season, and this free time can just accompany the baby. When a baby is born, he will catch up with food, drink and company, so there is a saying that a blessed person is born in June.

What does it mean to die in June? According to the tradition of China people, people want to be buried in a blessed land after death, so that the body will not rot and defile future generations. But in June of the lunar calendar, the weather is getting hotter and hotter, and the dead will soon be corrupted and broken, and snakes, insects, rats and ants will be buried underground to disturb them and make them restless. That's what this sentence means

Of course, the motherland has a vast territory and abundant resources, and one province can top a small country. There are many local customs and sayings! Just listen to some words. People still have to do their duty when they are alive, be worthy of the heart of heaven and earth, and raise children who are practical and filial. Such people are blessed no matter what season they are born in.

Blessed people are born in the Spring and Autumn Period, but Xia Dongsheng is not blessed. Some people misunderstand this sentence, thinking that children born in the Spring and Autumn Period are blessed, and children born in Xia Dong are blessed. In fact, this is not to say whether the child born is blessed, but whether the mother is blessed when she is born.

All the year round, spring, summer, autumn and winter, the days of yin and yang are equally divided in spring and autumn, with pleasant hot and cold, hot in summer and extremely cold in winter. It is not a trivial matter for a woman to have a baby, but the heat and summer are extremely bad, and the cold is even worse. Spring and autumn, which are neither too hot nor too cold, are most suitable. Therefore, those who have children in the Spring and Autumn Period are blessed, while those who have children in Xia Dongsheng are not blessed. Women giving birth to children have always been concerned. There are many taboos and taboos about "confinement", and there are also requirements for cold, hot, dry and wet. Four seasons, spring, summer, autumn and winter, are extremely hot in summer and extremely cold in winter, which will bring a lot of inconvenience and discomfort to the life of mother and baby, far less than the spring and autumn when the temperature is moderate. Therefore, people born in the Spring and Autumn Period are blessed to both mothers and babies. In Xia Dongsheng's view, they are inconvenient for both mother and baby, which is a blessing. Pregnant in October, one delivery, women can have a choice in childbirth, and now they are free to choose when to be pregnant and when to give birth.

For the safety and convenience of mother and baby, it is possible to choose to give birth in spring and autumn, and it is also possible to avoid giving birth in Xia Dongsheng. Planting crops pays attention to the best seasonal climate. Pregnant children should also have choices, pay attention to them, and stress prenatal and postnatal care, which is very beneficial to improving the quality of the population.

As the saying goes, a masterpiece handed down from generation to generation. In the past, most people were hungry and lacked clothes and food. Blessed people were born in spring and autumn, which means that even if their mothers don't eat, they can dig wild vegetables to live and their milk will not be cut off. Autumn is better, the harvest season is even more afraid of not eating, the climate is not cold, and children suffer less. There are more mosquitoes in hot summer and busy farming season, and diseases are easy to break out. In addition, in the old society, without fan air conditioning, adults would suffer, so don't.

In people's daily life, people are often inseparable from some proverbs, because these rural proverbs are the essence summed up by our ancestors and have great life experience for future generations. Especially in rural areas, from 80-year-old people to teenagers, a few rural proverbs can be catchy, so some rural proverbs also play a very important role in our lives. Today, let's talk about the rural saying about birth: "Blessed people are born in the Spring and Autumn Period, and Xia Dongsheng is not blessed." What does this sentence mean? Does it make sense?

Throughout the ages, ordinary people have deep feelings for "happiness". Just from the meaning of "happiness", families with clothing, land and beauty are blessed. The ancients said that there are many blessed people. They believe that a blessed person is not only well-fed and well-fed, but also has inexhaustible money, good health, and high officials and generous salaries. Therefore, such people are called blessed people.

People who are not blessed naturally have the opposite effect to those who are blessed, while the ancients usually refer to some poor people. Imagine, if a person doesn't even have enough to eat and clothes are not warm, what happiness can this person have? Now some people think that it is an alarmist life and there is no happiness.

Therefore, no matter what kind of people, they all hope that they can be blessed, more blessed, rather than not blessed or less blessed. Therefore, under such factors, some blessed rural proverbs have been derived, such as "blessed people are born in the Spring and Autumn Period, and those who are not blessed are Xia Dongsheng", which is derived from this situation. Let's take a look:

According to the meaning of the sentence, this sentence is easy to understand. The ancients thought that people born in Spring and Autumn were blessed, while those born in Xia Dong were not. So let's explain what it means according to the ancients' meaning.

There was no modern development in ancient times, and medicine and science were very underdeveloped, especially the birth of ancient children, which also occupied some positions. Children born in spring and autumn, because of the warm weather and suitable climate, are also very helpful for the growth of children born. Lactating mothers can eat a lot of food in the spring of sowing and the autumn of harvest. Therefore, in the ancient era of eating less and wearing less, it also had a good development for children's growth.

In ancient times, summer and winter may be different. In ancient times, it was also difficult for women to confinement in hot summer and cold winter. In summer, hot and humid weather will increase bacterial infection, while in winter, because of the cold weather, it will bring the risk of illness to the born children. Therefore, compared with children born in spring and autumn, children born in Xia Dong are more likely to suffer from some diseases. This is why the ancients thought that "the blessed were born in the Spring and Autumn Period, and the unfortunate were born in the summer".

The author believes that some rural proverbs left in ancient times, although reasonable, are not practical now. Now, with the development of science and medicine, children are born in hospitals, and with all-weather protection such as various kinds of nursing in hospitals, the birth of children has become much happier. In winter and summer, there is a microclimate such as air conditioning and heating at home, and children can't stand a little crime. Therefore, at present, this rural proverb is not very accurate.