A widow of destiny takes a hand?

Widows are not meant to be. Widows are unfortunate. Those things are superstitious. They shouldn't be trusted. It is unfair to sentence a woman according to some theories. Women like widows naturally choose to live this life and naturally have many secrets. They have the most precious human shining point of motherhood, and they should be respected by everyone in society.

Reasons for difficulties:

1, lost a harmonious sex life.

Women who become widows will naturally lose their legal sex life because of the death of men. Even if she is entangled with other men, she will be labeled as indecent. As a woman with normal physiological function, this is really a kind of torture. From this perspective, it is difficult to be a widow, and it is even more difficult to be a widow.

2. Material life is hard.

Most stay-at-home men are the backbone of the family, and losing their husbands means losing their financial resources. The poverty of life can be imagined. Of course, there are many strong women among widows, but the material life will not be much better. Even if it is good, women will be very tired.

3. Spiritual emptiness

Both husband and wife talk about everything, which can relieve the pressure of life in one's heart and the pressure of the other. After the death of her husband, it is really difficult for widows to find such listeners, and their living conditions can be imagined.

4. Always put up with criticism from others.

The so-called widow's door is not full, perhaps a conversation between a widow and a man will be widely circulated. That is to say, the communication between widows and others is greatly restricted.

Maybe this situation is better in the city. After all, the neighbors are not very familiar with each other, and they are all busy with their work. But in the vast rural areas, gossips who have nothing to do are always gossiping, and sometimes some criticisms will really collapse the widow's living conditions.