Li Ao's classic sentences about life and love.

Li Ao's understanding of the classic sentence of love in life: an act is not the personal act of a lieutenant officer serving in a certain army, but a reflection of an ancient and poor love tradition. Only those who don't know what love is will burn the harp and cook the crane, be so driven away and be so arrogant. True love is never like this. It is not beautiful and free, and it is by no means true love!

Modern China people must practice and learn how to modernize and develop modern love with modern standards and emotional appeal. Obsessed with the autumn rain phoenix tree, why is it like spring water heating? Why not build a tower alone? In romantic love, there is no root or similarity between China culture and local culture. Although born from the same root, the soil is wrong, which is really bad for us in modern times.

For many years, I groped for the right way of love under the tradition, and finally I finally found it, and I finally got the joy of liberation. I want to remind you of some key points.

Love is not blind in Zhang Fei's eyes.

According to the myth, Cupid, the god of love with little wings, gambled with his lover and finally lost everything, so he gambled with his eyes and finally lost, becoming blind. If love is blind, this is how it comes out. But I think love is blind and wrong. I think love should be like Zhang Fei's eyes in the romance of the Three Kingdoms. He sleeps 24 hours a day, except blinking.

Love with eyes open is true love. There should be no beauty in the eyes of lovers. Love should know each other's advantages and disadvantages, so that there will be no inappropriate hopes and disappointments. For example, if you love a so-called new woman, but she is engaged in astrology, fortune telling, Wei Zi graffiti and Machamp's confusion all day, you will know that she is nothing new. Her brain is actually an old woman in rural China and Greek countryside, but you might as well love her, but don't be blind.

Love is painless, but pure happiness.

I think the love between men and women is the greatest happiness of mankind. This kind of happiness is pure happiness and should not be mixed with other things, especially pain. In the past, Mr Hu Shizhi wrote a letter to his friend. The price of his love is pain, and the way of his love is to endure pain.

I think he is all wrong. The pain in love is the performance of narrow-mindedness, narrow-mindedness and technical mistakes. A real first-class person does not suffer for love, just like a foreign poet said! Love! They have greatly misunderstood you!

They say that your sweetness is pain, when your rich fruit is sweeter than any fruit.

This is a healthy concept of love.

Love is as important as meat, and spirit is as important as meat.

There has been an unfounded paradox since ancient times, that is, spiritualism, or the supremacy of the soul, or the worship of the soul over the flesh. No matter how you fold the bedstead and interpret it, the basic tone of this strange theory is nothing more than high spirit, holiness and goodness; Meat is low, evil and bad. This idea is wrong.

A foreign poet once skillfully pointed out with beautiful poems that spirit is to meat as meat is to spirit.

This is a great reminder of the equality between spirit and flesh! The poet also pointed out that meat is a symbol of happiness, which can be used to weave a beautiful rose net for the spirit. This insight is really worthy of reflection by the Taoist priest with pure soul and impure body. People who know how to love will never ignore any aspect of spirit and body.

Love can be changed. Kissing should be separated.

In love, no one wants to see the feelings changing, but the feelings are obviously changing. People who don't admit that the feelings are changing don't understand love. Many people don't understand this, and try their best to consolidate their feelings with various guarantees and means, and keep their feelings unchanged with vows of eternal love, ethics, money and morality, laws, rings, marriage certificates, children, and even knives and guns. I think these are not the attitudes of first-class people. The attitude of first-rate people is natural and unrestrained, free and easy, just like a foreign poet said, since there is no way, let's kiss and part!

This is the attitude of a first-rate person.

Love is complicated. Don't go down the mountain together.

Admit that feelings are changing, and then deal with this change skillfully. (In the Water Margin, Wang Po said that there are five conditions for a relationship between men and women. The fourth condition is small, and small means technology, that is, consideration and no technical mistakes. Even if you get married, you should send roses, and if you get divorced, you should send roses. Roosters are not skilled in hens, drakes are not skilled in female ducks, and bullies are not skilled in bows. But a first-class man is not a rooster, drake or bully, and he will naturally handle love skillfully.

