Ex-wife's message to ex-husband

The message sent by the ex-wife to her ex-husband is that everyone will have their own way to deal with feelings or other emotions, which is impossible to guess, because everyone has very rich feelings and emotional changes, so what will the message sent by the ex-wife to her ex-husband be?

Ex-wife's message to her ex-husband 1 After the divorce, the woman sent a message to her ex-husband: Thank you for bringing me back to life.

Many men and women who divorce because of unfortunate marriage, dereliction of duty or hurting their other half will regard each other as the biggest destroyer of their lives after divorce, and will live as enemies after separation, just wanting to die of old age. However, after her divorce, the following woman sent a message to her ex-husband: Thank you for bringing me back to life.

I can hear that she must have been hurt and hit by the other party in her marriage, so she still has bad feelings and dissatisfaction. Let's take some time to listen to the story of the client about the past. Maybe we will have a more correct understanding and cognition of marriage and getting along with husband and wife.

"When a woman is trapped in a marriage and doesn't feel concerned, she will become extremely depressed and uncomfortable." This is the feeling of 37-year-old Ms. Feng. She said that she had been married to her husband for many years. This man is very strong, and he is the kind of man who finds himself very selfish after getting married. I've always focused on myself, and I don't care so much about my partner and children. At that time, she thought that maybe the other person was such a character, which was caused by carelessness and didn't care too much.

But later, I found out that this man still doesn't have much feelings for her, so he won't care about her, because being busy is definitely not a reason to ignore his partner and family. For example, she has a headache, fever and physical discomfort, and he will never pay attention to it, let alone remember what special time and anniversary brought her a little surprise and created a little romance. In a word, for them, marriage is a situation of making do with life.

However, as a wife, she undertook the responsibility of doing housework at home, raising and caring for children. Nothing was gained, but she lived very tired and hard. Over time, she will feel wronged and feel sorry for her situation.

Feelings are naturally more maintained, more concerned and closer. If we just let nature take its course without any subjective efforts, it is bound to get colder and warmer with the development of time. In fact, widowed marriage is a disaster for both men and women. Because you have no feelings as a connection; Because I don't care about each other's inner feelings and pains, it is very easy to hurt each other because of some things.

These things will definitely cause estrangement and quarrel between two people, and they will live in a state of torture and endless in the future. If it is because the face is unwilling to separate, it will only bring more pain to both sides. She also understood this truth. She was completely disappointed with this man and marriage before deciding to let go.

When she proposed a divorce, the man's reaction was quite dull. I just asked her a question: "Don't regret it in the future." She replied, "Don't worry, I will never." The other party will never do too many things to try to retain. In this way, two people picked a sunny morning, went to the Civil Affairs Bureau and tore up the divorce certificate.

After returning to being single and finding happiness and freedom, Ms. Feng gradually came out from the shadow of that marriage and the harm caused by her ex-husband's indifference and neglect. At this time, I feel that the sky is blue and the trees are green. The flowers and trees around me are pleasing to the eye, emitting fresh fragrance. Even looking at the white clouds in the sky, I think they are as beautiful as a picture scroll.

Because until this time, she was in the mood to look at all the ordinary beauty around her. Unlike before, I always feel sorry for myself because of my bad feelings and unsatisfactory marriage. And the pain is unbearable, and everything around is ignored. I didn't know until I was separated that a woman was herself first, followed by her wife and mother.

So, at this time, she sent such a message to her ex-husband, saying, "Thank you for bringing me back to life." On the contrary, it was divorce and letting go that made her regain her awakening as an independent individual. At this time, she felt that even a child who grew up in a loving single-parent family is better than being tortured in a complete but painful family as in the past ... She would rather live alone than face the cold nature, which can only bring torture and fatigue to herself.

Conclusion: What is happiness? Happiness means that you can always feel comfortable, happy and satisfied. So everyone's happiness is completely different. Some people think that life is happy only when you are rich and can get what you want at will. Some people think a simple meal is enough. As long as husband and wife have good feelings, family harmony is called happiness. Some people think that freedom is a kind of happiness as long as you stay away from people and things that bring you pain and unhappiness.

