What should I do if my feelings and family problems make me feel uncomfortable because of divination superstition?

From the perspective of fortune telling, 30% of married people are married by the other party. This will not really affect, the most important thing is to look at the collocation of two people. Two kinds of life match. If you are lucky, you won't be beaten. If you are unlucky, finding a wife will do you no more good, and you are not much better there, mainly depending on your own fate. Fate, this is mostly destiny takes a hand. Therefore, there is more to consider in this respect. We can think in reverse, can't married people marry a happy object? Fate, this is mostly destiny takes a hand. And secretly tell you that life can be changed by your own will. Listen to this song sometime.

Many things are changed by ourselves and have little to do with life. With understanding, life can be mastered. Can be changed according to personal wishes. So don't worry too much. Each other is born from the heart.

There is another way to see if he can bully you. This method is very simple. Is when you get along with him, are you lucky? If you are lucky, you won't be caught, and he is your noble person, so cherish him.

The old man's love for you is selfless dedication. Sometimes his views are hard to accept (affect your thoughts), and he has his world outlook. That is to say, his experience, but this experience may not be suitable for the present society. As an old man, I have worked hard for you all my life. So I think we should listen to him, at least to reassure him. It is good to be more filial. Then you have to do what you have to do.

Being together is a very happy and sweet thing. This is your destiny, too. So we must cherish it. I think you should treat him well and make him the standard of your wife. Let him know how to take care of his family He has to pay for it, even if he encounters great difficulties, he should give priority to it. Take filial piety as your most important thing.

It's hard for you to encounter such a thing, but this thing is actually. Let me give you some advice:

For parents, filial piety comes first. Don't change his old man's mind, because if you can't change it, it will only make him more worried. You'd better tell him less about you and your girlfriend and keep in touch with your girlfriend for a while. This will make your parents less worried until you get married together. When it becomes a foregone conclusion, the old man can't change, so he can.

For girlfriends, you still have to get along well. Marriage is just a ceremony. You can be together without getting married. Don't be together just because your mother doesn't agree. You still have to do these ideological work. Talk to your daughter-in-law more about your mother's habits, hobbies, how to care about you and so on. Let your daughter-in-law enter the family in the future and let him know how to be filial. You can also let him know your stress. Together is to undertake the future bit by bit. You can let him know your mother's objection, but you can't make him hate it, so you must let him know your mother before you tell him. If you are not sure, you'd better not say it.

As for you: besides being filial to your parents, you should also make your girlfriend feel happy with you. When you have children, tell your mother that you have to get married if you have children. You can't ignore your parents after marriage. You should take care of her more than when you were not married, and you and your wife should take care of her at the same time.

It's all under your control. Don't let it become your stress. The so-called stress will only occur when you feel that you can't change it. People often encounter many things that can't be changed, and have to change them deliberately, making themselves very painful. If you can't change it, just bypass him, as long as the result remains the same. Why care about so many processes!

You are a good man. Good people have a safe journey and a happy life. I wish you a happy family!

I hope this helps.