Relationships between men and women are like going up a mountain together. I think we can be together when we go up the mountain. When we get to the top of the mountain, we should go, not down the mountain together, nor down the mountain together. The highest skill between men and women is not to go downhill together. When feelings have aftertaste, end the relationship first, don't be possessed by evil spirits and kill them all.

Love is beautiful, not real, not kind.

Some women want to pursue truth, goodness and beauty in love. I think such people are too greedy. We are used to talking about truth, goodness and beauty, which is really a question of philosophy of science. Goodness is a question of ethics, economics and sociology, and beauty is a question of aesthetic art. I don't think women are suitable for pursuing any questions involving truth, goodness and beauty. You only need to make a choice once. If truth, goodness and beauty can't have both, women must choose one third. Women in the world would rather not be real women, not be good women, but be beautiful women. Women would rather be fake women, bad women and beautiful women. In other words, women are beautiful in nature. Women are really not suitable for seeking truth and choosing good. Women take feelings as evidence. How can such a person choose the truth? Women treat bad people as good people. How to choose such a person? Therefore, women pursue the truth, and the truth goes further and further; Women choose good and stubborn, and the more they choose good and evil, the closer they get. Women can only pursue beauty. If a (a) woman pursues truth and kindness, acts for heaven and values righteousness more than home, terrible mistakes will occur.

I believe that all relationships between men and women are beautiful, so should love, marriage and divorce. There should be nothing but beauty between men and women.

Li Ao's famous love story

1. Marry because you don't know, divorce because you know. Because I have always been like that, you think I will always be like that.

3. It is easier to love your compatriots than to love your neighbors, and it is more practical to hate your neighbors than to hate your compatriots.

It is inevitable to get hurt in life, but don't get hurt on your back when you run away.

I'm never afraid that women don't love me. She does not love me, so I love myself more.

6. Many people want to scold me. If you want to scold, please line up. It's hard to say whether it's your turn.

7. Love begins with self-deception and ends with deception; Politics begins by deceiving others and ends by deceiving yourself.

8. Please believe that I 100% love you, but now there is the thousandth one, please stand back.

9. What a person can do is worthwhile: like what you like, fight what you don't like, and live what you hate!

10, all women will cheat, as long as there is an opportunity! Women cheat before the age of 30, and catch rape after 30.

1 1, she doesn't need to have sex, but she can; He needs sex, but he doesn't. This is the difference between a beauty and a hero.

12, stupid people are terrible not because they are stupid, but because they are smart. Stupid people can't do the stupidest things, and the stupidest things are done by smart people.

13, the heart brings pain, and the penis brings happiness. The priest's mistake is that his heart is high and his penis is miserable, so only the monk sympathizes with him.

14, youth means not believing in evil and refusing rickets; Young people should have fun, refuse boredom and ruin themselves; You must fight for strength when you are young, and you can't refuse to exaggerate!

15, reincarnation is not credible. It is cowardly and selfish to believe that there is an afterlife after death. It is a noble life and a noble death to die without any hope for the afterlife.

16. Meeting is just a casual meeting, just a broken ping-pong, just running water, just once, and there is no next time. Farewell is forever, where will you go. Let the back in her eyes blur, and what you see is no longer there.

17, no one is worth fighting with me, and everyone must apologize to me. No one can beat me, because I am invincible. Don't argue with me, one more word will expose one more point of stupidity.

18, he sat by the water, his thoughts drifting, just like duckweed on the water. But who deserves duckweed? Duckweed still has roots, but I, the emperor, was imprisoned on an island and even uprooted.

19, I only love you a little, others' love is like the deep sea, mine is shallow. I only love you a little. Other people's love is like eternal love, but mine is short-lived. I only love you a little. Other people's love is flirting. I only peek at you.

Li Ao's famous saying

Li Ao's famous saying

1, sometimes explanations are unnecessary: enemies don't believe your explanations, and friends don't need your explanations, Li Ao.

2, as a weak person, you can't live well; To be strong, you must die of natural causes. Li ao

3. What a person can do is worthwhile: like what you like, fight what you don't like, and live what you hate! Li ao

The first happiness in life is to do what you think you can't do, and the second happiness in life is to do what others think you can't do. Li ao

The way I swear is that people call you a bastard, but I have a skill. I can prove that you are an asshole, Li Ao.

