In Liu Yong, the man with chopsticks is far away, which collection of essays does it come from?

First, Liu Yong's prose was not included in the prose collection published at the beginning of 20 16. However, it has been published in some magazines, such as Happiness Magazine No.7 20 15, Cross-century Expo No.9 20 1 1, and on major literary websites.

Second, The Man Who Reaches Far with Chopsticks is a vivid and natural prose. From the method of holding chopsticks, it can be concluded that when people grow up, they always leave their parents. When their wings are hard, the chicks will fly high. Express your attachment to your family in a faint tone.

Third, the original text is as follows:

Three sister-in-law couple to visit home, have a meal, mother stared at her hand and said:

"Chopsticks are so far away, no wonder they want to marry far away."

My Dutch brother-in-law also laughed and joked in fluent Chinese: "My chopsticks are so far away, no wonder I married Mrs. China."

As long as I can remember, it is common for my mother to say something like "I must marry far away in the future" to a girl who holds chopsticks in a high position. On the one hand, it seems to say to the girl's parents, "Your daughter didn't stay, but she flew away when she was raised. She flew far away." On the one hand, I said to the girl, "If I get married in the future, I'm afraid I will rarely see my parents again. I can be filial, and I will be filial to my parents soon. "

Mother also has her reasons:

"The girl's chopsticks are far away, which shows that she likes to clip distant dishes since she was a child. Besides, she must have power in her hand. This character and strength made her soar. Nothing can fly high these days. If the wings are hard, they will fly. "

Probably influenced by my mother, I always pay attention to the way girls hold chopsticks. I remember once going to Korea to interview an Asian film festival and having dinner with a group of female stars. I jokingly said to one of them, "You are holding chopsticks so far, and you will definitely marry far away in the future."

Another female star at the same table is unbalanced to say:

"I will marry a distant place! The fortune teller said that I would either marry on the other side of the globe or marry a divorced man. "

I have never understood the relationship between "marrying a distant place" and "marrying a divorced man". I can't figure it out. Why is his expression proud, indicating that she is rebellious, or that her wings are hard and she can fly high?

I only know that the girl learned half of it, waved her hand and married to America without taking away a cloud.

Think about San Mao, too. Halfway through the Cultural University, I suddenly want to go abroad and run as far away as possible. Said it was for my own personality, but I didn't want to tie my boyfriend to death, so I avoided it. After going abroad, her boyfriend, who loved her to death, broke the news and immediately had a new world and new friends.

Look at the preface written by Uncle Chen in Sanmao's Noisy Learning, saying that Sanmao went abroad and everyone went to see him off, but Sanmao went straight to the engine room without looking back. I was shocked and thought, "Will it be like this when my daughter grows up?" She suddenly wanted to fly and flew? "

My son has made me feel this way recently-

Before the summer vacation, I called Harvard and said to my son:

"Practice tennis well at school and come back to be my opponent."

He stopped for two seconds and simply said:

"dad! I want to rent a room in Manhattan this summer vacation and live outside. "

I froze. I told my wife, and she froze. Tell the whole family, the whole family froze.

As a result, under the silent protest of the whole family, he didn't go to Manhattan, but went further to the Arctic Circle.

I often wonder if there is an innate power in everyone's heart that pushes us away from home, and the farther away, the better.

I still remember reading the biography of Bao Zhao, a famous Yuefu in the Six Dynasties. He said that he had great ambitions when he was young. He believes that a gentleman is ambitious in all directions and should not stick to his hometown, which contains his own talents. "Make Lan argue, not listen to his words, but follow the sparrow?"

Since then, I have often wondered: What is the ambition of a swan? Can you spend your whole life with swallows and sparrows? I even told myself that men can "love home" but not "love home". It is difficult to make great achievements in loving your family.

In that case, how can I blame my son for wanting to fly away?

I saw a movie about the Arctic Wolf. The little wolf was born and followed the mother wolf everywhere. When you grow up, you will play with your mother. A family of wolves, very warm!

Gradually, the little wolf grew into the big bad wolf.

One day, I suddenly ran around my mother and ran away from home, and I couldn't see the shadow.

The female wolf stood on a high place, looked at it, turned around and went home with her head down.

After a while, the "child" came back, surrounded by a group of wolves. Not far from "mom's house", he urinated left and right. When a female wolf entered his urinating range, he bared his teeth and made a strange roar-

This means that this is its territory and home.

I read in botany books that although many flowers are hermaphroditic, the pistil is not mature when the stamens are mature. When the pistil begins to secrete mucus and can accept stamen pollen, the nearby stamens have withered.

So the pollen of each flower must go to other flowers or trees farther away, "around the house."

According to research, only in this way can inbreeding be avoided and eugenics be achieved.

I often think of the female wolf standing high and looking at the back of the child, and also think of Sanmao, Sahara and the Jokhang Temple of Princess Wencheng in Tibet.

Whether people, animals or plants, when they mature, there will be a voice and a kind of power, saying:

"fly! As far away as possible. This is of course biological evolution. "

More and more admire those children who hold chopsticks far away at an early age, thinking:

Look! How strong their hands are and how far their eyes are. Today, they stood up, even holding hands, and under the gaze of a table of adults, they picked up a piece of meat farthest from him. Tomorrow, he will stand up and shake his hair. Under the gaze of a group of relatives and friends, he will go to the cabin and the world he yearns for.

Look! How strong their hands are and how far their eyes are. Today, they stood up, even holding hands, and under the gaze of a table of adults, they picked up a piece of meat farthest from him. Tomorrow, he will stand up and shake his hair. Under the gaze of a group of relatives and friends, he will go to the cabin and the world he yearns for.