My wife said that if I didn't know you, so many things wouldn't happen to you.

My wife said this, which shows that she really loves you, because something happened later, which made her feel guilty.

It's really not easy for a couple to get together and form a family. Since we have come together, we should support each other and understand each other, and * * * will go through hardships together.

Comfort your wife more and believe that the suffering will pass.