What is a lovers' pavilion?

Couples' hall needs the necessary spiritual cultivation conditions for beginners, that is, "only care about the bright moon, only envy Yuanyang but not immortals". Many young people are very affectionate, and need the care and consideration of their relatives when they suffer from the depression of fortune and the pain of cross talk. Many friends often say that the marriage of Xian family broke down, and the marriage of Tang Dingren was absolutely unsatisfactory. This statement represents a very common phenomenon, but it is too absolute. As we all know, it is better to tear down ten temples than ruin a marriage. Why do immortals value merit so much, and even want to break up their marriage? The author believes that there are no mistakes made by immortals, but all of them are disciples. From the stability of the couple's hall, it is a necessary condition for the debut disciples to leave the hall. If you can understand the stability of the lovers' hall, you will be able to top your own hall. However, if you can top your own hall and form a lovers' hall, its stability will not be very high. What's the problem? Fairy family is a mysterious and magical group, and many things can be described by the word unreasonable. Happy husband and wife life, a good partner envied by the gods! Why did you break up? Is it because the immortal thinks unclean sexual intercourse and husband and wife life affect disciples' practice? That's not the problem. It is the disciple's fault to blame the fairy family. Husband and wife hall, also called Yuanyang hall by many friends, is a very familiar name, but the debutante friends go out for a walk. Where is the real Yuanyang hall? Wan Li is empty! Occasionally, how many are truly fully functional and working normally? Many friends have read a lot of information, saying that Ma Qian's serious illness tortured his disciples in order to make them obey. This view is not entirely correct. Why? There is a saying in qigong that is very clear: success after a long illness! In other words, a monk disciple is different from a monk disciple, and the difference lies in his physical quality. Extroverted friends have physical qualities suitable for communicating with immortals, but extroverted friends don't. The fairy family can only make the outgoing disciples change the energy form of the biological field by getting sick, and become a state suitable for the upper body of the fairy family to speak. Because it is forced transformation, the performance of the apprentice and the apprentice is completely different. Many friends also say that the form of debut is higher than that of debut, but why are the disciples who debut not as accurate as the disciples who debut? The key word is that they basically don't understand the most basic things. Unlike a debut disciple, there is no such thing as a serious illness except the pain of strangulation. Only when disaster strikes, the fortune of life drops sharply and it is difficult to get up. Many friends said it was a disaster for the fairy family, and some of them explained it correctly. It was the immortal family who wanted to move the disaster of the disciples' later generations and the sins of previous lives to the church for the success of their disciples after they left the church. I agree with this statement, and add that this is also the key to his debut. Temper his mind! You can't bear the class without going through big storms. Just like a child walking in the crowd with a machine gun, he is in danger of going off at any time. Without the test of blood and fire, how could he be familiar with the performance of the gun, and how could he take the lead with a gun? It's not that the gun is not good. But as a disciple, you don't have the physical strength to hold a gun. You don't know guns are hard to get. You don't know that guns are not used to rob and murder comrades-in-arms and relatives. Most of the performance of the gun should be turned off to prevent you from accidentally injuring the plot! Only when you can hold the gun firmly, face the complex society indifferently and know who the gun is pointing at, will you understand that the gun can be powerful enough to kill your head! Heart is the key for Tang Ding's disciples to withstand the lobby and operate stably, and heart is the foundation of the fairy family in the lobby. Only when disciples practice according to the principle of Tao, and have no desire or desire, will the ability of the immortal family be brought into full play. Still in the above example, the fairy family won't give you a gun when you face a beautiful woman, so you have a chance to rob the color. If you are greedy, the fairy family will not give you a gun that can rob and kill people by entering a bank or jewelry store! "Small trees don't trim straight, and people don't hum." This is a saying in Northeast China. It is a double pain of mind and body to temper one's mind and get familiar with things. It is really unbearable for us to be pampered in a materialistic world. This is a very realistic problem that all our disciples must experience. How to face it, get rid of your greed and ignorance forever, and