Arthur Allen's 36 Questions

Arthur Allen is a very famous psychologist in the world. He once did an experiment about how men and women can quickly establish intimate relationships and attract each other in a strange environment. The experimental results are shocking. Only 36 questions actually "matched" two complete strangers. So what are three of Arthur Allen's 36 questions? How did Arthur Allen ask 36 questions?

1. If you could have dinner with anyone in the world, who would you choose?

2. Do you want to be famous? Famous in what way?

Do you preview what you want to say on the phone before you make a phone call? Why?

4. What did you do on your perfect day?

When was the last time you sang to yourself? When was the last time you sang to others?

6. If you can live to be 90 years old, and your brain or posture can remain 30 years old after 30 years old, which would you choose, body or brain?

7. Have you ever predicted how you will die?

8. Name three things you have in common with the person opposite you.

9. What are you most grateful for in your life?

10 If you could change your growth style, what would you like to change?

1 1. Share your life with the opposite person in four minutes. The more detailed, the better.

12. If you wake up tomorrow morning and find that you have acquired some kind of ability, what kind of ability do you want?

13, if a magical crystal ball could tell you your life, your future, or anything, what would you want to know?

14, do you have something you've dreamed of doing for a long time? Why haven't you done it yet?

15. What is your greatest achievement in life?

16. What is your most precious memory?

17. What is your worst memory?

18, if you knew that you would die suddenly in a year, would you want to change any lifestyle you have now? Why?

What does friendship mean to you?

20. What is the status of love and liking in your life?

2 1, take turns to share five good qualities that you think a lover should have.

22. Is your family close and warm? Was your childhood happier than others?

23. What do you think of your relationship with your mother?

24. Make three affirmative sentences with "we", such as "We are all in this room."

25. Complete the following sentence: "I hope someone will share it with ta ..."

26. If you become close friends with the opposite person, share what the other person must know.

27. Tell the opposite person what you like about ta, answer honestly, and say some answers that you don't usually tell the people you just met.

28. Share the most embarrassing moment in your life with the opposite person.

29. When was the last time you cried in front of others? When was the last time you cried alone?

30. Tell the opposite person what you already like about ta.

3 1. Is there anyone whose business is so serious that you can't make jokes casually?

32. If you are going to die tonight and have no chance to communicate with others, what do you regret not telling ta?

33. yours is on fire, and it contains everything about you. Saved the family, saved the pet, and there is still time to rush in and save the last thing. What would you choose? Why/

34. Of all the people in your family, whose death made you feel the most uncomfortable? Why?

35. Share a personal question, ask the opposite person what ta will do, and then let ta answer it. What does ta think of your choice on this issue?

36. What do you cherish most in a friendship?