My parents are superstitious and don't agree with us because they are far away. What should I do?

I think it's better to wait until your parents are older, so that your parents won't say anything. At the same time, you can meet your boyfriend's mother and family, and use the time before marriage to communicate more feelings and increase family ties. Personally, I think it is wrong for your father to be rude to you. You should talk to your parents with reason and emotion. If you are afraid of dad coming again, you can ask your best sister to come with you. Even if she doesn't help you, sitting there can ease the mood at home. After all, there will be no excessive behavior of outsiders on parents, but don't let your boyfriend accompany you. If your parents have a problem with you, things will be even more chaotic if he goes. When you talk, you can tell their parents that more than twenty miles is not far. It's not that you don't want them to come to your house, you just want to be with the people you love. If they want to go to your home, you can pick them up with your boyfriend, or tell them that when you get married and have financial strength, you can go home and buy a house to take care of them. I guess you have a daughter! ? ! ? It's just an expression that parents can't bear you. At the same time, I am worried that I am old and have no one to support and take care of. You can completely coordinate your feelings and love. On the surface, this is your parents' problem, but does your boyfriend know your difficulty? He's been thinking about you. Did he ever think about your embarrassment? No matter how our parents raise us, they won't hurt us. Although we need to have our own life when we grow up, I don't know. In short, we will understand when we become parents ourselves. I don't know if I can help you. I just said what I wanted to say. I hope it won't help.