What robbery in emotional fortune telling

What robbery in emotional fortune telling

What are the three States in feelings, robbery rather than fate, so don't force it? In feelings, people always emphasize the word "fate". When we meet, we will say that it is all fate, and when we are apart, we will say that we are doomed to be inseparable. In fact, fate is a very mysterious thing. Some fate is good, and some fate may turn into robbery. How to deal with it depends on whether this fate is worth it.

If you can't love it, it's not your destiny, it will be your disaster; If we meet at the wrong time, such fate is likely to become robbery; Maybe you've been secretly in love with each other, and they don't know anything. This is not necessarily true fate, but a disaster. So, you don't have to be superstitious about fate. Some predestinations you think are probably emotional disasters. You don't have to foolishly mistake disaster for fate, and you don't even have to ask for this fate. That's all your irrationality. The three situations in feelings are robbery, not fate, so don't expect more!

The first type: not every relationship can be smooth sailing, and not everyone can be right. Some people meet their own fate, but they don't fall in love, let alone know each other. At this moment, love will happen.

Fear at this time is luxury, and many people will stubbornly ask, "I have so much affection for you, why don't you like me?" I will even continue to emphasize that "seeing everyone is so predestined", in fact, it is not fate, but you robbed. Qingqing firmly believes in fate. She has always thought that love must be predestined, because fate has not arrived, so she has never talked about love.

Until she met someone, they met at a theme activity. Sunny has been thinking that if she hesitates to go to the theme activity, she is unlikely to meet him, so this is also her fate. She was very happy about this meeting, thinking that they would love and know each other like a youth idol drama, but this is not the case. She likes him, but he doesn't like her very much, and even the other party resolutely refuses her and tells her that she already has someone she likes.

It's sunny now. I don't know what to do. What about good fate? Is that how you escaped? Despite being rejected by others, she still struggled again and again. What she has always said is: "I firmly believe in everyone's fate, you have not tried." How do you know it's not good? " But sometimes, meeting is a disaster, not what you call fate. Love can't be painful, but luxury will be more painful. So, let yourself wake up and stop thinking that this is your destiny.

The second type: untimely meetings are also common. Most of them meet when the other party already has a family, but they firmly believe in the fate of separation and feel that they only meet at the wrong time, otherwise they should be together. Is that really the case? Not necessarily. If you meet it first, it's probably another point of view. Since you met at the wrong time, it means that you are not the right person. Don't let yourself think that this is also fate.

Lu Hao, the leader in the TV series "He doesn't really love you that much", still loves her, but when Lu Hao has a family and is unlikely to give her happiness, she loves him foolishly and feels that she just needs to be by his side. But this man broke her heart, and it took her a long time to leave. She always thought that Liu Hao was a gift from God. Meeting him is the fate of these people. As long as she insists, she can always wait for his true love, but it is not the case.

For Lu Hao, his enterprise is the most important, and he will do anything that is beneficial to the enterprise, even if he ignores the promise of being dyed. Therefore, Lu Hao loves himself. Still touched her heart, but it was a robbery, which had almost nothing to do with her. They just met at the wrong time and were doomed to miss each other, so there is no need to feel sorry, not themselves. Don't expect anything.

The third kind: there is also a kind of unrequited love. In the case of unrequited love, it is likely to become robbery, not your fate, especially this long-term unrequited love, the other party simply does not understand the lover, and is destined to become their own harm. Xiao Ting had a crush on someone before. This crush lasted for two years, and I don't know how that time passed.

At first, I didn't want to tell anyone, because others had fallen in love. She thinks she just needs to see the other side. I hope you are happy, so there is no need for others to know. After that, she didn't want to say it, but she was afraid to say it. She is worried that she will break away from the original relationship, and that they won't even have good friends after the talk, so it is better to keep it as it is now.

In short, she has been secretly in love, until one day the other party told her that she was married, and she realized that there was no chance. This secret love is destined to be hers alone. Before, she thought that there was fate between them, or that they would meet again and again, and even make her move, but now she knows where this is fate, and it is clearly her robbery.

Conclusion: I firmly believe that many people will encounter this situation in their relationships. At this moment, don't believe that your meeting is a kind of fate. Most of the time, it's just a robbery. In a book I read, there is such a sentence: "I suddenly realized that he is actually a disaster, a disaster, what a romantic word, but no matter how romantic, it is just a tragedy with artistic beauty."

No matter how romantic the disaster is, the ending is doomed to be a tragedy. Stop pursuing those moments of love and pursue your own eternity. Now that you know that he is your disaster, let go and don't be stupid again. Cut off the doomed love, and you will have a chance to be born again. Step over it bravely. Only in this way can you grow!