From the chat records of two people, can you know how much the other person likes you?

I don't know if you have the feeling that you can be happy for a long time in your chat record, but I do.

It's not that the person you are chatting with is humorous, just because it's comfortable to chat with him.

He can understand a lot of what you say, and you can share with him what makes you happy and unhappy without scruple.

Maybe, at first, you just thought of him as an ordinary friend in your heart. After a long time, you don't know whether you like him or not, or it has become a habit.

In the chat record, he recorded the traces that he liked you or disliked you, and also recorded the traces that you liked him or disliked him.

I have deceived myself before, thinking that his concern is like.

At that time, I always liked to look for clues in the chat records that he also liked me, and then I looked at the chat records alone and giggled. Now that I think about it, it was quite stupid at that time.

In fact, if a person likes you, you don't have to go to great lengths to search for evidence that he likes you or not. The chat record has already told you the answer.

02

A few days ago, my friend H sent me some screenshots. After I clicked on it, I found that it was all her chat records with the boys she liked.

Actually, my friend H sent me an article written by her a long time ago. This article is full of love for that boy. I have been very sad and helpless, and I can feel her inner sadness.

Still can't help but send a message that belongs to you. I'm glad you really saw it and gave a comment. I didn't think about it, so I told you I was talking about you. I didn't know that the reply I was waiting for was: My girlfriend broke up with me that day, and I was not in the mood. I saw it and forgot to reply. What a simple answer! You know how I feel inside. I am embarrassed, regretful and at a loss. ?

When someone likes you, all her eyes are on you. Your unintentional words will be magnified dozens of times in her heart and reach her heart.

How much you like it, how much it hurts.

Even so, I still play the role of my intimate sister, trying my best to comfort you and give you advice. Suddenly I feel so silly and ridiculous that I can't do a little trick of others. I feel kind and tired. I always get along with you carefully. I am afraid that you know my mind, that you don't know my mind, that you are indifferent to your heart, that I can't extricate myself from you, and that I am afraid of everything. ?

If you like a person, you should continue to play the role of caring little sister beside him while enduring his harm to you. It's not that I'm not tired or painful, but I like it too much.

When you like someone, you always give it to him wholeheartedly, and you can't wait to give him all the beautiful things.

Seeing that he is happy, I will be happy with him, and seeing that he is sad, even if he is sad, I will endure to comfort him, give him advice and find ways.

H sent me a screenshot of the conversation of the boy she comforted.

I don't know what kind of love she has, so that I can resist the uncomfortable feeling in my heart and pretend that nothing is wrong and play the role of bosom sister beside him to comfort him.

She sent him a message that belonged only to him. When everyone around her can guess who she likes, only that boy is still in the dark.

When she tried to comfort him when he was just lovelorn, he was indifferent and just told her as a good friend.

Imagine, if I don't like you, who will waste time chatting with you and comfort you in various ways?

If I don't like you, who will accompany you at the first time when you are sad?

If I don't like you, who will be influenced by you?

I just feel sorry for my friend H. I understand her sadness, her helplessness and her sadness, and I know her love better.

If possible, no one wants to have a secret crush, just want to talk to you from the screen to reality and become someone who can accompany you through life.

If you try your best to get the other person's indifference, then turn around at the right time and find someone who really understands you.

Your goodness deserves to be cherished by others, and you can also be a person who affects others' emotions.

03

In fact, why didn't I see myself in the love of my friend H?

When you like someone, you will always be stupid and naive.

Maybe he will never know what I did behind my back.

He was a soldier for two years, and I always searched the Armed Police Tribe, Baidu, Weibo and even Zhihu for the daily life of the Armed Police. I wonder what he will do every day.

It seems that if you do that, you will be very close to him and will not feel strange because of time and distance.

Especially when I couldn't contact him in the first three months when he was a soldier, I even went to the tribe to join an armed police and a soldier from Xinjiang and asked if this person knew him.

Now that I think about it, I really used everything at that time.

Every time I miss him very much, I will write a mood diary alone. Up to now, I have written many articles about him.

I have never told him these things, I just want to be alone with this love.

In fact, from the chat record with him, I also know that he and I are not suitable. Perhaps, as he said, he is the most suitable person to be my bosom friend.

Every time I chat, I take the initiative to find him. Generally, he only comes to me once in four chats. A person who takes the initiative for a long time will be tired, not to mention a person like me who doesn't take the initiative.

I always reply to his message within a few seconds. How is he? When you ignored me.

Usually, I get angry when he ignores me, and then I forget it, thinking about trying not to take the initiative to find him next time.

Originally, when he sent me a message, I didn't want to reply, so that he could understand my feelings, but often I couldn't help but reply to him in the end.

Every time I finish talking, it's mostly me.

I have seen an example before. The reason why a girl decided to marry that boy is very simple, just because the last sentence is said by that boy after every chat, because he doesn't want to leave the emptiness after the conversation to the girl.

So, you see, those quiet likes are often hidden in the details.

Now I can write these, perhaps because I really dare to face them, and I really put them in my heart.

In fact, I don't regret liking him, because he made me feel the ups and downs, and also let me know the feeling of liking a person.

I remember saying this to him:? Everyone will make do except you, but I don't want to make do. ?

Looking at this sentence now, I can't even imagine that this sentence will be said by me.

Now, I just want to improve myself. I believe that one day I will meet the person who finished chatting with him.

I also believe that I will meet someone who can understand my good and tolerate my shortcomings.

Now, I don't stop believing in love, but I will look forward to him who can be evenly matched with me.

No matter how late it is, I believe we can always meet in the end.

04

I read something in Zhihu, and I agree with it.

Chat records can really tell who uses more emotions.

Chatting with the person you like, turning from page to page, always I talk more and he talks less.

Chatting with someone who likes you, the other person always talks more, but his own response is very few.

Probably only by chatting with people you like can people become talkative. In the face of people who don't feel much, they usually cherish words like gold.

I can't wait to start a conversation with the person I like. So I couldn't help looking for him. Finally, I can't bear to end the conversation first. It starts with you and ends with you.

For people who have no feelings. Don't want to start, just want to finish quickly. ?

In front of the person you like, the introvert will become extroverted, and the person who doesn't like the initiative will become active. Because liking someone can't be hidden at all.

It's not that he doesn't understand, he just doesn't want to understand.

Many times, when we know that the other person may not like you so much, we still choose to deceive ourselves in our hearts.

It's not that I don't want to turn around and leave, I just can't bear it.

05

If you are still wondering whether a person likes you or not, look at the chat history.

See who replies the most every time, who is the first person to start and finally choose to end the conversation?

If you are still reluctant to give up this love, you might as well find a time to open your heart and talk to each other. If appropriate, you will be together. If it doesn't fit, you stop thinking and turn around and leave.

Each of us deserves to be taken seriously. Don't give your heart to the wrong person.

Some like it, and you should choose to leave if you choose to leave; Some like it, knowing that it is impossible to be together, stop loss in time; Some like it, knowing it is inappropriate, but don't wronged themselves to choose?

We also have our pride, we also have our self-esteem, and we also have the right to bravely pursue what we like.

Each of us deserves to be valued, and our goodness deserves to be cherished.

Many times, you don't have to, but only I know your goodness.

I hope that no matter how late it is, the person you finally choose is the one you like, not the one you are forced to choose.