Is it reliable to go home for a blind date in the New Year?

The matchmaker in my hometown is actually unreliable, basically a bunch of amateurs.

I can tell you clearly that the one who asks for money is a liar, the one who asks for a gift is a liar, and the one who asks for money is more reliable.

Most matchmakers in rural areas are unreliable. The landlord used to trust the matchmaker in his hometown, but as a result, he was cheated of the personal transportation fee of 1w+2w, and he didn't trust the matchmaker in the countryside at all.

Why not trust? These reasons are also the fundamental reasons why rural matchmakers are unreliable:

1. Matchmakers are all old people, uneducated and love to lie. He will invite you by phone, but when he arrives, he will ask you to buy her a gift or stand you up. Besides, I'll take you around and finish it. This is a complete bluff.

2. Pay 100- 1000 yuan once you meet, and leave it alone if you fail. Such a liar 100%, there is no need to believe her.

The matchmaker loves ugliness and says yes, so the slang in her mouth is ugly if she is ugly, ugly if she is handsome, ugly if she is white, and ugly if she is particularly good. So don't even think about a good date with you.

There are fewer young people, fewer girls and more boys in my hometown, so there are few girls in each matchmaker, so it is impossible to help you talk about what you like.

The matchmaker won't show you the girl's photo, it will only make you go back blindly, and it's not impossible to cheat you. Now that communication is so developed, it can't be a liar or there is no girl resource at all.

To sum up, there are five fundamental reasons that are unreliable. The cheating behavior of rural matchmaker is the most serious. There is no reliable matchmaking service in the city. Although they are from their hometown, many matchmakers make money by cheating people, and they will not help you talk about good partners in essence.

So choosing not to trust the matchmaker in the countryside is the best relief!

Finally, I will share with you a formula of blind date: self-talk is the most reliable > = parents and relatives are the most reliable > friends and colleagues are the most reliable > matchmaking is the most reliable > matchmaker is the least reliable.

Just say what you can. If you can't say it yourself, let your parents and relatives help you. If not, go to a regular matchmaking agency in the city. ?

How to effectively complain about the matchmaker in hometown and countryside?

I believe many friends have gone back to their hometown for blind date. Under normal circumstances, the matchmaker will ask you to give a gift, give 100 yuan in cash, or invite her to dinner and put it on the table for you, among which it is appropriate to invite her to dinner, and giving a gift to 100 yuan in cash is a disguised fraud.

In general, the so-called collection of obscure words, gifts or other valuable things is fraud, because she has not solved your problem.

Why does she always tell you that there are suitable girls, but when she goes, she finds that she is not her type at all. At this time, she will ask you for a phone bill of 100 yuan or a few hundred yuan as a reward?

The reason is simple, essentially to make your money. Therefore, as victims, we must suppress this bad atmosphere.

I take it for granted to give money, but it doesn't mean that asking for money and getting grades is essentially a liar's behavior. This is a business that does not lose money.

Every time the matchmaker calls you and tells you that there is a suitable girl to go back for a blind date, but you try to get home day and night, only to see an unsuitable object, spend money and suffer, and finally do nothing for you. At the same time, it wastes your time and damages your spirit. This matchmaker is really shameful and hateful.

There is no way to file a complaint, and it seems that you can't file a case if you go to the police. Accusing him of fraud is too much trouble. It really seems that no one can control them.

Therefore, I summed up some complaint methods, hoping to help students who are troubled by this kind of rural blind date.

Leave a message to complain about the mayor's hotline through 12345, and seek the attention of relevant departments. Or through the mayor's mailbox in official website, the municipal government, the relevant departments will gradually pay attention to it after seeing it. This situation is too painful for the author at present.

Before the blind date, collect the complete total memories with the matchmaker and the promise made by the matchmaker to you, then set off for the blind date, and keep transport invoice and cash flow for the matchmaker to make a video for friends. If the situation is not true, go to a lawyer and ask her to compensate you for these expenses by sending a lawyer's letter and negotiating. "The promise is inconsistent with the facts, and I feel cheated, demanding compensation for transportation expenses and returning cash". You can communicate with your lawyer in detail.

Reflect this situation to the village committee, brigade and village head, and ask them to change this kind of lying behavior, that is, to tell you that it is appropriate to do so, but it is not appropriate, so you have come in vain.

The above is the complaint path summarized by the author. If you have a good path, you can leave a message in the comments area and discuss it with your friends. Because the author has suffered too much injustice, I don't want others to be like me, so I made a summary, hoping that there will be no such matchmaker bullying in the future.

Seriously, blind date is a lifetime thing. I don't think it is necessary for young people to waste time on rural matchmakers. It is more reliable to choose a local matchmaking agency.

The reason is that the matchmaking agency will do practical things for you according to your situation. Although it costs more, it is at least more reliable than the matchmaker in rural areas.

The essence of blind date is: I talked about it myself. = introduction of parents > meanwhile, introduction of basin friends > matchmaking > matchmaker.