What kind of mentality will lead to what kind of life.

I used to be positive and optimistic. No matter how hard my life is, no matter what setbacks I suffer, I can smile and sing loudly.

My optimistic attitude has infected and inspired many people around me, and they are no longer confused and hesitant because of me.

Many people are willing to talk to me when they are confused and have problems.

I have a heart-to-heart talk with them, and often they come dejected and come back smiling! I often feel satisfied, too.

But later, especially after I walked out of the ivory tower, I found that this society is not as simple and beautiful as I thought, and the earth will not revolve around you.

Many things will make you sad to know the truth.

Facing the vast universe, facing the vast sea of people, I am simply too small, silent and nameless, without flashing.

When you have no connections, no background and no strength, you are nothing to others.

When you face setbacks and suffer cold eyes, you find that there is no one to rely on except family and friends, and no one will be so tolerant of you.

As a result, I was once disheartened and not interested in anything.

I am like a plague chicken, listless and full of pessimism and negativity.

I also found that everyone was avoiding me, and no one wanted to talk to me. Even people who have made good friends with me are indifferent to my Xianglinsao-style talk.

I like reading boring books about philosophy and social sciences.

I like watching depressing literary dramas.

I like listening to sad songs. ...

When talking to people, you sigh after opening your mouth for three or two sentences and hurt yourself.

Every article is negative and pessimistic.

However, I didn't notice all this myself, and most people won't remind you or criticize you.

Until I met the old leader, he said: "The road of life is very long, with flowers and applause, as well as hardships and setbacks. You can't always be so pessimistic, talk and do things, and be passive and slack. Writing an article gives people the feeling of being a dissatisfied housewife. I admit that you have literary talent, but you should write something positive, instead of amplifying pain and rendering sadness, so that people around you are affected by your negative emotions. "

I woke up like a dream.

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"Positive people are like the sun, where they shine. Negative people are like the moon, and the fifteenth day is different. "

As an adult, you should be responsible for your own life, learn to control your emotions and learn to digest your indigestion. It didn't let it grow, but swallowed itself and polluted the surrounding atmosphere.

Like a sunflower, it is always open to the sun.

Just like a hardworking person, he always carries his own light in his heart.

2020 is destined to be an extraordinary year.

All kinds of natural and man-made disasters make people unprepared.

All kinds of negative news make people flustered and desperate.

In particular, I am in a dilemma in the whirlpool of the Philippine epidemic.

In the face of the wanton spread of the epidemic, in the face of enormous economic pressure, unable to return home. ...

I became more wooden and taciturn,

I became more lazy and sloppy,

Not interested in anything,

Be indifferent to the people around you ...

Faced with the "five ones" and the prohibition of foreigners from entering the country,

The family stayed in the Philippines for half a year.

I became very pessimistic, desperate, negative and hesitant.

I can't see the future, I can't see the hope.

Even wrote many very pessimistic articles. ...

This pessimism is spreading in my body, even pushing me to the edge of despair!

Until I met an expert, his words made me feel awake.

He said: "When something big happens, faith is the most important thing. Believe in yourself and stay emotionally stable. In a special period, choose to believe in the country. Keep normal heart and patience, be strong, positive, optimistic and progressive, and don't pass on negative emotions such as panic and depression to people around you. Because when you feel bad, it's not that bad; When you feel good, it's not that good. Do what you have to do, don't worry. "

So I woke up again.

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As the saying goes, each other is born of the heart.

An amiable person,

A kind-hearted person,

A person who often laughs,

Luck is generally not too bad!

I have seen a Hong Kong costume drama before, and the heroine's mantra is "Laugh often, and good luck will come naturally."

You look bitter and bitter. Opening your mouth makes people unhappy, pollutes the atmospheric environment and worries people around you.

Where is your negative aura, where is the pollution, and who will be willing to get close to you? Can you still gain effective contacts?

I subconsciously looked at me in the mirror, unkempt, unshaven and with dim eyes. I was shocked. Is this still me?

I want to embrace the sunshine, be positive, and learn from the enthusiastic uncle in China Talent who said, "Get up in the morning, embrace the sunshine, and make your body full of bright sunshine and positive energy!"

Life has been in a hurry for decades. Looking back, I realize that most of the time, it's not that you can't do it, but that you are not in a good mood, not sunny enough, not confident enough and not active enough.

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I remember in high school, a humorous Chinese teacher told several stories about mentality, encouraging us to face the college entrance examination positively and peacefully.

It is said that a scholar went to Beijing to catch the exam and had three dreams a few days before the exam.

