Talking skills described in words in the book

"Zhang Zijiaxun" thinks that speech skills are not equal to eloquence. You can see that a person speaks quickly, but he has a desire to express himself. Don't you know that there are many people who can talk in the world, but they are also cheated? What exactly is speech? Some people simply understand it as a speaking skill, but in fact it should be understood as "the art of language".

1) Observation-Why is Guiguzi's fortune-telling extremely accurate? That's because he can get a lot of information from you at a glance.

2) Tone-Only by creating a very good conversation condition will others be willing to talk to you.

3) intonation-only when you speak in cadence can you "speak better than sing" and make people forget the time to listen to your "nonsense"

4) Grammar-Only by frequently using various rhetorical devices of parallelism can we achieve the desired effect. For example, adding rhetorical questions after parallelism can achieve very good results. For example (I think, I think, I think, what do you think? Isn't it? )

5) Expression-Only rich expressions can increase the input of the other party and achieve the basic expressive force of the dialogue.

6) Eyes-If you dare not look directly into the eyes of the other person, then your speaking skills are very weak. You shouldn't eat speech skills. Let your eyes talk, laugh and convince others naturally.

7) Action-Appropriate actions can increase the three-dimensional sense of the language atmosphere, and too many small moves will make others dislike you.

8) Key-The key to mastering a language is the watershed of speaking level. If three sentences can't interest others, I suggest you give up all the words behind!

9) Tone-Use with one heart and four minds: 1, control the speed and emotion when speaking, 2, observe the other person's expression with your eyes, 3, analyze the other person's thoughts and ideas, 4, immediately find a new tangent point and explosion point and make an accurate prediction of the result of the tangent point.

10) Emotions-If you can assist other emotions as branches in conversation, then you can achieve perfection.