Qipa said

Chipper said the first debate in the fourth season:

I'm chasing someone I like very much. TA seems to be interested in me, too, but I found through the time machine that it was not TA who was with me ten years later. Should I "chase" or "give up"

Goddess of this issue: Miriam Yeung

There is an ancient clock hanging on my head forever, reminding me that I am getting closer and closer to breaking up every day. Oh, I'm leaving soon.

I don't want to see TA's family. I'm afraid I like the TA family very much. I can't embrace this beauty.

In a relationship that you know will be separated, there are also times of cowardice and cowardice.

You know you'll be separated. How can you enjoy this love process?

I encourage you to try bravely, but is there a "if" behind my encouragement? What I encourage you is not to be afraid of 99% failure, but to pursue the possibility of 1%.

But what the time machine tells you is that 100% failed, and the bad result is affirmative, affirmative.

On the road we pursue, it is the result that supports us to overcome difficulties and gain the whole journey.

What the time machine tells you is not a cruel warning, but a kind reminder.

You don't have to go to a scarred place to give up. If you know the result in advance, you won't have to take a detour.

Giving up the wrong path is progress.

It's too hard to ask for it, but it's even harder to watch you and TA get closer to the tragedy step by step.

Love you like a life, a love letter from Li Yinhe and Wang Xiaobo. We saw that Li Yinhe had lived so strongly that they separated. Because she loved him, she became the person she loved and became a sexologist. Are these worthless? Are these not as good as growing old together in your hearts? I don't believe it.

Don't you want to know why? I persisted until that moment, and I wanted to know what happened later and what caused us to separate.

TA's active choice to give up the pursuit of eternity is not the same as being passively labeled with a shelf life.

Who wants to hear that I will never be with you again? Nobody wants to.

(1) If you are not in a hurry, you are not human.

You haven't met since. You don't know whether TA will be well after ten years, whether there is anyone around TA, and whether you are alone. You don't know any of this. Won't you feel guilty?

(2) If you worry, you are not living a human life.

How did you enjoy the sweetness of love in these ten years? You said you were sincere and sweet, but you were lying.

What would you do if there was a person who loved her very much in this decade? You gave up and were still jealous. You will ask yourself, I know my fate, but will I delay your happiness?

Do you want to remain loyal in these ten years? When you meet someone, will you think about whether TA will be the future person?

None of this is a life.

I knew ten years ago that I would be with you ten years later, but I didn't come to see you ten years later. I was with someone else. (slag)

You are all naive and ignorant people who go with the flow. You are trapped by time, and you are driven away by fate. Then you meet before the veil of ignorance and face the unknown future hand in hand. This is why ordinary people cherish meeting.

You know which direction the flood will flow, and you know that someone is waiting for you at the next pier. At this time, no matter who you are, you are no longer the partner who can fight against fate with TA***, but an accomplice of fate!

So, you robbed the last decade and belittled the next decade.

You can't enjoy what you once had, because once you know the answer to fate, you are cursed, because you are ruined by fate, and you can't enjoy life for even one minute.

Anything meaningful is better done than missed.

What I have done, no matter how stupid, will become a joke over time, and what I have missed will become a resentment over time.

Dear stranger, hello, now I have a sincere feeling in front of me. I want to cherish it. I don't want to wait until I miss it. The greatest pain in life is nothing more than this. Now God has given me a chance to stand in front of you. I want to say four words to you: I like you. If you have to add a time limit to this relationship, I can tell you for sure: ten years.

I don't know why I wasn't with you that morning ten years later. Maybe I'm stupid, maybe I'm crazy, maybe I'm dead, but today I stand in front of you humbly, please give me a chance to hold your hand through this decade. You can refuse me now, but I still want to take the initiative to chase you. I hope you give me a chance, maybe inadvertently, we can change the future.

It's time to give up the opposite argument: mixing

You are wasting my time, you are killing my time.