never get the ability to use a gun at will. Before I talk about the breakdown of marriage, I want to ask a few questions, and ask my friends to calm down and ask themselves. Perhaps reading the following questions may change your precarious or existing marriage: ① Do you know the above examples? The gun is the function, and the fairy family is the person who gave you the gun. Do you know how to use a gun at this time and who the gun should be aimed at? (2) Before you became attached to Xianjia, did you really contact your lover and take Qi Mei as an example? Do you care about your lover from everything in your heart and all aspects of your life? (3) If you and your lover put themselves in the position of believing in the fairy family, can you take care of your lover when he is frequently in a state of death and upset? It makes sense to say that there is no dutiful son in front of the hospital bed. The world will scold the unfilial son. Who knows the difficulties of unfilial sons? Can you convince your lover to support you and believe in Xianjia through your understanding and debut? Or, to what extent has your understanding of debut risen? Are you sure of persuading him? ⑤ When you feel unhappy, you always say that there is something wrong with the fairy family, and you still talk to others with indomitable spirit? Have you ever considered that the person you are chatting with is also suffering from mental and physical torture? He has to put up with your nagging. Have you ever respected such a person? Just because he is noble-minded, is it worth your conviction? Listening is a virtue. Do you understand the pain behind that virtue? Does the person who listens to you understand him? Maybe a word from his lover will make him angry. When he suffers from the pain of mind, body and ears, he will make you happy at the same time. Have you ever considered the resentment and melancholy eyes of the lover behind him? Did you look back at the eyes behind you? 6 doctors' parents should have something to help them see things and see a doctor. When reading this, my friends, do you care? Do you have the ability of speech therapy? You have to take your own destiny. Have you ever considered how much your relatives, friends and teachers have undertaken for you for no reason? You always say that others don't understand you. Have you ever made your relatives and friends understand you? How much can you explain about this fairy tale? Do you have the ability to persuade others? How many questions have you considered above? Sharpen your master and your friends when you are upset. When you are sad, you may get angry even if your lover says a word. Have you ever reflected on yourself? The above questions are sharp and practical. The marriage was not destroyed by the fairy family, but it does not rule out that the fairy family helped the apprentice when he quarreled with his lover and friend in order to protect his apprentice. This is not the root cause, but the author thinks it is appropriate: when you quarrel with your lover, your loyal pet dog bites your lover. When you divorce your lover, will you say that the dog ruined your marriage? Husband and wife hall is the superposition of two disciples, two immortals in the hall and two tasks. The marriage and psychological crisis of single disciples is already very serious. If two people with the same bad fortune live together every day, I believe that every debut disciple will understand how hard this life is, and there will be many differences when the husband and wife hall comes out: ① The debut dates of the two halls cannot be exactly the same, and they can be merged. According to the first one, there will be a problem that the immortals on the avenue don't come out early in the latter one. According to the last article, the immortal who comes out first may have to go back to the mountains to close down, otherwise the immortal will not be complete when the main hall is held. (2) The mentality of husband and wife can't be balanced, that is, the mentality of our single debut disciple is worrying, not to mention that husband and wife have to be together every day. With the support of Xianjia, the contradiction between husband and wife is getting deeper and deeper, and the contradiction between Xianjia is also lurking. Even if the date comes, they can really be together. Husband and wife are not really United, and the fairy family is not a rope in class. Small friction between husband and wife is the fuse of class civil strife. (3) Don't deny the fairy family's statement. Is it easier to make disciples take one suit and call them two? Especially when one of the two people doesn't believe it, think about it, my friend. How can two people have the same idea? Mentality is the key to lobby stability. How can two people's hearts resist a fairy house? Everyone is in danger, and the crisis index of two people with different ideas against a lobbying group is terrible. There are many aspects worth discussing and paying attention to in the lovers' pavilion. After all, there are very few couples' houses. Only by truly achieving the above-mentioned mind can we study the problems of couples' houses.