When choosing an object, do you value the three views or the material more?

Of course, three views are more important.

When I was young, I knew that this was the same as when I was looking for someone. I was determined not to look for someone with power in my family. Because the family gap is too large, it is easy to cause disagreement between the three views. My later targets were all girlfriends whose families were not as good as mine.

Only the right person can have a similar three views. Really, once I found a girlfriend, I didn't talk much at first, and I didn't see how inappropriate the three places were. But after a long time, I found that the values of the two are too different-she likes people who can communicate in the scene and thinks that this is talent.

And think that people who are not good at words like me are incompetent. Always compare me with those "communicators" on the wine table and complain that I am too incompetent and incompetent. And whenever I excitedly show her my articles published in newspapers and magazines, she doesn't agree. She doesn't think she can make much money. It's useless. She believes in ghosts and gods, and I am an atheist through and through.

Basically, I'm bored with everything she likes. She hates what I think is useful. There were more and more quarrels, and then one day she suddenly left without saying goodbye. Never saw this man again. Eight years of love left without saying goodbye. Because of her departure, I had to clean up the business I started with her, and the business for many years didn't make any money at last.

With years of experience, I know that if two people disagree, they will break up sooner or later, and the existing money will easily disappear. I have met many successful couples, and all kinds of problems eventually appear because of the disagreement between the three views and become a big hurdle in life.

If two people look at each other, they will be happy and safe even if they are poor all their lives. At that time, when I was doing business, I saw a young couple coming to buy goods from me. The young couple are obviously very poor, they can't get much goods, and sometimes they have to pay for them in arrears. But their laughter and slapstick together are so sunny that it is obvious that they are a group.