I am a post-80s generation in my early 20s. Seeing that many friends around me are married, what should I do to get married? Who can tell me whether to start a family or a career first?

When you are in your twenties, you can imagine your married life first. After marriage, you will no longer be in love. You are responsible for each other's families, including visiting relatives.

Many post-80s are very upset. At the beginning, they were called by the society to go to high school and enter the university, but when you graduate from the university, you will feel powerless, because whatever you study at school is somewhat out of touch with what you apply at work.

Getting married requires not only a career, but also a mature mind.

I think starting a family is to tie yourself up, be bound and have no initiative. What's the use of starting a family if you don't struggle now? Just, but not as people know, have been poor together.

If you use the tone of fortune telling, you are not married yet, hahaha.