How to convince a stubborn person, my mother

I know exactly how you feel. As a child, you do well, but the mother must be the mother. She did something wrong, but she also contributed to her family.

In some ways, you must understand her, tolerate her, care about her, and let her feel that her family loves her from the heart.

First: You said: My mother is very stubborn and won't listen to anything she says. Everyone is very sad.

I said: this is a matter of personality. Besides, your mother may be good at housekeeping at ordinary times and capable when she was young, so she refuses to accept her old age and wants to do something useful for her family. But maybe most people she is in contact with now believe in superstition. Over time, her brain is occupied by these things, so she thinks of such strange things every day. You can't make her completely disbelieve this question. It's impossible.

Second: As a son, you should patiently convince her that you will never believe in superstition, and try your best to help her do other meaningful things, such as not spending money, or telling her to go to a university for the aged, where people will tell her that many uneducated people have been cheated, tell her to watch more TV news about superstitious scams, or find examples on computer videos to show her, so that her mind will be affected.

Third: You said: What did she do before? Amway is really harmful. The family lost a lot of money, and the products could not be sold, so they forced the family to press.

I said: in fact, there are many such people. Your mother is really capable. It is difficult for Amway workers to make money. She was cheated by others, because I was almost cheated by others, and I am still a good friend. I said a lot of things to help me get rich, and I was really a little sad at that time. Later, I told my friend: I can't take other people's money for nothing, otherwise I will not sleep and get sick. Later my friend lost money.

Fourth: You said: She is quarreling with my dad now and going to court to sue for divorce. She blames me for not adjusting well every day.

I said: this kind of thing can't be taken seriously. Divorce will have a great influence on you. You should persuade your father not to argue with her and scare your mother: if you go on like this, I will ignore you.

Fifth: I wonder if your mother will surf the Internet. If so, I can help her to focus on the Internet as much as possible, because I am also the mother of a child.