Why does Princess De treat the four sons and the fourteen sons differently?

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First, the princess was born without raising.

Because she was a virtuous girl when she gave birth to her fourth brother, her son could only be raised by other concubines, and the concubine chosen by Kangxi was Tong Jia Huang Guifei who had just lost her daughter. Tong Jia Huang Guifei is a very sensitive person. She was the original owner of De Fei (now it is inferred that De Fei turned out to be a maid-in-waiting around Tong Jia Huang Guifei), and Kangxi didn't establish a queen because of his "broken wife" for several years, so there was a situation in which the status of this imperial concubine was very close to that of the queen (including the prince who also took her for a period of time)

Imagine that a woman who has just lost her child will feel bad for her when she sees her newborn child. Imagine, a royal concubine who was assigned to the emperor by a maid-in-waiting, would she hate this maid-in-waiting? Imagine, a child who is not sensible will like an adoptive mother who is obedient to himself and dotes on him extremely at this time, or a mother who wants nothing?

I guess that young Yongzheng's childhood must be happy, and his adoptive mother loves him very much (of course, it may also instill in his biological mother how to abandon him). He has a position that other brothers don't have (after all, he is the son of the imperial concubine and raised by Emperor Kangxi, and only his second brother enjoys the same treatment, but at this time, his second brother is sensible, and it is useless for Tong Jia to be good to him). This is because a few years later, Yongzheng succeeded to the throne, and he did not reward his mother's family.

Second, Yongzheng's personality defects

Kangxi raised Yongzheng single-handedly, so he called Yongzheng a "moody child". Modern judgment is that he may be a little hysterical when he loses his temper. At this time, the foster mother will hold the child in her arms, and no matter how angry he is, the foster mother loves him (as Gan Long said). When he returned to his biological mother, he was 1 1 years old. According to Defei, children should be sensible. But the facts show that the child's return did not bring any benefits. On the contrary, because of Tong Jia's years of indoctrination and paranoid personality, she was very unhappy (later Yongzheng GG took care of the fucking thirteen)

Yongzheng is undoubtedly a person who bears grudges. This can be seen from the fact that she never had a relationship with the consort of Princess De in the process of checking the warehouse. De Fei clearly understood that as a woman, even the Queen Mother would have a hard time without the support of her consorts, depending on the emperor's face, even worse than Kangxi Dynasty.

Third, the Excellence of the 14th brother.

In the early May 4th Movement, Kangxi was offended and even almost killed himself (which is why Kangxi would never let him be a prince). But it is undeniable that he firmly grasped the emperor's heart, knowing that the emperor likes people who are willing to take responsibility, so he got the greatest benefit after abolishing the prince (not only was he assigned a lot of assistants, but his name was also changed from Yin Gui to Yin Zhen. In the Qing dynasty, the importance of children and the status of mothers can be clearly seen.

Judging from the later deeds, this prince, who is both civil and military, is not only arrogant (beating people in the hall like Mei, but also collecting money crazily during the election campaign), and his outstanding military talent is really commendable. Later, more and more attention was paid by Kangxi, and the authorities were fascinated. He never saw that he was just a tool, not a person who applied tools. Therefore, superstitious fortune-telling (fortune-teller said that he would be enthroned at the age of 39) and speculation (one of the legends in the streets of August, September and 14 would be the prince) were rejected to some extent by Kangxi (he didn't actually become king at the end of Kangxi's life, but just gave a general king without the title of king a convenient commander-in-chief.

The authorities were fascinated. . . The mother began to dump her youngest son and even gave up the "eldest son with no future"

Fourth, Kangxi's decision

At the beginning of the Qing Dynasty, when the flag owner still enjoyed the right to control the subordinate genera, Kangxi gave a series of relatives such as Yongzheng Longkeduo and Nian Gengyao, and Longkeduo seemed to be the nephew of Tong Guifei (it was too late. . I'm so sleepy, I can't remember), and it seems to be some kind of hint that fourteen was given to Princess De (personally, Kangxi himself never thought that anyone other than 2, 3, 4 and 8 would be a prince). When the prince died, he was only twenty at the age of fourteen. In fact, this is a spur and observation.

The princess mistakenly thought that Kangxi made her completely fall to her youngest son, so the tragedy happened.