Make fun of the "fate" and "debt" between husband and wife.

Husband and wife are predestined friends and have no chance to get together; Children are debts, and there is no debt. Whether it is fate or debt, whether it is husband and wife or father and son, it is a grievance. Return the favor or complain. Among all social relations, the most important and intimate are the relationship between husband and wife and the relationship between parents and children. These two basic relations are the basis of all social relations in the whole society. Therefore, the relationship between husband and wife, parents and children is closely related to everyone's fate and life.

We often see many such phenomena in our lives. Some couples love each other and their families are harmonious; Some couples are at odds, and chickens fly and dogs jump. Some fathers are filial and their children shine on the threshold; Some parents and children are as cold as ice and become strangers. How many loving couples also choose to divorce halfway for various reasons and go their separate ways; Some couples divorced, then remarried and got back together.

But no matter how complicated the real situation is, we can make a brief analysis based on the two fundamental reasons of "industry" and "debt". Husband and wife are predestined friends, with good and evil. Of course, the relationship between husband and wife is not only a matter of "fate", but also a "debt" between them. Similarly, there are not only "debts" but also "fate" factors between parents and children. All kinds of complicated karma and debts determine the relationship between husband and wife, parents and children.

There are good karma and bad karma. If the husband and wife have a good marriage, such couples are often very loving. When they are not married, they feel at home and can usually be together forever. For example, the marriage between Qian Zhongshu and Jiang Yang. Some are childhood friends, and naturally come together when they grow up. For example, the marriage between Qian Xuesen and Jiang Ying.

This kind of marriage, the two people not only hit it off, but also have a heart in many cases. For example, one of them wanted to go to the movies, and when he said it, it happened that the other person had the same idea, so he hit it off. A person is going home when he is away, thinking of bringing some food or snacks to the other person. He bought exactly what the other party wanted to eat these two days. What a coincidence!

If the relationship between husband and wife is not good, the opposite is true. The combination of two people may be due to various irresistible reasons (of course, good karma also has such a situation! ), living together without feelings, can't cultivate feelings in the future. We just live together. In the event of an accident, one or both parties may have an extramarital affair. Although this kind of fate can't be called evil fate, it is definitely not good fate. There are many such examples in reality.

If the relationship between husband and wife is good, the general situation is the same. Nothing more than harmony and love. This is not necessarily related to poverty and wealth. Of course, if the family life is rich, it will be icing on the cake. There is nothing to discuss about this. But disharmony, love, are very complicated.

Some couples not only have no feelings, but are like enemies. Meeting is a quarrel, and I can't stand blaming each other. If you are not satisfied at home, you will smile when you are with others outside. This is mostly caused by bad karma at work. But because of the unfinished fate, I can't leave, so I have to live alone. Because this kind of predestined couple does not involve past debts, generally speaking, they do not give in to each other, and there is nothing anyone can do.

Some couples were very loving at first, but later, for various reasons, one side became disgusted with the other, began to despise the other side, and had an affair. For example, when one party, especially a man, has money and status, he begins to despise the original match and have sex outside. In fact, it is not only a personality factor, but also a premise: Why did the injured party find such a "love rat" or "love rat"? You were blind at first? No, it's their fate. Later, there were problems because the initial good fate turned into bad fate, in other words, the fate between them came to an end.

Some couples are just the opposite. At first, I felt nothing. Later, living together, the more you look, the more pleasing you look. Not only feel sorry for each other, but also grow old together and have many children. This is because the initial fate is shallow, and later the fate is deep. In this case, in addition to the fate of the two, there are often overnight debts in it. If one party wants to repay the debt of the other party, it will be doubly kind to the other party, tolerant and tolerant of the other party, and willing to pay for the other party.

We often see a handsome young man, Gao Fushuai, who has everything he wants, but marries an ugly wife, or his status and conditions are quite different, which is jaw-dropping. Or a girl with good conditions, rich and beautiful, who can have whatever she wants, just married a loafer, which makes people puzzled. For example, Princess Samsung in South Korea. The reason lies in past debts. The other party is collecting debts. So there are two sentences: "A good wife has no hero, and a hero has no good wife"? And "good horses often carry spoony men, and smart girls often sleep with stupid men"?

Bad relationship between husband and wife is often due to hatred in previous lives. This kind of couple, if there is a problem, it will be noisy, and the chicken will fly and the dog will jump. Seriously, they broke up halfway and went their separate ways. Some even lost their families, and it is not uncommon for their wives to separate. For example, there were two people, A and B, in a previous life. They had a good relationship and were good friends (or boyfriend and girlfriend).

A is more sincere to B and protects B's interests everywhere. But B is duplicitous to A, often fooling A into spending money for himself. Later, I borrowed a sum of money from A and never paid it back to my death. Then they became husband and wife in later life. On the contrary. The descendants of B always defend A and do everything possible to take care of each other. However, the descendants of A still don't buy it, picking their noses every day. Finally, I took each other's money and found another person to start a family.

Another example is that these two people were enemies in their previous lives, and later became husband and wife, and the victims in their previous lives wanted revenge. Couples in this life don't want a good life. No matter how beautiful the love between two people is at first, it will eventually change day by day. Either this accident or another accident will not last long anyway.

For example, the media reported that his wife was killed and his husband was a suspect. Despite all kinds of excuses, I just can't produce favorable evidence to prove my innocence. Of course, there may also be evidence that is not accepted, leading to unjust imprisonment. Ten or decades later, the real murderer appeared, and her husband's grievances were washed away, and she spent a big prison in vain. I lost my old job and my life has changed. Other wives are missing, and men are also suspected to be murderers. As a result, I went to prison in a daze, and decades later my wife came back by herself. Such examples are not new in the media.

Some people may object to this and think that this situation is purely accidental. You can't infer the inevitable result from such an accident. However, a person's life is the inevitable result of countless accidents. Just think, why did you choose him or her instead of another person?

You are excellent, law-abiding, conscientious, and have never done anything that harms others' interests and violates the law and discipline. Why did this unexpected misfortune happen to you? Will this happen again if you choose another person? Unfortunately, what has happened will not happen again, and history has no assumptions.

In the final analysis, there is karma and debt at work! To understand these truths, on the one hand, we should face them calmly and not complain about others; On the one hand, we should be proactive, resolve contradictions and settle grievances. The contradiction between husband and wife is generally a trivial matter, and there are few major problems of principle. When you encounter problems, you should find the reasons from your own side. If you consider the problem from the other's point of view, there will be fewer contradictions and disputes between husband and wife, and family relations will become more and more harmonious!