Chongyang Dahua fortune telling

Can the birthday of a long-lived old man be advanced? )

I'd rather not. In addition:

It is a very happy thing for an old man to celebrate his birthday. So, do you know what the old people should pay attention to on their birthdays? Birthdays are always pleasant. However, a recent report in the British Daily Mail brought some bad news: scientists in Britain and Switzerland found that the risk of old people dying on their birthdays is far greater than other days of the year.

According to the report, British researchers found that birthdays greatly increased the risk of heart disease, stroke, falls, suicide and even cancer, leading to a sharp increase in the number of deaths. Among people over 60, 14% died on their birthdays. The research results of Swiss researchers in recent 40 years also support this conclusion. They found that on the birthday, the probability of death of the elderly due to a heart attack increased by18.6% than usual; The probability of death due to stroke increased by 265,438+0.5%, especially for women. The probability of death due to cancer increased by 10.5%. Researchers believe that the increase in the death rate of the elderly on birthdays may be related to being too excited on birthdays, leading to accidents, or aggravating emotional depression because no one cares. Wang Dahua, an associate professor at the Institute of Developmental Psychology of Beijing Normal University, also said that no matter whether it is great sorrow or great joy, it is undoubtedly easy to cause accidents, especially for the elderly. In addition, birthdays often bring great psychological changes to the elderly. For example, children give birthdays to the elderly. Although they were happy that day, their loneliness will be more obvious when everything returns to normal the next day. This kind of emotional ups and downs is not conducive to the health of the elderly. In some areas, giving birthdays to the elderly pays too much attention to ostentation and extravagance, which leads to the elderly becoming a supporting role in the ceremony and having a very tired birthday. So, how should the old man's birthday be spent? Wang Dahua believes that,

First of all, children must remember the birthday of the old man. Old people are more sensitive and have complicated feelings about birthdays. They will be happy because they have increased their lives, but they will also be lost because their children have forgotten them. So it's best to go home on the old man's birthday and say "Happy Birthday" to his face. If you really can't go back, you should also make a phone call to let the old man know that you have not been forgotten.

Secondly, the birthday ostentation and extravagance of the elderly is not important. Whether it's buying a cake, having a warm and simple birthday party or sending a birthday wish, as long as it can convey care and love. The birthday of reunion is enough to make the old man feel great comfort. Luxurious ostentation and extravagance, numerous guests and constant entertainment are actually the face of the organizers and have nothing to do with the elderly. Of course, if you meet an old man's birthday, it's not bad to have a big birthday party. After all, the old man's birthday is something to celebrate and be happy about.

Third, prepare exquisite gifts. There is no need to have special gifts every year, but there must be several times that can impress the elderly. Gifts don't need much money. Many times, they use their brains to make some original gifts for the elderly, which is even more surprising. For example, carefully making a video with photos, writing down what you want to say but can't say in person, and showing it to them on their birthdays will definitely move the old people.