How should children and parents resolve it?

Traditionally, the so-called punishment seems very bad. It seems that it is a very serious thing for children to be rude to their parents. Therefore, children are either resented and discriminated by their parents, blaming him for all the bad development, or simply abandoning their children, causing countless tragedies in family relations. But is it really that serious? In fact, it's not so exaggerated at all, just because the ancient people wrote a simple book, and the word "gram" represented many situations, but the fortune teller who didn't know it well simply explained it literally, and finally formed a stereotype for thousands of years, as if the word "gram" would be bad, and some "resolute disposal" must be taken to save the day. There is indeed mutual restraint between parents and children, but because parents are in the position of active discipline, children are in a passive role. In fact, if you insist on saying "who boycotts whom", then I am afraid that the composition of parents boycotting their children is still relatively high! For this reason, please look at the meaning of "gram" from a more positive perspective, which is the correct attitude towards life.