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The Wisdom of "Good or Bad" in the Book of Changes

The Wisdom of "Good or Bad" in the Book of Changes

Everyone expects to "get what they want", but nine times out of ten it is not satisfactory. The so-called "all one's wishes come true" is just self-deception. Yes, "things backfire" goes hand in hand. The ideal is always full, the reality is often too backbone, and it is normal to realize that "things are contrary to expectations".

We should have our own dreams. The greatest significance of dreams is to give us a direction to go forward and a goal to strive for. Hope is beautiful and the future is bright; The road is tortuous and the future is bumpy.

There will always be moments when you will no longer believe, but you can continue to pursue it in your heart. Later, you still throw caution to the wind. In every exploration, you will encounter too many uncontrollable things. No one knows whether tomorrow will be heaven or hell. The only thing you can do is to work hard now and run past yourself yesterday without running time.

Everyone has the embarrassment of not getting what they want, and doesn't want to face the fear of failure. However, as long as there is a little hope, people who are not disheartened or hit a wall will always pursue it without hesitation. Until you are physically and mentally exhausted and exhausted, you still have to rely on sleep to pursue it.

Most people can't influence reality with their will. They write down an intention and then erase it because they think it's stupid and they can't do it. Then they "see Si Qi, unwilling to lag behind" and then write and erase. Because I didn't believe I could do it, I really "got what I wanted" and didn't do it after all.

It can be seen that "getting what you want" is always a good thing, and "going against your will" is not necessarily a bad thing. In fact, there is no good or ill luck in heaven, and everything is the best arrangement. -ding

First, there is no good or ill luck in heaven.

Natural phenomena themselves are not good or bad. Only from the standpoint of human beings can there be good and bad. What is gained is good, and what is lost is bad.

Ji, that is, obeying the Book of Changes. Copula upload: "God bless, good luck has nothing to lose." It means that those who are helped by heaven must conform to heaven, so there is no harm in being lucky.

People usually associate "Geely". In fact, it is auspicious and profitable. There is no harm in good luck. Not all benefits are good luck. Some benefits bring good luck, others bring bad luck, which is fierce. In the same way, fierceness is necessarily harmful, and harm is not necessarily fierce. Sometimes it seems harmful, but the result is auspicious. The same is true of good and evil. Good is not necessarily auspicious, and evil is not necessarily fierce.

The Book of Changes says that the change of one yin and one yang is good in any case, and there is no relative evil. It's just that what people don't like is called evil There are good and evil in society, which is the result of entanglement between people.

Second, good or bad luck moves with emotions.

What determines the fate? In fact, many times, our emotions will bring us good or bad changes.

I ching said, "good luck or bad luck changes with mood." Indeed, if we are always furious, it is not only rude to others, but also a curse to ourselves. All bad moods have to be paid by themselves after all. Once you keep your mood stable, you will find that those annoying things will no longer bother you, but will attract blessings.

So how should we control our emotions? It's simple. Before losing your temper, you might as well ask yourself three questions: What am I angry about? Can anger solve the problem? Is there a better way than being angry?

In fact, every time we lose our temper, it is because of the word impulse, and when we get through the most critical moment of impulse, calm down and have inner harmony is the best antidote to emotions.

A peaceful and harmonious mind is the source of all happiness. Where there are people, there will be contradictions. Those who have no way will intensify contradictions, and those who have ways will resolve them. Harmony is the real connection of human life. If you can't fight, you won't fight Indisputable is a realm of avenue and a symbol of happiness. The harmony between people is not without joys and sorrows, but only in the ever-changing life can we appreciate the vibrant and elastic beauty of the avenue. The "harmony" mentioned here is not just a group of harmony without principles.

You have a problem with some people and things, and those things must have a problem with you. Only a harmonious attitude can lead to a harmonious state of affairs. Someone once had many friends calling him to talk about some useless topics, which particularly consumed his time. Every day he is very tired and can't do things with peace of mind. This made him very disgusted, but he was embarrassed to refuse. Whenever he is angry with his friends, he chats with them. One day, he went to ask a man with high accomplishment for help. The master said, "It's not your friend's fault. There is something wrong with your mind. Your thoughts can change things. " The man asked inexplicably, "What does it mean that the mind can change things?" The expert replied: "The more we know the importance of mind, the more we know that we really don't need to be angry in life. If you want to do something, ask yourself if you want to go. Everything is due to the heart. When your mind is very determined to do something, no matter what you encounter, there is always a way to deal with it and solve it. If your mind is not firm, you will always find obstacles. "

You are angry and can't control your emotions. You run counter to your ideas, which is the root of your anger. Ask your heart before you do anything, do it seriously if you want to, and stop if you don't want to. Always keep yourself in a harmonious state, which is in line with the Tao.

