What if the matchmaker urges marriage?

When I got home, the matchmaker gave me a number saying it was a girl's. How to contact her, should I call or send a message first?

Express important meaning

Another year of urging marriage, when the conditions are average, it is said that the conditions are very good. The matchmaker is saying that the age is not young. Don't choose, just make do with it.

Anyway, I will go my own way.

I'm tired of urging me to get married.

Since there is no

Then you can find a man

Pretend to be your boyfriend for a while.

Boyfriend's family urges marriage

If he really loves you, he won't ask your advice. He can be completely independent when his family urges him. I've been in your situation. Until I convince my family, it's no use even if his family urges me again. The language organization is chaotic. I hope you can understand. You can ask me if you don't understand.

Parents urge marriage, but they can't chat with girls. I feel a lot of pressure. What should I do?

Speak up, women are not tigers, and nothing will happen.

What is the process of engagement?

The groom finishes the family sacrifice at home first, and then goes to the woman's house by car with the matchmaker to get married. Get off the bus and enter the door, and the red envelope will not run away!

(1) Gong Guan: commonly known as "Mr. Boxer", responsible for the appointment of gift-giving companies. Tribute officials must control the number of people (even number), vehicles (six or twelve vehicles), engagement money (even number and properly wrapped in red paper) and six gifts.

(2) Family Sacrifice: Before leaving for the woman's home, the man will hold an ancestor worship ceremony at home. At this time, he will give his ancestors a "box cake" or a big cake for harvesting. He will go to a virgin's home to take a job and ask his ancestors to bless this marriage.

(3) Departure: After the family sacrifice, the tribute officer is responsible for loading all the bride price on the car, and the groom and the matchmaker go to the woman's house together.

(4) Red envelopes: Before departure, Gong Li Palace should not only take care of the number of people, cars and bride price, but also remind the groom to prepare more red envelopes. For example, the uncle who came to open the groom's car door, the "pressing table" and the six accompanying relatives all need to prepare the bride's ceremony, the bride's new friend who washed the water and the gift of the matchmaker.

How to hire after a lifetime reservation?

You've always heard of "Marry a good husband after a full meal"! Therefore, sweet cakes should be included in the six gifts.

Besides, why prepare four-color sugar? It symbolizes the sweetness of newlyweds and the meaning of growing old together.

The bride price represents not only the man's gratitude to the woman's parents, but also the man's face. Therefore, most of them are willing to get a glamorous and decent appearance, and each dowry also contains the symbolic meaning of seeking good luck and increasing perfection.

Bridal gifts are usually divided into six simple gifts or twelve exquisite gifts. The amount of bride price is arranged according to personal budget. At the same time, we might as well ask the matchmaker for the advice of the woman's parents to achieve the best of both worlds.

Marriage between men and women officially appeared.

Bang bang! Firecrackers sounded and the married man arrived! On that day, ancestors should be worshipped, tea should be served, and rings holding hands with each other should be worn until they are old.

After the gift, how does the woman return the gift?

China people always pay attention to "reciprocity". After the man gives a big gift, the woman should also prepare a gift in return, but she can't let the man go home empty-handed.

Han nationality-marriage customs

In the past, most of the marriages of young Han people were arranged by their parents. Most of them got engaged when they were very young, and some even called their bellies marriage, that is, their parents established a marriage relationship for their children before they were born.

No marriage with the same surname: that is, men and women with the same surname do not marry each other, which began in the early Western Zhou Dynasty and was a rule left over from the Zhou people's practice of intermarriage. In the Spring and Autumn Period, people further realized that intermarriage with the same surname would cause abnormal infertility of offspring, but intermarriage with the same surname still occurred from time to time among nobles. After the Warring States period, the surname Shi, after the Han Dynasty, is not divided, and it is often inevitable to share the same surname without marriage. In the Tang Dynasty, intermarriage with the same surname followed the ancient system and was prohibited. There was a Tang law in the Song and Yuan Dynasties, and the same surname was reserved for marriage. The Ming and Qing dynasties had a large territory and a large population, and it was already a society based on region, replacing the clan based on blood. Therefore, the Ming law regulations and the Qing law regulations are divided into two parts: the same surname and the same clan. On the surface, it is forbidden for two people to get married. In fact, people with the same surname and different clans can get married. Calligraphy in the late Qing Dynasty merged unmarried relatives with unmarried surnames, and only intermarriage within the same clan was prohibited.

Please ask the matchmaker to propose marriage at the woman's house before engagement. When engaged, the man gives the woman some property as a "gift", and when married, the woman also brings a lot of property to the man's family, which is called "dowry".

On the wedding day, the groom will get on the limousine or sedan chair and go to the woman's house to "greet the bride". There is a band in front of a limousine or sedan chair. After the bride is welcomed into the man's house, she should worship heaven and earth and her parents. After the ceremony, the newlyweds entered the bridal chamber. At this time, the man gave a banquet to entertain relatives and friends who came to congratulate him. Some places also have the habit of making trouble in the bridal chamber and listening to the wall.

Check date: marriage customs of Han nationality. Also known as the reporting date. Popular in most counties and townships in Guangxi. Talking about marriage in rural areas: a step towards marriage. When young men and women get to know each other, tell their parents and ask the media to communicate. The man gives the bride a bride price and then sets a wedding date.

In the past, fortune tellers always ranked the "eight characters" first, and the fate was consistent. In some places, parents meet to get engaged. For example, in quanzhou county, after the two sides agreed, the matchmaker sent wine, meat and cloth to the woman on behalf of the man, and accompanied his parents and uncles to meet at the man's house on the agreed date, and the man gave a banquet. The young man poured wine in a pot, first to the woman's uncle and then to his uncle, and then toasted in turn. The two sides agreed on the wedding date and the engagement was completed. Later, men and women gave the woman heavy gifts and bride price, the woman prepared dowry, the man prepared furniture, and the wedding was held as scheduled. Runv ......

I think my mother is nervous. What if I see her depressed every day?

There is no good way. Human nature and character. You usually have nothing to do. Tell me more about her.

Teach her more. After all, she is her own parents, right?

Then don't be too sad. Let nature take its course Thank you.

I met a girl on a blind date. What can I do to make her my wife?

Look at the story and answer it

His attitude is cold, because you don't know each other well enough. I got married on a blind date, and she did the same at first, but later she found him very gregarious.

Anxious to mention engagement when dating? Did they agree? What's your hurry?

I was only seventeen years old, and my parents acted as a matchmaker for me. The matchmaker is still my grandfather. I really don't feel anything. I am really embarrassed. What should I do? My male 10 score.

The thinking of the older generation still exists in the countryside, and they cannot fully absorb the development of this society.

It's good medicine for this kind of thing. Go and talk to the old man yourself. Otherwise, it's really annoying to urge marriage.

You need to find something to do, don't make soy sauce at home, it will tie your career, and you will at least have multiple excuses.