Does anyone particularly hate children?

Because we have no patience with children. But mainly children at different stages.

Here are the reasons why a five-or six-year-old child will make you feel annoying.

First, from the perspective of physical development and psychological laws, children of this age are not perfect in all aspects of physical development. In early childhood, because of the law of physical development, you can only be naughty and active in a small range.

Second, after primary school, with the growth of age and physical development, the range of activities began to increase. Children's ability to judge, observe, express, treat people and things, and abide by the laws of life are not perfect. Naughty children are related to personality, living habits, imitating adults' words and deeds, and children's hobbies. If you consciously cultivate reading concentration or children's hobbies in primary school. The primitive "principles" of living habits. Then the child won't be too naughty.

However, are some children really annoying? In fact, this is a bit one-sided. Most children of this age are so impatient. Always interested in animals, science fiction, adventure, gossip, toys, etc., that is, the desire to learn, always ask.

If you don't have time or you are thinking about working, and so on. You will have no patience to listen to your child's questions, or you can't answer them … So you will feel bored, which is normal. However, there is a phenomenon that we can't ignore, that is, after a few years, the child will always be with you, unable to satisfy his thirst for knowledge and effectively guide him, and then he will "drift away" from you psychologically in the future.

Because he was 12- 13 years old, due to the law of children's growth, he would break away from the "attachment" period to his parents. Have independent thoughts and self-awareness, which is the so-called "rebellious period" and so on.

Extroverted children are active and don't wait for a moment. Someone asked if there was "ADHD" or something. I don't think so, as long as there are no basic medical diseases. As long as children are interested in what they like, have a focused process and have a certain logical thinking in oral expression, there is no problem.

At the same time, children of this age have limited attention time because of the law of physical growth.

So, if you have enough patience, children of any age don't hate it.