What have you realized in your interpersonal communication?

1 Sometimes the order of speaking is more important than the content.

For example, if you buy something, you will definitely care about how much money you pay, so the general advertising language will first say what effect XX products can have, and then say that people who sell how much money will always care about what they get and think about what to pay accordingly ... delicious French fries only need 9.9 ~ 9.9 delicious French fries ... Which one do you think is more eye-catching?

2. The person who can be your leader must have something extraordinary. Such as resources, such as experience, such as contacts.

If you want to work easily and quickly, you must "kiss up to the leaders properly", with one more friend and one less enemy.

You will find a lot less trouble, at least the leader won't take it personally.

3. Wechat or social software, remember not to ask yourself if you are there when looking for others? Hello, are you there?

What you think of as politeness is actually a waste of other people's time. Just say your problem.

For example, if you ask me if I'm here, I say yes. You asked me to borrow money, but it seems particularly impolite for me not to reply.

Rejecting you was for fear of hurting you, so I replied that he was not there, which was embarrassing.

In the future, when people ask me if I'm here, they just ignore me and don't reply.

4. Understanding the "three seasons" is not everyone's cognition at one level.

Zi Gong argued with a man one day. Zi Gong said there are four seasons in a year, and that man said there are only three seasons in a year. Then they argued for hours, and finally Zigong called Confucius and said, Teacher, you told him how many seasons there are in a year, and Confucius said three seasons. Then the man walked away triumphantly. Zi Gong didn't understand why there were only four seasons in a year, but the teacher said there were only three seasons. Confucius said that this man was the reincarnation of a grasshopper. Have you ever seen a grasshopper survive the winter? He has never seen winter. Is it meaningful for you to tell him that there are four seasons in a year? Summer insects can't talk about ice, and well frogs can't talk about the sea.

5. The poor people stand on the cross street and play with ten steel hooks, but they can't hook their relatives; Rich people play with swords, guns and clubs in the mountains, and they can't leave their relatives and friends. ...

6. In fact, not so many people pay attention to you, but you feel that you are the focus, so you are very cautious in everything you do. If you are particularly tired, you should relax. You live for yourself, not for others, and your audience is small.

7. Don't lose your temper, but don't lose your temper.

Usually control your emotions, no one will pay for your emotions. But if someone touches your bottom line, you must immediately get angry and fight back, let others know that you are a grumpy person, and that you can't touch your bottom line, so you won't be bullied as a soft persimmon.

8. Tolerate praise and avoid killing.

When others boast that you are rich, you should scrimp and save, and show your generosity in front of him.

When someone praises you, you will do anything for him unconditionally.

When others praise you for your knowledge, you start to "dump your bag" unscrupulously.

The most disgusting trick in sports competition, your opponent is good at playing with his left hand,

You suddenly said to him, I just saw your right hand play very well.

You will find that this opponent will deliberately use his right hand, causing him to play abnormally.

9. Be grateful, but don't rush to repay.

Be grateful, but don't rush to repay. People who are too eager to repay are often people who don't want to owe you a favor.

Because he wants to get rid of your relationship as soon as possible, in fact, a little "grace" can make your relationship last.

Remember not to tell everyone who owes you something. It's especially bad.