Why can most leftover women only find a second married man?

Because women over the age of 30 have depreciated in the eyes of public opinion, they are no longer attractive to the opposite sex and have no advantage in marriage. It is said that men are single-minded, and they always like girls aged 18 from 65438 to 80. Leftover women will have some very prominent points, both advantages and disadvantages.

Some have good self-conditions and some have good family conditions, which are nothing more than high or low face value, outstanding talent or lack of knowledge, too feminine or too masculine, too good or withdrawn, too secular or too clumsy. Anyway, they were left behind.

First of all, we should analyze the men who are not married at the age of 30. Men and women are different. Men in their twenties have the strongest physical desire for women. Coupled with the traditional concept of starting a family in China, they can get married in a hurry at the age of 25, and they can get married smoothly if they have the ability. The rest of the men are either poor in conditions, poor in family conditions, too picky, or too good in conditions to get married. If a woman is dumped, there is only one reason, that is, she is too picky, either waiting for the so-called love naively or expecting to become a rich woman, and she will be dumped over time.

Therefore, the mate selection conditions of the leftover women have dropped again and again, but they have never found a suitable man to start a family. It is said that they want to find a suitable person to marry, but compared with young girls in their early twenties, good men would rather choose young girls than women in their thirties.

A few days ago, I attended a junior high school classmate's party, and there were many female classmates. We inadvertently talked about Chen Chen, who is the only unmarried older woman among female students. She's in her thirties this year, and she's not married yet, so we can't help gossiping. One of the lesbians said that now it seems that she can only marry a second-married man after dawn, which is probably the kind of family with children. Think about it. Before, she didn't like ordinary poor diaosi, and high-quality men wouldn't want a woman as big as her. I'm afraid she can only choose some divorced men to remarry, otherwise it will be difficult for her to get married now.

I said, why don't you introduce her to a good man after all these years of classmates? Another lesbian theory, don't introduce it to her, maybe you will scold her, forget it, she will marry if she wants to, and she won't be alone if she doesn't want to. This kind of thing can't be managed by others, and kindness is also regarded as a donkey's liver and lung. With the progress of society, the status of men and women in the workplace is gradually equal. While pursuing self-worth, more and more intellectual women have gradually become "older women". Their birthday wish changed from "finding a prince charming" to "finding a man". They missed the best period of their careers.

After many times of love, their enthusiastic hearts gradually cooled down, and they no longer believed in sincerity, love, life, themselves, the opposite sex and the ability of love. Society is fair. Older women don't cherish what they once had. Times have changed, the past cannot be recalled, and they often regret themselves. Only by changing your mentality, not obsessing, and no longer obsessing, happiness will always knock at the door.