Should formal marriage be supported?

First of all, I don't think formal marriage should be supported or discriminated against. In marriage and love, everyone has the right to choose the person he likes. Live the marriage life you want. As long as it's not being a third party and destroying other people's families. As long as you don't cheat or betray. Who you want to be with and what kind of life you want to live are all freedoms that everyone should have.

Behind the formal marriage is an infringement of such a freedom.

If parents don't force you to get married, relatives and friends don't urge you to find a boyfriend/girlfriend, and they always arrange blind dates for you, you don't have your own freedom to get married whenever you want, and you can marry whoever you want, not to mention "formal marriage".

However, this does not mean that we should support these people whose freedom of marriage has been violated.

There are many ways to fight for freedom of marriage for yourself. Just as freedom of marriage is violated, you can still choose whether to fight back. It is better to compromise than to compromise. Even these married people have accepted this way of marriage. What else can we say for them?

Moreover, if we show support for the "physical marriage" group, our real life may be more chaotic. Marriage is a very sacred thing, and it is difficult for us to accept all kinds of expensive weddings in modern society, such as getting married with a car and a house and tarnishing marriage with money. Now, there is such a thing as a formal marriage. People who really love each other can't be together, but both parties in marriage are acting. ...

If we don't even allow a third party to appear in our marriage, why should we know that they are blatantly acting? They may all have people they like, and marriage is just a smoke screen.

Do you understand why you don't support formal marriage?

The person you like, she is with someone else, but it is a formal marriage. It is illegal for you to marry her ... she will commit bigamy. ...

People who really love each other can't be together, but people who don't love each other are acting ... I think, if you don't like it, don't be together, and don't use formal marriage to deal with parents' pressure.

You want to live your own life, no problem, you have your own freedom of love and marriage. Nowadays, with the development of society, the freedom of individual life is getting higher and higher, especially in big cities. There are many people who don't get married at the age of 30, and everyone won't think that the other person is a leftover woman who can't get married, let alone discriminate against people who don't get married at the age of one. The key is what kind of life we choose and what kind of life we want.