Emotions are not uncontrollable beasts. Learn to control your emotions and be an emotionally stable person, and you will be more and more blessed. The biggest enemy in life is not ability, condition or others, but emotion. Live up to your mission and watch the flowers bloom before the court; I have no intention of staying, and I have no intention of staying, looking up at the clouds in the sky. Don't let bad emotions affect your "quality".

Third, the wisdom of seeking good fortune and avoiding evil.

The meaning of good or ill luck in the Book of Changes is that if you follow the principles of the Book of Changes, it is good luck, because you will certainly gain something; If you don't follow the principles of the Book of Changes, it's fierce, because even if you get something, you can't stand it.

What is gain? Even if the business loses money, there will be gains, because losing money, learning experience and progress are the gains for your own growth; If you are cheated by others, you will gain something, because your character has improved-I will lie to him when he lied to me, and now he lied to me, and I will not lie to him. Isn't that what I got? Of course, these behaviors must be done according to the principle of easy.

Grace is born of harm, and harm is born of grace. If the leader is kind to you, you will not grow up, indulge yourself and form many bad habits. On the contrary, the leader has been urging you and being very hard on you. You will learn Kung Fu. Benefit is the source of harm, and harm is the basis of benefit. According to the train of thought of the Book of Changes, combining advantages and disadvantages, we will gradually get the correct concept.

One's greatest fear of success is immediate failure. Your grades are not good, others won't catch up with you, your grades are excellent, and everyone catches up with you, so you put a lot of pressure on yourself. If you rank first this time, you should know that many people are working hard and studying hard, and there is only one expectation, that is, they want to surpass you. So be sure to remember, do everything you should do and ask less about the results. Life is a positive process, not a result.

To do one thing, you must first ask yourself if there is a dream in your heart. With a dream, your luck is neither good nor bad. Without dreams, your luck will be mixed. If this is something I must do all my life, I will do it regardless of success or failure, and I will not think about whether the result is auspicious or fierce. Once a person has the idea of good or bad luck, it means that he is not the highest, but has reached the average. If you dare not say that good or bad luck is in your own hands, but believe that good or bad luck is in your own life, it will be even lower.

So, there are three kinds of people. Some people think that good luck is determined by fate, which is the worst; Some people think that good or bad luck is their own decision, not bad; Some people think that there is no good or bad luck at all, and they do everything according to themselves. If they do, they will die a fair death even if they give their lives for justice.

Nature has no good or bad luck. A flower blooms and withers. It's neither good nor bad. A rabbit died, not fierce; A bug was born without luck. These are neither good nor bad.

Good or bad luck is a feeling that only people can have. An animal has many feelings for you. You will feel very sad when it dies. An animal has no feelings for you at all. If you die, you die. You won't feel anything. Then, why do some people hate the same dog and others like it? Because different people have different feelings for dogs, we can't generalize. If you see a man holding a dog, he is closer to his mother and better than his father. Don't laugh at him and don't get angry, because he is angry with his parents on purpose, and sooner or later he asked for it. Each of us should keep a normal mind and pursue what is recognized, normal and reasonable.

Don't kneel for good luck in life, be careful and don't blame. The Book of Changes says that a person will make mistakes, but after making mistakes, he will correct and remedy them, and then he will be blameless. Who doesn't make mistakes in this world? When you say that you don't make mistakes, it means that you don't know enough, or that you lack self-knowledge, or that you deceive yourself and seek fame.

There are many mistakes listed in the Book of Changes, which eventually become blameless, because people know the mistakes and will remedy them. Being good at remedy will minimize the harm, which is the responsibility of human beings.

Sometimes couples quarrel, and the husband learns from the western model and says, "Madam, I love you the most." The wife thought, you have said it hundreds of times. The effect can be imagined. The husband apologized in the western way and said, "Madam, I'm sorry." The wife thought, why not always be so sad? Any other signs? Therefore, this western-style behavior has no influence on China people. The best way for a husband and wife to quarrel is for the husband to pour his wife a cup of hot tea without saying anything. The wife will give her husband a pair of slippers, and after ten minutes, they will be talking and laughing.

If you don't blame, you don't regret it or make excuses. There are often two words in the Book of Changes, one is regret and the other is meanness. Regret is from the heart, that is, after a person has done something wrong, he really wants to change it and will make up for it with practical actions. I didn't mean to say it. I really can't help it. The word "stingy" means "Wen" above and "Kou" below, which means that the mouth has found many reasons to cover up the mistake, but there is no idea to change it at all, just whitewashing the mistake.