6. An iron pestle can be ground into a needle, and a wooden pestle can only be ground into a toothpick. The material is wrong, and it's no use trying again. Li ao

7. If you don't take the initiative, the beauty will let other men climb on her. If you don't refuse, an ugly girl will climb on you. If you don't say yes, no woman will let you climb on her. In fact, work is the same: if you don't take the initiative, good positions will be taken away by others. Don't refuse, everything will be arranged for you, and you will often be criticized. You don't promise that no leader will believe you, because the leader can't feel your determination. Li ao

8. Forget who I am, Li Ao

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1, you don't know how much I want to stay after you leave me; I try not to think about you every day. You don't know, you think I don't love you; You in my heart forever. You don't know, I have been too cold to you, because I am afraid that I love you too much and lose myself. You don't know, I really really don't want to leave you; You really left me.

2. A person can fall in love with many people in his life. When you get the happiness that truly belongs to you, you will understand that the pain together is actually a kind of wealth, so that you can learn to better grasp and cherish the people you love.

3. I am afraid of the dark, but I fell in love with the night; Fear of pain, but let yourself be scarred; I hate excitement, but I am afraid of loneliness; I love you, but I'm afraid you will turn away one day; I like happiness, but I still shed tears for you; I used to think that I was your spring, but I forgot that spring was followed by winter; I thought I could quit love, internet and sadness, but I forgot that it was you who was the hardest to quit.

4, don't shout pain, not necessarily without feeling. No need, not necessarily not expected. No tears, not necessarily no scars. Silence doesn't mean you have nothing to say. Leaving doesn't mean you are smart. Being happy doesn't mean not being sad. Smiling is sometimes like a band-aid. Although it covers up the wound, it still hurts. We have been practicing smiling, and finally we become people who are afraid to cry.

I don't think that when people are mature, they are more tolerant and can accept everything. On the contrary, I think it should be a process of gradual elimination, knowing what is the most important and what is not. Then, be a simple person.

6. It turns out that love never left, but I remember, you forgot! What is lost is lost, hurt or hurt. Apologizing can't turn back the clock, nor can it let go of what has happened-someone can take you anywhere; Someone responded and said anything; Because it is a matter of two people, even if it is boring, it will become very happy.

7. It is painful to love someone. I love him in my life and hope to love him again in my next life. I can't bear it. I can't ask it. Why? I just want to see my wish for my lover, that is, I want to live again and love again. When I see you again in this life, how many people can still remember my past life.

8. If you want to live an ordinary life, you will encounter ordinary setbacks. If you want to live the best life, you will encounter the strongest harm. The world is fair. If you want the best, it will definitely give you the greatest pain. If you can break through, you are the winner. If not, then go back and be an ordinary person. Success is not about how smart you are, nor about selling yourself out, but about whether you can pull through with a smile.

9. Love will cool down. A dull day, the most important thing is to always warm two hearts close to each other. Love will precipitate. Remember to shake the cup of love from time to time in the days when you get along!

10 in fact, love is ordinary, that is, men and women understand each other, respect each other, care about each other, and learn from each other's strengths. The scene of the story is always family and society; The plot of the story never exceeds that men fall in love with women or women fall in love with men; The ending of the story is either tragedy or comedy, and there is never a middle way.

1 1, dear yourself, love yourself, no one will feel bad for you. If you are unhappy, find a corner or cry in the quilt. You don't need sympathy. Dear yourself, learn to control your emotions. No one owes you anything, so don't lose your temper with others casually. Dear yourself, there is only one you in the world. Love yourself even if no one knows how to appreciate it.

12, when I was young, I wanted to talk about a love many times, but as I grew older, I finally understood that loving someone, even if it took me a lifetime, would still be enough. It takes a very broad mind to get to know this person slowly and understand this person until you fall in love with him.

13, an unacceptable love needs not sadness, but time, a time to forget. A deeply broken heart needs not sympathy, but understanding.

14. If one day, I am not in your memory, don't forget every minute we met. When a person is used to the existence of another person, even without love and love, he will still feel lost and a little sad. There is no fairness in the emotional world, and I don't care. Our days together will be the best memories in my life.

