What should I do if my marriage is not good, I can't let it go and I can't live without it?

What comes to mind after marriage problems is divorce. But when you really want a divorce, you can't make up your mind. Repeatedly, on and off, inseparable, or live together after divorce and want to get back together.

However, as a woman's sex, it is to find reasons outside, feel how bad her husband is, and never reflect on herself inside. Problems in marriage are the result of the ability of both husband and wife to get along.

There is more than one way to solve this problem, let alone divorce. One can't make up his mind, the other really gets divorced when his emotions are out of control, and finally he really can't let go.

So it can be said that divorce is not feasible. Another feasible way is to manage a good marriage through the study, promotion and change of gender relations. However, this road is difficult to walk, and how difficult it is to change yourself.

Problems that you can't solve by yourself. It is not a matter of a day or two to change a person's cognition, thinking mode, emotional management and communication style, improve the ability to get along with each other in gender relations, and turn a vicious circle into a virtuous circle. It can also be reversed without a second consultation.

Life is not easy, you love it and cherish it. Running a marriage is a technical job, and intuition will never succeed. For your own happiness, invest some money, spend some time, energy and money, study hard and improve, and the reward may be a lifetime of happiness.

Those who are in marriage are actually unhappy and inseparable from happiness, which has become the normal state of marriage. There must be bad reasons for not living well, and there must be inseparable concerns. Marriage is probably such a dilemma.

Marriages that have experienced betrayal and infidelity are often in this state, so many people feel very painful, and marriage has become the source of continuous pain in this life.

From a rational point of view, if marriage can't give you happiness, choosing divorce is the corresponding result. However, because divorce involves too many problems, which constitute insurmountable obstacles or indigestible knots, many people can only compromise in such marriages, and there will be inseparable situations.