When people are very smooth, they tend to be careless, talk casually, and then become fierce. This is the law of life. Because of self-indulgence, many people will be offended unintentionally, and those who are offended by you will fight back, so the murderer will come. What will you do at this time? You have two ways: one is to regret-I'm really sorry for others, and I shouldn't stimulate them like that anyway, and then face the challenge bravely to solve the problem; The other is to make excuses-I scold him for being wrong and he scolds me! He cursed more than I did. What's wrong with me calling him names now? ……

The secret of the Book of Changes lies in mastering the laws of human society by using the laws of nature. In nature, the full moon is short of people, the tide rises and falls, and the tragedy of life is helplessly repeated in good and bad.

Luck begets meanness, meanness begets fierceness, fierceness begets regret, and regret begets luck. When a person is very successful, he begins to be stingy and is unwilling to help anyone who can. If we carefully observe the people around us, we will find that most poor people are helpful and generous. Most rich people are unwilling to help others and are very stingy. Someone explained: anyway, the poor have no money, even if they give it all to others, there is not much; Rich people will think, I have so much, can I give it back to you? That is the reality. Rich people are stingy, but poor people are generous. If the rich can not be stingy and the poor can save reasonably, then the whole world will change. This is called "doing the opposite." More specifically, the words in the Book of Changes tell you that you still have a way to go if you don't do this. I ching is selective. When it says it will be auspicious, it tells you that if it is not auspicious, it must be fierce. When it says it will be fierce, you know it will be lucky to do the opposite. So, everything depends on you, not fate.

What do you mean, seek good fortune and avoid evil? Is to break free from the cycle of good luck and regret. How do we do this? The answer is simple, as long as you can regret it first and not regret it later.

When goodness and regret are often used, meanness and fierceness can be reduced. We often associate luck with regret. When we succeed, don't be too happy at first. We should think that if we are so successful, we will accidentally offend many people, and then be more careful, so that we can avoid a lot of trouble. If you earn a lot of money, build a new house high as soon as you get back to your hometown, and inadvertently offend your neighbors. Because you humiliated your neighbor. You are rich, aren't you? You can build tall buildings, can't you? Are you laughing at us? Do you bully us? If neighbors have such an idea, they will suffer sooner or later.

The ancients made money to build tall buildings, but there was a process, that is, they ignored everything and built them if they wanted to, but invited their neighbors to dinner first. The traditional thinking is that whenever someone invites him to dinner, he begins to think: Why did you invite me to dinner? If you go, you will know that you are building a new house for your family. While drinking and eating, the host didn't say a word about building a house, but asked his neighbor, "How have you been recently? How is the child? " Never talk about yourself. At this time, some people will say, "You have money, so it's time to redecorate your house. Your family has a large population and there are not enough bungalows. At least you have to build three floors. " The host must say, "No, no, absolutely not. Our neighbors for so long should share weal and woe. " Soon someone will say, "You can't do this. Things are in order. You build it first, and then we'll learn from you. Not good? " ! What are you polite about? "At this time, the host even refused to say," No, I appreciate your kindness, but I can't. "Someone will propose a toast to him soon:" Our village depends on you to live up to expectations. Without building tall buildings, our village will lose face. " "Well, I will build it for the reputation of the whole village! "Master can't refuse at this time. Who will the rich offend in such an exchange? Today, most of us just don't understand this set and have offended everyone. Remember, if you respect others, others will respect you.

The Book of Changes tells us that if we want to avoid misfortune, we must jump out of the melody of happiness and regret and have regrets first. When we achieve something, we should think that we should not get carried away and respect others. When we gain wealth, we should think that we should not lose the good tradition of thrift and try our best to help others. So we must get into the habit of thinking about the right time before speaking, and whether it is appropriate to say this sentence at this time. Although many people say that they should take care of themselves, in fact, people are the most cruel to themselves. They don't sleep when they sleep, they must eat full when they eat, and then they keep saying that they are full. Who supports them? They all support themselves.

People's words and deeds should be divided into identity, time, place and occasion, which is called "in place". If virtue does not match, it will be a disaster. As long as Confucius attended the funeral that day, he would never sing that day. If the occasion is wrong, the identity is wrong, the timing is wrong, no matter how good it is. If a road runs dark and gets stuck, it will be "untimely" and produce many sequelae.

If a person can always be cautious, say nothing and do nothing, even if there are difficulties, he can avoid them, and he will be in an invincible position. It all depends on you, not fate. So: "My life is my decision."

Ding guijun

September 20(th), 2020