How to tell fortune if the contradiction between brother and sister is very serious _ What should I do if the contradiction between brother and sister is very serious?

How to deal with the contradiction between brother and sister?

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In the previous era, this kind of thought was really common and everywhere, but with the development of society now, it should gradually decrease, but this phenomenon will still exist more or less. I think there are two reasons: 1, and traditional ideas are deeply rooted. The first is the reason of traditional ideas. Tradition tells us that daughters are poured out by married daughters, and only by adopting sons can we carry on the family line. Although we have emancipated our minds and made social progress, this concept still exists, especially in some backward areas where son preference is more serious. 2. Many people mainly rely on their sons to provide for the elderly. In addition, there is a very realistic reason. Many old people have no pension. In his later years, he basically relied on his son to provide for the elderly. Once a daughter marries, she can't count on it. It is for this reason that many families prefer boys to girls. As parents, we should correctly handle the relationship between children: 1, don't judge two children by gender, don't judge two children by gender, have a boy or a girl, the son can support the elderly, and the daughter can also support the elderly. They are all their own children, and the palms of their hands are all meat. Don't distinguish right from wrong by age. In addition, don't distinguish between right and wrong children by age. Many parents always take "you are elder sister, let younger brother" and "you are elder brother, let younger sister" as the first sentence, which is not only easy to hurt children's hearts, but also not conducive to the formation of children's correct values.