Boyfriend's family urged marriage ```````` not going to buy a house `````.

In fact, it is you and your boyfriend who can really play a leading role in such a thing. Ask yourself whether life without a house is acceptable, whether you have confidence in your boyfriend's future, and whether you should work hard for the house when others are enjoying life. If you are willing to accept some of the above questions, then any thoughts of others, including parents, can't affect your choice, because you firmly believe that as long as two people are together, work together and make progress together, they will certainly make progress.

You don't care if you don't have a car or a house now, but when you get married, can you still insist on it when you are faced with daily necessities and various expenses? He is the only one for you. Money is not everything, but it is indispensable. A good marriage is also based on money.

How can I put it? First of all, I'm a man. Emotionally speaking, as a man, I certainly hope to have a girlfriend or partner who will never give up regardless of wealth. But in reality, this is very difficult to satisfy. I don't think there is any reason for men to let women follow them wholeheartedly under the premise of unpredictable future.

At the same time, times have changed, and the weight of love in marriage is getting lighter and lighter. It is true that no matter who asks himself, he will admit that true feelings have nothing to do with money, power and status, but in the face of reality, no one can avoid customs.

I just want to tell you that you don't have to feel any burden. It's normal to have such an idea. There is no question of right or wrong here. It's not easy for anyone to live now. There is nothing wrong with hoping to marry a man with good conditions.

However, if you meet someone you really like, if you have confidence in his future, then let all external factors go to hell, love what you love and cherish each other.

1. The reason why the man's family urges marriage is because they are afraid of losing you, golden phoenix. The man's parents will try their best to cooperate with their children and coax the woman into their own hands. If the man is a liar, then the other parents are supporters. This is necessary. Which parent doesn't love their children? Who wouldn't want to find a golden phoenix? So once married, Phoenix becomes a sparrow, and it is a sparrow in a cage, and it can't fly out if it wants to, so the man's family will urge marriage.

Second, parents disagree because they think the man can't give you material needs. You have to ask yourself, is it a problem to want your daughter to eat in the future? What's more, you don't know what kind of person this son-in-law is. What if he is a liar? Daughter is the meat that fell from her body. Can you give her to someone who is not at ease? You may not understand this kind of mood, but you will understand it at the moment of giving birth, but it may be too late then.

Therefore, you should pay attention to the following questions.

First, is he a potential stock? A woman can marry a poor man and go begging together for a while, but that's temporary. In the future, this man will have a successful career, so a woman will marry him. For example, in the last century, you used up all your money and bought shares in Coca-Cola, so you became an absolute beggar and lived by drinking water every day. However, you have lived to the present, and you have thrown all your shares out. By this time, you have become a billion. Therefore, women should choose their spouses in this way, even if it is exaggerated.

Second, you should understand that if you marry someone, you don't just live with this person. Also, you married his family, not his life and so on, so you have to ask yourself, can you accept his family? Observe for yourself. Some people's families will be unbearable. The most troublesome thing is the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law Don't look at the mother-in-law now. As I said just now, a man's mother is his trust. For the sake of his son's future, they should cooperate well and show it to you in the most perfect image, just as they did when they were selling. When you get married, you won't be a phoenix, and you will understand what it's like to be bullied by dogs. Secondly, he is life. Can you accept it? If you want to go to his house and make a surprise visit to his dormitory, you will see a lot of information. In short, you should have a comprehensive analysis of him. This is to marry someone and entrust your life to you. You have to observe yourself.

If you are a potential stock, you have a good personality and can be the master, then stick to it. Don't mistake a good man, there will always be bread. Good luck.