15, always have a place to be alone in front of yourself. Then there is love. I don't know what it is, who it is, how to love, and how long it can last. Just wait for love once, maybe there will never be anyone. However, this kind of waiting is love itself.

16, a familiar number, and a day when there is an empty number. No matter how painful the memories are, there will be a forgotten day; No matter how beautiful the dream is, there is also a day to wake up; People who love again will go far one day; The plot of Rashomon also has an end; Let bygones be bygones, time will dilute everything, and there is still a long way to go in the future. There is nothing that can't pass, only the mood that can't pass.

17, when tomorrow becomes today, yesterday and the last unimportant day in memory, we suddenly find ourselves being pushed forward by time unconsciously. This is not the illusion that we are moving forward when we are in a stationary train and cross with adjacent trains, but that we really grow up on this matter and become another ourselves.

18, what should the so-called love look like: vigorous and desperate, is it love? Caring for each other and holding hands is always love? Plain as water, respectful as a guest, is it love? True love should be that two people understand each other, respect each other, don't entangle, don't shrink back, don't possess, and then go through a long journey together.

19, everyone wants a relationship to have a result, and no one wants a beautiful love to be painful in the end, but if you don't care about eternity from the beginning and only care about the attitude you once had, no matter how beautiful the relationship is, it won't have a good result. The cardamom years are fleeting, so why should we taste bitterness again in our short life?

20. Many girls don't know the difference between love and desire, and simply think that a man's tenderness for himself is love. In fact, responsible love is love. Irresponsible love is lust. Impulsive love can't stand the test of time. So the ancients called it dew couple. Yesterday, I loved you, but today I may be a stranger. This kind of love is really meaningless except killing time and stimulating nerves.

2 1, if you have something to say, don't wait for the other person to understand, because the other person is not you and doesn't know what you want. In the end, you can only be sad and disappointed, especially feelings.

22, the deep words should be shallow, and the long road should be wasted. The world should be truly felt, and the painful wound should be gently rubbed. Bless bravely at other times. When you are not understood, you will always feel distressed if you believe that you are worthy of your dreams. People who care should love stupidly, and take your time with what you have experienced. Don't forget, be gentle; Don't forget to be happy.

23. One day, friendship and love met. Love asks friendship: Why do you have me in the world? Friendship said with a smile: love can make people cry, and the existence of friendship is to help people dry their tears! Between friends, there is little concern.

If one day we are separated, I will forget everything about you. Then, try to forgive you, forgive the rainy day that took you away. Then re-measure the distance from me to you to see if there is any green space for you to fall emotionally. When you leave, the world is no longer beautiful, but those tearful memories are always beautiful.

Love is a lamp, while friendship is the shadow. When the light goes out, you will find shadows all around you. A friend is someone who can give you strength in the end.

26. True love is to accept, not to endure; It is support, not domination; It is sympathy, not questioning; True love, thanks and apologies. Be considerate and considerate. If you want to admit your mistake, it is better to correct it; True love is not gazing at each other, but looking in the same direction. In fact, love is not about finding a perfect person. On the contrary, we should learn to appreciate an imperfect person with perfect eyes.

27. Each of us lives in our own past. It takes a minute to get to know someone, an hour to like someone, a day to love someone, and finally, a lifetime to forget someone.

28. I like and am used to keeping a distance from changing things, so that I can know what is the law that will not be abandoned by time. For example, if loving someone is full of variables, I will take a step back and watch it quietly until I see sincere feelings.

29. Who hasn't suffered for that secret love? We always think that infatuation is very heavy, very heavy, the heaviest weight in the world. One day, suddenly looking back, we found that it has been very light, very light. We think love is deep, deep, and the years to come will let you know that it is only shallow, very shallow. The deepest and heaviest love must grow with time.

30. True love needs to wait, but waiting too long is a kind of destruction to love. Long life, the world of mortals, flowers are similar year after year, people are different year after year. If you can't wait in this life, don't look forward to the next life. As soon as Naihe Bridge crossed, he became a stranger again. Therefore, cherish meeting, cherish love, cherish possession and cherish people around you. After all, no one can stand the change of time, and no one can wait until the afterlife to love.