Marry Ma Baonan, and the woman will definitely have bad luck? No, marrying a brother's helper's wife is the most terrible thing.

Now, no matter in the marriage market or dating programs, when Ma Baonan is mentioned, everyone's reaction can be said to be surprisingly consistent. Many girls are in love, even threatened by people around them, and even take their own painful lessons to warn how bad marriage will be when they marry Ma Baonan. In short, under all kinds of remarks, we formed the idea of staying away from Ma Baonan, otherwise it would be a disaster!

To be honest, this idea is understandable. It's hard to find a husband like Ma Bao. But by contrast, marrying a wife who helps my brother is nine hairs in Niu Yi. Life is not only a mess, but also full of dog blood and heart congestion.

Accompany his wife, raise his younger brother, and be forced to become an ATM and a free nanny.

In some families, parents will instill in their children the idea that the elders at home should help the younger generation. Before their daughter graduated from college, she began to say every day, "I will rely on you to raise my brother in the future" and "I will ask your sister directly if I need money in the future."

To tell the truth, if the family conditions are really bad, there is nothing wrong with asking my sister to send my brother to school. But the key is that this younger brother should know how to be grateful and not take others' efforts for granted. But in real life, this is often not the case. Many families will pay unilaterally, thus raising Mi Chong and parasites. It can be said that after marrying such a magical wife, the future life will directly become an ATM and a free nanny.

A buddy told me that his brother-in-law is now 35 years old and not married. I live in their house all day and don't go out to work. As long as you have no money, ask him for it. Make a scene at home if you don't give it, such as "let my sister divorce you" and so on. The wife is a diamond helper and doesn't speak for her husband. Instead, she always suspected that he was unable to make less money. What's more frightening is that my brother-in-law is still waiting for him to buy a house so that he can marry his wife.

It was horrible to meet this 35-year-old parasite brother-in-law. This guy goes to the roadside to tell his fortune from time to time, hoping to see when the day will end.

Think of you as an enemy, and I can't wait to eat you alive

People often say that hearts change for hearts, but some people simply don't know what gratitude is. The nicer you are to him, the more he asks, and the more he takes for granted. What's more frightening is that when you stop being nice to him, he will treat you as an enemy and want to eat you alive.

There is a distant relative, and the couple used to be quite rich. They have been supporting the woman's brother to go to college, and even getting married and buying a house is a down payment from the couple. But because I didn't help repay the loan regularly, I was hated by my brother-in-law. A woman feels sorry for her brother and asks her husband to introduce customers to her brother every day. What is bloody is that all the customers of this couple have been pried away. The woman once again proposed to open a restaurant with her brother, and the rest of the money was taken away. Now the couple are reduced to working, and the brother-in-law buys a house, changes cars and travels abroad.

I can't change my wife's mind and have the idea of divorce.

Of course, the most terrible thing is not outsiders, but all kinds of persuasion to help my brother's wife, but it has no effect at all. Obviously, she has seen the cruelty of her family, but she will still stand on her brother's side next time and die with all kinds of entanglements. This kind of ignorant and self-inflicted practice is really frustrating. Over time, it will definitely make my husband feel cold and want a divorce.

Here, I want to say that the reason why help seekers will not change easily is actually a psychological problem. Their family background is usually flawed. Due to the lack of love and attention since childhood, they fantasize about gaining the attention and recognition of their families through their selfless efforts. In fact, they also know that they are "stingy", but when people are used to giving, as long as they are a little "selfish", they will feel uneasy and heavily in debt.