In short, as long as you have an accurate definition of happiness in your mind, and you can find it in real life, and you can always be happy and stay away from everything that brings you pain and trouble, you are actually quite close to the true meaning of happiness. If the situation is completely the opposite, you are sad all day and can't find a reason to make your mouth rise, then everything needs to be adjusted and changed now.

Ex-wife's message to ex-husband 2 On the first day of the New Year, ex-wife sent a message: Happy New Year, ex-husband: Your son misses his mother.

No matter what mistakes adults make, or because of emotional discord, children should not be involved, because children are the most innocent. Moreover, when they are young, we should keep them naive and childlike, so that they can grow up healthily.

On New Year's Day, my ex-wife sent her ex-husband a New Year greeting. However, the ex-husband only replied: the son misses his mother. Seeing this makes people cry.

Isn't there a song that says, "Only a mother is good in the world, and a child with a mother is like a treasure. Hiding in her arms, happiness is indispensable. "

Narrator: Ms. Wei, aged 35.

My ex-husband and I have been married for ten years. In the past ten years, my ex-husband was very kind to me, but I didn't know how to cherish it. I divorced him on impulse, and now I regret it. Although divorce requires two hands, I put it forward on my own initiative, because I am a vain woman, and I usually like to dress up to close the distance with my sisters. Because they are rich, I want to be like them.

So, I forgot my identity and status, and I have been playing with them, just showing off my lack of strength there. The husband is an ordinary company employee, and his monthly income is barely enough to maintain the basic expenses of the family. And I don't work, and this family depends on my husband's salary. Although my husband works hard every day, I am still dissatisfied with him, because I think he is too useless to support me.

We also have a six-year-old son. I am basically a shopkeeper who cuts and cuts, because when I was in love with my husband, he promised me that he would be responsible for earning money to support his family and I would be responsible for being beautiful. Although so many years have passed, he really didn't make me feel wronged except for making a little less money. As the saying goes, a hungry snake swallows an elephant, and that's me.

Maybe I've been with my sisters for a long time, and their husbands are very rich. They never look at the price when buying things, and they can swipe their cards at will. And I want to buy a decent dress. I have to think about it again. This is the difference. Later, I thought I couldn't live a hard life with my husband, because the fortune teller said I was a rich man, and I would marry a rich man and live a good life in the future.

So I asked my husband for a divorce, but he didn't argue with me, because he knew that unless he had money, he couldn't keep me anyway. But my husband's only request is to leave his son to him, because he said he didn't want his son to be wronged with me, so we divorced peacefully.

After the divorce, I became more free. Without the bondage of family and children, I became more wild. I began to get in touch with rich people and make friends with them. To tell the truth, I have my own self-knowledge. If I'm not pretty, they won't value me. They just take a fancy to my beauty and stay with me.

Anyway, that's it. This society is so realistic and profitable for others, and others will stay with you.

I did have a few rich boyfriends after the divorce, but their families were very opposed, because I was a divorced woman and had a son, and they couldn't accept it here. I also want to marry into a rich family, but who told me that I am a divorced woman?

After these things, I understand that the outside world is not as warm as home, and it is better because there is a husband and son at home. No matter how late I come back every day, my son and husband will wait for me at home. This is the warmth of home. However, since the divorce, my life has regained freedom, but there are a lot of things missing, and those things can never be found again.

Today is New Year's Day. I miss my son very much, but I have no face to meet him. Because I abandoned them, I was not qualified to meet them, so I could only secretly send a text message to my ex-husband to say hello.

My ex-husband's reply made me burst into tears. He said that his son missed his mother. I know my ex-husband still has feelings for me, and he still wants me to go back and remarry him, because my son needs his mother, too. In fact, I have been divorced for several years, and my ex-husband has never remarried and has been waiting for me, but I have no face to see him. What qualifications do I have to get his love? Now my mood is like being strangled by a knife. It's so uncomfortable!