I think you are listening to Yoga Lin. Let me love you and then abandon me. You just need a beginning, not an end. You are great!

I love you, do you choose me or love? If I really say I love you to someone, I choose you.

Ellie, she exposed her animal nature as soon as she spoke. It is better to do it than to miss it.

Why doesn't love count? Because you always knew I wasn't the one to accompany you. Otherwise, you should carefully calculate every step we take together, right?

You haven't read the story of choosing a day. Don't you know that the sky is thundering? You think you're Lu Han?

Our pursuit means that I don't hesitate. I don't leave myself a weak space. I just want you. Pursuit is action, and being together is the purpose.

Their pursuit is, I chase you, and when I catch up with you, I will follow you.

You took my youth and my life.

I'm like a mistress. We were together, but we were never really together. I'm like a spare tire. All the time I spend with you is just to fill the gap between you waiting for ta. I'm not as good as your booty call. At least your booty call knows it's time to break up at dawn, but you never tell me when to wake up.

Ta friends circle rarely sends your photos, even if there are, it is a group photo; You want to meet ta's friends, and ta says no, I'm afraid you'll be bored. You said to take ta to meet friends, and ta said no, I would be bored. You want to visit ta's parents. The teaching assistant said that I had a meeting today. You want ta to visit your parents. Ta said I was going on a business trip tomorrow.

Today, this choice is before us. We used to be the idiot who was finally heartbroken, but today we can make a choice. If we want to chase, are we going to be an asshole who clearly sees the future but doesn't confess to ta, so as to create more idiots like us who can only be sad in the end? I think we did better.

Why didn't I end up with ta? Because I took the time machine and saw that it wasn't ta around me, I didn't chase ta after I came back, so it wasn't ta at that time. (butterfly effect)

Time machine lets us predict the future to change it. All fortune tellers are trying to change their fate.

The time machine is to avoid this ending, not to escape from the present life.

What if we invented a time machine that can see for 20 years, and after 20 years, you found that you were with the man ten years ago?

Bug, your cat has been at home for about ten years. Do you think it will hurt your conscience not to play with cats now?

People know the ending, but we survived. We have the ability to forget the doomed ending and do what we should do. This topic only shortens the time and makes us mistakenly think that we have no ability to forget the possible bad ending, but in fact we do.

When we know that everyone has a doomed ending, what we have to do is not to give up opportunities that we like each other, but to cherish every opportunity. When I know that there may not be this person in the future, I will not give up this person, but cherish everyone.

Love is that there are crocodiles in the deep pool. I was warned, but I had to go. Obviously, there are vicious dogs in the yard, and I have been warned. I have to rush in, because my princess is on the tower and my prince is underwater.

Because we all want to die in the end, we really have no time to cherish everyone. We can only find the one we cherish.

The happiness that I have experienced, when I broke up, is a burden.

The more I want to be happy, the more I feel sad. Because happiness itself is not happiness, the persistence of happiness is happiness

Why does God give us such an ending, saying that after we break up, the original happiness and sadness will turn into sadness, because it reminds us that your life is limited, and you can't pin all these sorrows on a person who is destined to be sad.

You can talk to the last issue of "Should I divorce when I meet the love of my life?"

If I were the other half ten years later: love is selfish, I don't want to see someone walk into your memory ten years ago and become Zhu Shazhi and Bai Yueguang in my heart.

Ten years later, it was found that it was not TA. What if it's cosmetic surgery or wearing it?

Yoga Lin's song "Waste".

All the thorns are marked in red.

Although Fang won this issue, what moved me most was Mix, Qiu Chen and Dong Jing.

I used to be the idiot who was finally heartbroken.

Starr said:

"The more you want to be happy, the more sad you are. Because happiness itself is not happiness, happiness is persistence. "

"After we broke up, the original happiness and sadness turned into sadness, because it reminded us that your life is limited."

Remembering a sentence I saw yesterday, Milan Kundera wrote in The Unbearable Lightness of Life: