Sea of life: things that are too persistent are easily covered up.

They say life is like a dream. What is life?

Nan Huai Jin said that life is the accumulation of pain.

Ceng Shiqiang said that life is the process from asking for help to Dont Ask For Help.

Mai Jia said that life is the sea, and life is like the sea. It is ups and downs, complex and changeable, and endless, which makes us profound.

The Sea of Life tells the life stories of seven people: "I", grandpa, dad, cousin, little blind man, aunt Lin and the protagonist "Colonel".

Everyone's story is different, and the trajectory of life is different, but there are ups and downs, just like the sea, after the low tide is the high tide.

After reading it carefully, I suddenly realized that the people in the book were around, knowing them and life.

Grandpa has read many books and is the most reasonable person in the village. He told a series of stories.

"I" can ask grandpa any question. I think grandpa is the most insightful grandpa in the world.

Grandpa's nickname in the village is "Old Witch Head". An old witch's head refers to a person who can predict the future in the past. Someone in the village asked him what his problem was.

But wisdom is like grandpa. Once you insist on a point, it is easy to hide your eyes and ears. What is even more frightening is that this is a rumor.

Grandpa loves face, and the little blind man makes a rumor that the colonel is a "sodomite." Grandpa believed this rumor and was afraid that his father would be involved and the family's "reputation" would be damaged, so he carefully planned and thought about strategies and spread another rumor everywhere.

As a result, I got deeper and deeper, and the rumors about the colonel became more and more accurate, so I couldn't afford to get sick.

It was not until my friend Chang Baolai told me this lie and told grandpa that he was trapped, but grandpa still couldn't get over it and finally reported it to the colonel in secret.

There is no airtight wall in the world. Grandpa's secret report spread throughout the village. His best friend, Bao Bao, closed the door for grandpa during the Spring Festival.

As a result of the report, my father no longer eats at the same table as my grandfather, "I" and my brothers are always bullied when they go to school, and grandpa himself is afraid to go out.

Eventually, "I" was forced to wander in a foreign land, and my grandfather died of depression.

To this end, "I" hate little blind people very much. His first rumor about the colonel was a "sodomite".

But did the little blind man really get the whole family into trouble?

When the little blind man made a rumor, the whole village knew about it, but grandpa was the first person to really believe it. The more he believes, the more lies he weaves to cover up, and the more he feels that others believe.

The lie grew bigger and bigger, and finally I couldn't help it and betrayed it.

Unexpectedly, grandpa was wise all his life, but he was planted in a rumor.

As said in "Life is Full of Practice", people are full of wisdom originally, but they are blinded by wisdom only because of desire and persistence.

What will happen if grandpa turns a deaf ear to rumors?

But Mai Jia said that there are no ifs in the world, only consequences.

Rumors are bullies. The less you believe it, the weaker it becomes. But once you believe it, that's the truth.

The best way to deal with rumors is to ignore them.

The author Mai Jia said that "the colonel has too much hatred in his heart", but in fact, the colonel is not the only one in the book who contains hatred.

The colonel hated those Japanese women and put himself in a lifetime of humiliation.

"I" and grandpa hate little blind people, because of a rumor, the family is ruined.

The little blind man hated his father and brought himself pain.

Father hated grandpa, told on the colonel, and put his best friend in trouble.

Hatred is like a ghost, wandering between people, covering people's hearts and turning people into demons.

Hatred comes and goes, but it is controlled by hatred and falls into the trap of hatred.

Japanese women tattooed the colonel to control him. When Japan was defeated, the woman herself was gone, and her control lost her strength, but the colonel was always burdened with hatred, which was like an invisible rope that bound him all his life.

"I" hate the rumor of the little blind man, so that when I see the tragic experience of the little blind man again as an adult, I still can't bear pity and silently expect him to die.

But did the little blind man die because of my expectation? No, on the contrary, "I" is invisibly burdened with pain, and every time I see him, I reproduce a painful memory.

Until later, I gave the little blind man a dollar, and the little blind man gratefully said to me, thank you.

So there was this passage: "This is my victory. I spared him and myself. I have defeated myself that I have not defeated for decades ... I feel both glorious and lonely. "

At that moment, "I" finally put down my hatred and spared myself.

Hatred is like a trap. Let go of hatred, let go of yourself, and you can go into battle lightly.

Fortunately, "I" finally put down my hatred, otherwise "I" will carry it with me all my life.

Some people say that the colonel's ending is too tragic, but I think it's good.

The colonel's lifelong shackles are tattoos on his lower abdomen.

In order to keep this secret, the colonel refused aunt Lin's courtship, chose not to explain in the face of slander and harassment, and even had a good heart. He picked up a knife and cut off the tongue of the little blind man and broke his hamstring.

In the end, the colonel was completely angered by the people who rushed up to pick up his pants on the trial platform, and he lost his memory and became a "madman."

The colonel has been troubled by this shackle for too long, and he has lost too much because of this shackle. After becoming a "madman", the colonel relaxed a lot.

Under the care of Aunt Lin, he can concentrate on sericulture and painting.

The original taboo tattoo has become a secret that children can share. They lived happily and slept peacefully until they were nearly one hundred years old.

The colonel lived a comfortable life in his later years. He lives in the present every day and doesn't have to bear the weight of secrets. How could he be unhappy?

As Mai Jia said, happiness is to raise your own heart, not others' eyes.

The little blind man is also disabled for life because he knows the "secret" that he shouldn't know.

But I haven't given up on myself. I've been trying to live, just like the sea, with ups and downs.

The little blind man finally found his position on the Internet and became an "ancestral fortune teller". It is said that he was very popular, made friends and started online dating.

Who can guarantee that a healthy little blind person will live better than now?

Just like the sentence in the book: Life is not what you have lived, but what you remember.

Work hard and life will be better.

Reading this book is like watching the sea, seeing the sea for the first time. It is boundless, beautiful, mysterious and attractive. Slowly found that the sea has a temper, and suddenly it is like a wild animal. However, after the storm, people found that the sea was calm again, and it was still the original Na Pianhai. Suddenly realized that maybe this is life.

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