My parents asked me to call an unrelated aunt her mother (and her father, called Ya in Shaoyang dialect). Only I can call my brother and sister. Why?

My husband is from Shaoyang, and he is looking for his in-laws online. Why do you want your children to call others "mom"? It's okay to recognize a godmother, but it's impossible not to call me "mom". The following is what I found on the Internet. If you want to know why, just take a look. When you grow up, you can't understand when you change your mouth. If my child calls someone "mom" from the beginning, he is likely to be confused by such a mess!

The older generation thinks that children are weak and sick, crying at night, the eight characters are not in line with their parents, or the five elements have shortcomings. Through the judgment of folk experience or the calculation of fortune tellers, you can "recognize your mother." The object of "recognizing mother" can be people or things, such as ancient trees, trees, rocks, stone bridges, bodhisattvas in temples, etc. , can be regarded as "mother". If you recognize a woman, parents will bring their children to your home with gifts and hold a "mother recognition" ceremony with deep friendship. After that, the parents of both sides will move around each other and be commensurate with their parents-in-law, and the children will have to change their ideas and call the recognized object "mom" or "mom". However, according to their seniority at home, their biological parents cannot be called "father" or "mother" directly. If you recognize things, you should dress trees, stones and bodhisattvas in red and green clothes, set up offerings and set off firecrackers, make wishes on holidays, or pray for peace and health.