What about the love that parents oppose?

First of all, I want to have a correct understanding of this matter. Then, I want to tell my parents that intervention will be counterproductive. If it still doesn't work, I should draw a clear line and not accept the moral kidnapping of my parents. It is normal to know that there is friction when feelings are deep, and I am not afraid to make my parents unhappy. Although I did, I felt guilty about my mother for a long time. I know rationally that I have done nothing wrong. I'm just fighting for my right to live. I still feel emotionally that I am a bad daughter and I hurt her. But in the face of a strong desire for control, if you want to interfere with your parents, what can you do to get freedom from interference without hurting your parents' feelings at all? I don't think so. Injury is inevitable. Parents will interfere with you because they think they have the right to do so. You don't allow them to interfere. In the eyes of parents, this is a power grab. They won't be willing to give up their power, they can only rely on you to fight for it.

Show your attitude and determination. If you decide to stay with her, you should first stabilize her and convince her that you can tell her your parents' opinions, but at the same time, you should make it clear that she doesn't want to get married, so that she doesn't have the ideological burden and the idea of breaking up, and convince her that you can advance and retreat together, even if your parents don't agree, you should stay together. On your parents' side, you should also show them your views and attitudes. The more determined you are, the more you can show that you don't want to give up. Decadence and hunger strike in TV dramas are definitely not desirable, but it is ok to cry in front of parents and ignore their behavior. Your sudden change can convince them that you are serious about this relationship.

Do a good job in persuading parents. Tell your parents how hard it has been for you to be together these years. Since you want your parents to agree with her, you should highlight her various advantages, make them feel that she is a good girl, show that the woman insists on being with herself, and you can't live without her, so that they can understand and support your choice. If your parents are superstitious, you can tell them that you have quietly married eight characters, and the fortune teller says that you are a good match. If you miss each other, I'm afraid you won't meet such a good marriage in the future. This move is an attempt by superstitious people. To tell the truth, falling in love and getting married are all my own experiences and choices. Even if you feel unhappy later and choose the wrong person, no one, including parents, has the right to interfere.

If your parents don't say anything and don't agree with you together, you should be prepared to live independently. Let them see your persistence and persistence, let them see that you love each other through thick and thin, and let them see that your children are the pride of your parents. The insistence of many parents is actually for the sake of their children. If they see that you and your girlfriend are inseparable, they will gradually change their original attitude. Therefore, the test of parents. To say the least, even if your parents don't support you, you all have a lot of friends and all kinds of Internet cafes. It is good for you to have their support and blessing.

If you are sure that you can be together, get along well and get a marriage certificate at the right time with the blessing of your friends, then your parents have no choice but to support you. Of course, your girlfriend must always be on your side. If she is a little shaken, if she is not as determined as you, you probably won't come this far, because your parents will probably spend their energy on the girls around you when they see that your work is not good.