What do you think after watching a video of a woman marrying a dwarf?

I spent nearly half an hour watching the video my friend sent me, mainly about a woman marrying a dwarf who is ten years older than herself, less than one meter, and only 60 centimeters (friends who are interested in this video can see my circle of friends). I was very touched when I saw it, not by their love, but by their ability to stick to their own path and firm their choices in order to live and survive and face the hardships and cynicism of others.

Frankly speaking, no matter how much I like and love the man in the video, I won't choose him. Loving someone and choosing to live with someone are absolutely two concepts. This requires not only courage, but also forbearance and responsibility. Although I am a woman who has never been confused, my bones are still full of romance and fantasy. I always hope that the man I love and the man who loves me are tall, stalwart and strong ... can carry me on my back, hold me, have a pair of broad shoulders for me to lean on, and let me enjoy thoughtfulness, care and love like an innocent girl. Unlike the woman in the video, holding her own man everywhere is like holding her own child. These two feelings are definitely different. I remember someone always said that I was thin and made me gain a few pounds. I once told others that I was afraid that I would gain weight and that the man who loved me couldn't carry me. I am afraid that I will overwhelm him like a mountain.

It's really sad to see such a man who is less than one meter in the video. In order to survive, he showed how to puncture the car and blow balloons on the tires. When I saw his hands upside down, I felt that the audience was watching a monkey show. If I were you, I couldn't bear to see my other half working so hard anyway. I might as well earn money myself. This is my character. Yes, as the hostess said, there are too many advantages in choosing this short man as her husband. She is kind and simple, lacking love since childhood. On the other hand, if she grew up in a warm family atmosphere with the care of her parents, she would never make such a choice. I don't despise her choice, nor do I criticize her choice, but admire it. Our whole life is to get rid of other people's expectations and find our true self. And in this life, how many people can really get rid of other people's expectations and find their true self? Just like the woman who married the dwarf said, with which man don't make money to send her flowers? Can I say that she is naive or knows too little about this society? In fact, many men in this society just want to find a free nanny and enjoy the convenience of marriage, but they don't want to assume their due responsibilities and obligations in marriage. Nowadays, men value money more and more, even more than their own lives. What is a woman? At best, it's like a dress. You can throw it if you want. Men generally think they have money, so what kind of women can't find it? The woman in the video may not know that there are such stingy men in the world. Women can't go out to work with their children at home. She spends a few more dollars and dozens more, and when she comes back, it will be turned upside down. Can noise solve the problem? Noisy, can the extra few tens of dollars be recovered? It is better to spend more time thinking about how to make more money and make your family happier.

The woman who hurts the most in love always seems to be like this:

They never care about what is the right match, never care about those worldly eyes, and never imagine what kind of man they need and what kind of man they are suitable for. They only believe in feelings ... when they feel this, they will try their best to be kind to that person, as tragic as a moth to a fire. ...

But the moth's ending is obvious. It's a good situation that the head is bleeding and the whole body is bruised. In most cases, in the end, love can only be torn to pieces and reduced to ashes. ...

If a person can't help the person he loves, it's best not to talk about love or not. Of course, help is not equal to love, but love cannot but include help. I quite agree with what the man said in the video: it is worthy of respect for a man to make his loved ones happy with his own efforts and hard work. I think it is more respectable than many families of three, with sound limbs, kneeling in the downtown area, laying a piece of paper describing the disaster and waiting for countless people to give alms.

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