Concluding remarks

Although every family has a difficult experience, since two people can meet and get married in the vast sea of people, this is the fate you set in your last life, so you should cherish the difficulties in living together. I believe there are no obstacles. If two people have no children, they are still one person. But after having children, you should think more about them. After all, it is the fault of adults. Don't let the children pay the bill. It is unfair to them, so marriage is not easy. Do it and cherish it!

Message from ex-wife to ex-husband 3 Letter from a divorced woman to her ex-husband: 19 Married and divorced for two years, I put it down.

Do women miss their ex-husbands after divorce? Yingying said she would, and she hasn't put it down since the divorce. It was not until she saw her ex-husband again a month ago that she was relieved.

Then let's listen to Yingying's story and see a letter she wrote to her ex-husband.

Just a month ago, I suddenly put you down, and I don't want to let myself have any illusions and nostalgia for you.

The entanglement between us before has indeed become the past.

Many people may laugh at me for being stupid. Divorced for two years, I haven't let you go. How can you just let it go? In 19 marriage, I lived under the same roof with you 19 years. I can't put you in the position of a stranger. I used to be 19 years' bedside person, but I can't say that I have changed.

I spent the most youthful and romantic years with you, from 22 to 4 1. I have devoted all my efforts to this family, but you told me that "you have no feelings for me and you don't love me".

I still remember the night when you told me that people didn't know what to do in middle age. It gave me a feeling, like a verdict, which plunged me into the abyss at once.

The friendship between husband and wife for so many years is gone if you say no.

I cried like a child and lost my mind. I admit that I am looked down upon by many women, but what can I do?

I am a person who believes in love and marriage; I believe that you have given and loved, and you should not be treated unfairly.

How easy it is for you to say, if you don't love, you won't love, and 19 years of friendship will be written off.

Ask yourself, I can't do it, which makes me dream about you since my divorce.

Until a month ago, I met you alone at a friend's wedding. There is a beautiful young woman around you, and I am flustered. It makes me uncomfortable to see you talking and laughing.

I'm so stupid. I still have fantasies about you when everyone else has a new love. I missed you so much that I thought you would change your mind. I also convinced myself that I divorced in a moment of confusion and anger, and you would be nice to me again. After waiting for two years, it was just an illusion and a dream.

Why do I always want to give you a chance to come back after divorce? Because I thought of our children, a son and a daughter.

After the divorce, my son will follow you and my daughter will follow me, and we will still meet once a month. Every time they meet, the two children are reluctant to part. I felt embarrassed when I saw my son, and I was ashamed that my son didn't want him. He kept blaming me for it.

Husband? No, you're already my ex-husband. Let's call the father of your child.

The father of the child, you know? The night I told my two children that we were getting a divorce, my daughter asked me, "Mom, is that brother still a brother?" Dad or dad? I answered her yes. She asked me again, "Then why did you take me away? This is also my home. " .

Hearing this sentence, I cried on the spot. "Yes, this is still your home, not mom's."

My daughter is ten years old, but she doesn't seem to understand my sadness. She won't understand why I said it wasn't my mother's home.

My son is old and in high school, and he doesn't care much about us. I'm afraid you don't care about his study.

When it comes to divorce, when it comes to children, you will be speechless.

Dad, I let go of myself and have no illusions about you.

After waiting for you for two years, you didn't work hard at all, which doesn't deserve my attention. I just hope you can treat your son well.

As for my daughter, you don't have to worry. I will try my best to make her live a good life.

Nineteen years of marriage, like the first half, it's time to turn over. In the future, I just want to have a good life with my daughter.

After the divorce, I also thought about whether to find another one. To tell the truth, I'm afraid it will affect the children. After all, my daughter is still young. What about you? You don't care. I see through it.

As parents, you should think of your children first, and then yourself. Your new girlfriend is not much older than her son. How can it be reliable?

That's all. Maybe I think too much.

After that, I still treat myself well and live a good life.

I thought divorce was your punishment for the mistakes you made in your marriage, but I didn't expect you to realize your mistakes at all.

Seriously, if you can apologize or work harder these two years, maybe I will forgive you. This makes me sad and disappointed. There's nothing.

I admit, after all, women are more nostalgic in marriage.

Not afraid of the future, not thinking about the past, you and I will do nothing in the future.