What should I do? Memories are happy. Why are they so painful after memories? Who can enlighten me?

Good memories are because there are good people and things, but painful experiences can also be turned into good memories, but that must be after you open a lot of things and look back. What you lack now is an optimistic attitude. Maybe you've been depressed for too long. You should find a way to throw this pot of bitter water out, and don't care too much about other people's eyes. This society is a mess, and no one will estimate your personal feelings. People are cheerful, and many things will gradually get better! Let me tell you a story, hoping to inspire you!

A scholar went to Beijing for the third time to catch the exam and stayed in a shop where he often lived. Two days before the exam, he had three dreams. The first dream is that he grows cabbage on the wall. The second dream is that it is raining. He is wearing a hat and an umbrella. The third dream is that he is lying with his beloved cousin, but his back is to his back. These three dreams seem to have some profound meanings, so the scholar hurried to find fortune-telling dreams the next day. Hearing this, the fortune teller patted his thigh continuously and said, "You'd better go home. Think about it, isn't it futile to grow vegetables on high walls? Isn't it unnecessary to wear a hat and an umbrella? " My cousin and I are lying in the same bed, but back to back. Isn't that hopeless? "Hearing this, the scholar was disheartened and went back to the store to pack his bags and prepare to go home. The shopkeeper was surprised and asked, "Isn't there an exam tomorrow? Why did you go back to your hometown today? "When the scholar said this, the shopkeeper was happy:" Hey, I can also interpret dreams. I think you must stay this time. Think about it, isn't it high to grow vegetables on the wall? Doesn't wearing a hat and an umbrella mean that you are prepared this time? Lying back to back in bed with your cousin doesn't mean it's time for you to turn over? "Hearing this, the scholar made more sense, so he happily took the exam and got a flower-exploring.

Revelation: positive people, like the sun, shine wherever they shine, while negative people, like the moon, are different from the fifteenth day of the first month. Ideas determine our lives. What kind of ideas, what kind of future.