The first dream is that I grow cabbage on the wall.

The second dream is that I wore a hat and an umbrella on a rainy day.

The third dream is that my beloved cousin and I are lying in bed back to back.

The scholar was puzzled, so he went to the fortune teller to answer questions.

Hearing this, the fortune teller sighed, "You'd better go home. It is futile to plant cabbage on the wall. There is no need to wear a hat and an umbrella. Isn't it impossible to lie back to back in bed with your cousin? "

The scholar is disheartened and ready to pack up and go home.

At this time, the innkeeper said, why are you going home before the exam?

The scholar told his dream and the fortune teller's words.

The innkeeper smiled. "I can also interpret dreams. I think you will definitely win the championship this time. " You think that planting cabbage on the wall means that you want high school; Wearing a hat and an umbrella means that you are prepared; Lying in bed back to back means you should turn over. "

Hearing this, the scholar felt very reasonable. So I went to answer the questions with confidence, and finally I went to high school!

Isn't this the role of mentality? On second thought, everything will have unexpected effects. However, people in it often don't know!

People who travel long distances in the desert suddenly see a glass of water, and people who are negative and pessimistic will say, "Alas, there is only half a cup left, which is of no help."

Positive people will say, "Wow, it's a good thing there is half a cup. I can go further! "

Contented people are always happy!

Why are you so miserable?

Because they are not satisfied, they always focus on the distance and the future, ignoring the happiness that can be grasped now.

In front of the epidemic, you are afraid of death! Isn't your family healthy anyway? Don't you know how many people's lives will stop forever in 2020?

In difficult times, you can't eat well and sleep well! Be troubled by the economy! Don't you know how many people in the world are on the verge of life and death?

Although you are stranded in other countries, but you are not satisfied with your family, you want to go back to China together! How many families have been separated for more than half a year?

The Buddhist said, "Don't be greedy for the sky and the moon and forget the lights in the house."

Actually, if you think about it, I've come all the way. From being alone to having so much tangible and intangible wealth, what is there to be satisfied with?

Who knows, what you have now is the future that many people envy!

Seeing a passage in a friend's article, I suddenly felt suddenly enlightened: "Life is like an old hen. Positive people only see eggs, and negative people see chicken shit. "

Three people build a wall, and someone asks them what they are doing. The first man said grumpily, "Don't you see the wall?"

The second man smiled and said, "We are building a tall building."

The third man smiled and said, "We are building a beautiful new city."

10 years later, the first person is still building a wall, the second person becomes an engineer, and the third person is the boss of the first two people.

Everyone's starting point is similar, but the goals are different, the ideals are different, the mentality is different, and the final result is very different!

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Dickens said: A sound mind is more powerful than a hundred kinds of wisdom.

This kind of sound mentality is to be optimistic, take the initiative to meet challenges and change yourself to adapt to the ever-changing external environment.

Crisis, crisis, where there is danger, there is opportunity.

Every time a crisis comes, there are always people who face difficulties and seek opportunities in the crisis.

There are always people who are devastated and give up on themselves!

This is an era of great change, the reorganization of the world order, the prosperity of business opportunities and the rise of personal counterattacks!

This is an era of great decline. The once-in-a-thousand-year COVID-19 epidemic, economic crisis and unemployment frenzy swept the world. ...

Everything has two sides, depending on what kind of mentality you have to look at the problem and face the challenge.

However, under the influence of such a serious epidemic "black swan", there are still many enterprises and industries whose performance in the first half of the year has increased against the trend, and look at the following three news:

1, the performance forecast of Muyuan, a large pig producer, has increased substantially in the first half of the year, and the company's estimated profit is 105 billion yuan-100 billion yuan.

2. Amazon's cloud computing business revenue in the first half of the year exceeded $654.38+06 billion, a year-on-year increase of nearly 40%.

3. Under the influence of epidemic situation and complex external forces, Huawei's revenue in the first half of 2020 was 454 billion yuan.

Similarly, there are a large number of medical insurance companies, take-away companies, express delivery companies, online retail, self-media, snack companies, and webcast industries. However, it was countered in the epidemic. Can you say that there is no chance when the crisis comes?

There are countless tragedies in this world every day. If it happens that we are not the protagonist of the tragedy, then why should we face life with a pessimistic and negative attitude? Life is already bitter, so why not stay with the legendary swordsman positively and optimistically?

Xi Murong said: Setbacks come and go, and tears flow and are put away. Nothing can discourage me, because I still have a long life.