My family forced me to break up with my girlfriend by death!

I chatted with a friend on the internet the other day and talked about fortune telling.

She said that she and her boyfriend want to get married recently, but the man's parents, especially his mother, are firmly opposed to it, thinking that their characters don't match. Let me take a look at it for her. I told her that I didn't study the eight characters. If it's a question of eight characters, I'd better consult other "masters", hehe.

I saw pictures of her hands and face.

The main line of her marriage (under the little finger) diverges at the beginning, just like the English letter Y is written sideways and backwards, and the bifurcated head is on the palm of your hand, indicating that the beginning of marriage must be difficult and tortuous. Only through constant struggle, communication, persuasion and efforts to solve difficulties can we teach lovers to call them dependents.

She asked me if there was any way to solve the eight-character incompatibility.

I told her that only through moral cultivation, doing more good deeds, helping others wholeheartedly, enriching their knowledge and enhancing the value of life can husband and wife get along politely and patiently, appreciate each other's advantages and forgive each other's shortcomings, and avoid misfortune.

As for the transformation of the eight characters, chanting and praying for God, these are not recorded in the physiognomy and numerology books handed down from generation to generation, just as the Buddhist scriptures do not say that incense ashes can cure diseases. They are related, just a trick of charlatans and goddesses to collect money.

An old man once told me that when he was young, he also made a promise to resist his wife. He knows that he is stubborn and refuses to give up, but he knows how to cultivate and control. When he quarreled with his wife, she shouted, "You wife, you are going to piss me off!" " "He immediately braked to make amends, so he quarreled at the end of the bed. After decades of marriage, there was no serious disaster. Now, children and grandchildren will grow old together around their knees, because the "gram" of fate is not terrible, but only refers to opinions or differences, living habits or differences, and does not involve life and death.

Therefore, instead of calculating eight characters, it is better to treat your marriage more rationally. For example, the ancients were afraid that the age difference between men and women was 6 years and 6 months, which was called six reds and considered unlucky. But if you happen to meet an excellent friend of the opposite sex at work, you are congenial, but you accidentally commit "six reds" Do you have the heart to leave her Or careful calculation leads to errors in the conversion between lunar calendar and sunrise calendar? However, in any case. My heart is always a little awkward. In fact, where did the six reds come from? Is it very painful? Or was it born? Even by accident, the ancient background has changed a lot today. Perhaps, your birthplace or date of birth has given you the key to making mistakes.

In ancient China, marriage was the fate of parents and the words of matchmakers. The most important thing is to see whether the eight characters of men and women match. In the story "The Phoenix on the Plug", the marriage between Lu You and his cousin was forcibly broken up because of the tricks of the fortune-teller in Jianghu, leaving readers with infinite sadness.

In the past, young men and women had no chance to know each other except cousins, so they had to get married with the help of eight characters. Modern men and women are married as husband and wife and can live together. The most important thing is to rely on each other's sincerity and soul. So we must get to know each other and communicate with each other, and have a long time to observe and understand each other's advantages and disadvantages. If we can appreciate each other's advantages, forgive each other's shortcomings, encourage each other to improve their own shortcomings and tolerate each other, then why should we be afraid of any punishment?

Modern marriage is based on free love. If we put forward the character of marriage between men and women, and believe and recognize it, we will not laugh at other people's front teeth and think it is childish, superstitious and pedantic.

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