Why is it difficult to find older men and women?

Many people will find it difficult to find someone to fall in love with after work, but it is not difficult to understand why. First, the circle has become smaller. After work, people are generally very busy, and the circle of work and life is relatively fixed, unlike when they were at school, there were many classmates and friends. However, once you have a job, especially in a particularly stable working environment from nine to five, you basically face the same people every day. From home to work, from work to home, from two o'clock to the front line every day, you can't get in touch with anyone else at all, so it is naturally difficult to find someone. So many office workers are complaining about where to find someone. You can't just pull people off the street.

Second, there is little time. Many people find it difficult to fall in love after working, because they are too busy to go to work or travel every day. They can't wait to eat and sleep and become luxury goods. Where do they have time to sit there and talk about love? Love without time guarantee is unreliable.

Third, the thought is complicated. Once a person has taken part in the work and entered the society, it is difficult to devote himself to a relationship as he did when he was young. If you want to go there, you should consider various factors, such as whether two people are a good match and whether you can afford a house in the future. Once these factors are mixed together, it is naturally difficult to devote yourself to love.

Therefore, because of the above factors, many older men and women are born, and some even don't want to believe in love anymore, so they are ready to die alone. Some are still searching hard, waiting for each other, and waiting for their own destiny with the last fantasy. Maybe this is the price of growing up.