What ages are not suitable for birthdays?

There are three age groups that are not suitable for birthdays.

From birth to the age of 20, men after the age of 20, before their parents died. After the death of parents, it is not suitable for birthdays.

Three stages:

1, the first stage, from birth to twenty years old. This age is from birth to adulthood. According to the folk saying, boys can't have birthdays or make decisions, and their parents make decisions for them. It is not disrespectful or unfilial for a man to celebrate his birthday at this age. In fact, the survival rate of ancient children is not high. Parents give birthdays to boys under the age of 20, which can be seen as showing people their achievements in raising children and hoping that their sons will grow up soon.

2. In the second stage, after the man is 20 years old and before his parents die. In many folk customs, men can't celebrate their birthdays. At the same time, after a man marries his wife, she can't have a birthday.

There are two sayings: one is that an adult man will always be a child as long as his parents are still alive, and even if he is 90 years old, he will always be a man's son as long as his parents are still several hundred years old. Birthday is a disrespect to his parents.

Second, when a person is an adult, he can't always think about how to celebrate his birthday. He should go back and think about his parents, how they worked so hard to give birth to themselves and how they raised themselves. People used to think that this was filial piety, otherwise it would be disrespectful and unfilial to parents.

3, the third stage, after the death of parents. After the death of parents, the wife of the family "has been a wife for many years" and the man has changed from a "child" to the oldest elder in the family. Because of some local customs, the old people don't want to do it themselves, or they go out to "escape from life", which is another matter, and has nothing to do with the custom of whether they can celebrate their birthdays.