My girlfriend and I are going to talk about marriage Her mother is superstitious and says that we are not the same. We looked for a few people to calculate, and our girlfriend didn't know what to do.

My girlfriend and I are going to talk about marriage Her mother is superstitious and says that we are not the same. We looked for a few people to calculate, and our girlfriend didn't know what to do. I Some elders will believe in birthdays, and if there are differences, they will try their best to prevent you from being together. She did it for her daughter's happiness. She is superstitious, so please understand and don't get angry. After all, it's another mother. There are two factors to deal with this matter. One party is the mother of the other party, so you can ask the object to mobilize other relatives who don't believe in superstition to persuade, preferably grandparents. Persuading by such a heavyweight may change her superstition. Second, you cook with her, everything you want to say is over, and you have a baby. No matter how superstitious you are, you can only accept the reality, which may be the best way. I hope it can help you.