Why do some women still stay married in domestic violence?

Some women suffered from domestic violence all the year round during their marriage, but did not choose to divorce. According to the truth, such women should resolutely choose to leave their husbands, but they have the opposite behavior and they are willing to live with their husbands. For example, some women are abused by their husbands at home, and many people advise them to choose divorce, but these women shake their heads and still maintain their confidence in their husbands and are still willing to live with them. This is a common state. Why are these women willing to stay married? In fact, if we want to understand this problem, we must analyze some situations about domestic violence before we can find the answer. This is a responsibility to women. First, the three cycles of domestic violence are 1. The first cycle is long, accompanied by frequent mild violence. The husband constantly shows hostility and anger towards his wife and occasionally attacks his wife, but this degree is very slight. 2. In the second cycle, the violence between husband and wife is serious, and the husband's temper is completely out of control. When he encounters unhappy things, he will start work on his wife, even if it is very common behavior. The violent husband in the third cycle sincerely repented of his violent behavior, even bought flowers and expensive gifts to forgive him, and promised that such behavior would not happen again. Second, the psychological change of the wife in domestic violence is 1. In the first phase of domestic violence, in order to avoid being beaten, the wife desperately catered to her husband's wishes and did not dare to disobey him, showing resignation. 2. In the second phase of domestic violence, the wife was particularly disappointed with her marriage, unwilling to live with her husband, and had made up her mind to divorce. 3. In the third phase of the wife's domestic violence, because she saw her husband apologizing to herself, she was willing to trust her husband and continue to live with him. Third, the reason why the wife did not choose to divorce in domestic violence is 1, which has a traditional view of marriage. Most women who do not choose to divorce in domestic violence have a traditional concept. They always think that love and marriage should be faithful to each other, and even in some cases divorce is not one of the choices, which is the characteristic of these women. It is precisely because these women have a traditional view of marriage that they are willing to give their husbands a certain chance to maintain their marriage relationship even if they suffer great injustice in marriage. This is a very bitter thing. Although this concept of marriage is conducive to the development of feelings, for these women, if they find that their husbands often abuse themselves, they should think more about themselves at this time and don't always immerse themselves in grievances. I can't let go of my love for my husband. Many women who have been abused by their husbands know very well that this practice of their husbands is very wrong, and they know that they will not be happy if they continue, but it is precisely because of their deep affection for their husbands that they cannot let go of this marriage. For example, when these women are abused by their husbands, they want a divorce. However, when their husbands apologized to them, their hearts melted. At this time, they will want to give their husbands a chance, which is a result of their feelings. "Empathy" is a good feature. Women can make their marriage happy if they know how to attach importance to emotions, but women who attach importance to emotions also need to think for themselves. Don't be abused by her husband all the time, sometimes she has to be decisive. Only in this way can she be happy. I hope to change my husband by myself. Some women do not choose to divorce their husbands after domestic violence, because they hope that they can change their husbands, so that they and their husbands can continue to maintain a loving state and make their marriage have a good result. For example, some women often communicate with their husbands in their lives, and they also give all their feelings, hoping that their actions can change their husbands' hearts and make them change this kind of domestic violence. This is what women think. As a woman, it is very good to have such a mentality, which can be said to be conducive to the development of marriage. However, women should also think twice and judge whether they can change husbands before making a decision. This is responsible for your own happiness. 4. Put all the responsibility on yourself. Some women pour all their feelings into their husbands. They hope to maintain the happiness of marriage through their words and deeds. So after some problems in marriage, they will first reflect on themselves, and sometimes even blame themselves for all the responsibilities. After being abused by domestic violence, some of these women first do not blame their husbands, but reflect on whether they have done something wrong. They always find some reasons for their husbands to have confidence in them. This is the characteristic of this part of women. Although women need to have confidence in their marriage and take some practical actions to maintain it, this does not mean that women need to wronged themselves. Women should think more about themselves and judge whether their marriage is really necessary to continue. Nanqiao's emotional implication is that the behavior of "domestic violence" is very wrong, which will not only make women feel the slightest happiness, but may even make women black and blue. In this state, there will also be great problems in women's lives, which is the consequence that every woman must consider. In the face of her husband's domestic violence, women need to think carefully about whether their marriage can go on, whether they can change their husbands, and then decide whether to separate from their husbands. That's the most important thing. Therefore, the author suggests that after being abused by her husband, women need to think about themselves, not only marriage, but also make their lives happy and have a good living environment. This is the source of happiness, and every woman should pay attention to this problem.